You're being far too sensitive here, I think.
There has been a ton of fraud in bitcoin services— plenty of people taking whatever coin they can get and running. You can now trivially purchase hashing power on demand. Pools have been _regularly_ attacked with overt attacks, Eligius is being hit with 20GBit/sec as we speak. The solidcoin people run a pool with the explicit goal of 'taking out bitcoin', complete with graphics that look like they were made by a 14 year old wannabe mob boss. People can now purchase large amounts of hash power at a small premium via services like gpumax.
And, no— there isn't an abundance of hard evidence, part of the reason that pool oriented attacks are concerning is because there simply wouldn't be an abundance of evidence. Blockchain.info's identification is crap except for the few well tagged pools that they identify and can easily be obscured by anyone who wants to try to do so. Certainly the fact that operators continue to deploy proportional pools that get their non-hopping customers ripped off doesn't bode well for their diligence even if they aren't ever actually malevolent.
Basically it comes down to trust: Do miners trust the pool operators to not attack Bitcoin or other pools, do they trust them to keep their setups correctly running, do they trust them to adopt and correctly implement fair payment schemes, do they trust them to not hand them the dirty proceeds of laundering instead of fresh coins, do they trust them not to pad the share counts or 'lose' shares, or to simply run off with the miners funds?
Often that trust is justified— it certainly seems to to be in your case. But even so, Bitcoin was created for the explicit purpose of reducing the points of trust we needed to have in our currency system. Please don't take it personally when people point out the potential weaknesses of all the avoidable trust pooling can add back to the system.