Most of your argoments are correct and they are not contraddicting mine, just fine tuning them. I don't pretend to state absolute truths, just want to draw attention to the complexity of the creation of value in crypto, where Metcalfe's law is only one of the agents in play, and it doesn't apply if the nodes are not real nodes.
My point was that non-participants are not users/nodes at all, you classify them as "fake nodes" and you consider "real nodes" only those who have put real money into it? Same with telephone, just having it, but not using it doesn't make it you a node of the network.
But in one one thing you are not correct. If you have $1 million or 100 BTC which you've somehow got for free or super-cheap, you don't actually have any skin in the game. You have a lot of money which you didn't have to pay for, which means you didn't have to put your skin at risk to get it. What you have is a free lunch, which of course you wouldn't like to lose, but you could sell it any moment at any price and you would always be in positive territory, since it didn't cost you anything. Money that you had to work for you have paid it with your life - that is skin in the game.
As I understand "skin in the game", it doesn't matter what is the source of the income. If you play a lottery or you inherit fortune, you have earned it. You had to do something for these events to happen, even if it was as small thing as not to be an a$shole towards the people who raised you. After all, their trusted they fortune to you, not to some cats shelter.
Same thing with "GBYTE to BTC holders distribution", haven't you earned the GBYTE if you hodling Bitcoin and supporting that technology, without which Obyte would probably be here today. After all it wasn't just airdropped to all BTC holders, but just those who bother to link the addresses.
Same thing with Draw Airdrop, it just improved "GBYTE to BTC holders distribution", which back then already featured "GBYTE to GBYTE holders distribution". "Prince of Whales" rewards you for not having dumped your GBYTE and still having the "skin in the game". Even if the GBYTE is not that much worth in dollar value, winners of that draw increase their percentage of GBYTE holding compared to total supply. "King of Goldfish" is not just linking your address either, you have earn it for using Obyte features like "Real name attestation". Current strategy to win "King of Goldfish" is not just by loading up your address as much GBYTE as possible, the points and randomness from BTC block favors those who refer as many "Real name attested" people as possible and load up each of those persons address with optimal 10GB. In order they could get others to do the "Real name attestation", they probably use smart-voucher to refer them too. So, the amount of Obyte features they use, grows exponentially if you want to win with "King of Goldfish". So, what do we call those who use Obyte features? Users. Will they keep using Obyte after just linking to Draw Airdrop, signs say that they don't, they just hodl or refer more people who hodl. So, when calculating Obyte value by Metcalfe's law, they shouldn't be considered as users after they are done with the linking.
During the last bullrun a few years ago I got theoretically rich in FIAT terms because the alts I had got for nothing suddenly mooned - but I didn't sell and after the crash I am again just poor as before. But in real terms I didn't lose anything crucial, like thirty years of life or more which usually you would need to put aside such amounts of money - that would have been skin in the game - I've just lost an amazing free lunch, a Black Swan which has suddenly popped up in my living room and then has suddenly flown out of the open window.
And as I understand from the Ivory Tower board, you consider someone who keeps updating their mining equipment (most probably with the BTC mining rewards) also "skin in the game"? So, if you would have changed you BTC into ASIC miners, would that have made you have "skin in the game". Or you only have skin in the game when you invest money that you earned outside of cryptoverse?
The "skin in the game" doesn't matter about the source of the wealth, but from the risk of losing it. Just that the value of you bags have gone down, doesn't mean that you have lost it. So, in that sense, had you bought ASIC miners ATH, you would have lost it, but your "skin in the game" would have been in the mining, not in the alts anymore.
Whales without skin in the game who believe in the Obyte project can be good nodes all the same. But should they some day for any reason lose faith in the project they could easily quit the game at any stage with no real loss, just because of their lack of skin in the game.
They have skin in the game with the amount they have because their interest is that the asset doesn't loose value. They also can't sell their bags on exchange either because these amount would crash the market and they bags will lose value before they could even sell small fraction of it. The whole sell side of Bittrex Obyte orderbook is only 5k GBYTE while the top 3 whales have 60k, 40k and 20k GBYTE. If the sell it, they sell it OTC, by hiring someone to find the buyer first.