I hope there is way we can push the transaction thru -with a fee of course.
But currently there isn't such option...
In separate thread I was told blockchain client would eventually forgets about the transaction at all? Now I am worried whether I will see my BTC again..
getting a confirmation is normally only needed between 2 people who do not fully trust each other, this is to make sure the sender does not send the coin and then also send the exact same balance back to himself, causing the amount sent to the other party becoming void.
if you are doing a transaction to a friend and he knows you well enough to not cheat him, or at least knows you well enough to know where to go to slap you across the face with a wet fish if you did cheat him. then you wont have to worry about confirmations