Is good to plan, don't live your life on a plata of Gold.
If someone has the opportunity to live life on a
silver gold plata why deny yourself the good life..someone worked hard to ensure you lived it this way,good stuff don't just fall from the sky..
The first time I had bulk money was during my higher institution days, as a student we know and hear too many things but only few chose to do something, opportunity of MMM, crypto currency and Achievers forum sorry mentioning them here came to me in school and I grasps it and as God may have it, I make a lot of money but the first thing that came to my mind was to buy car, I bought two cars, place one as a taxi and one private use as school big boy but non of this happen to play out well.
School days are times of make or break time and most have more cash inflows around this time to make use of all these opportunities that throw themselves at us but it's all about making the right decisions.
The Taxi cab had an accident and piece in bits and I sold it out auction price, same thing happen to the one I was using in school and it was a tragedy scenes, it was sold as Scrabs. I used the remaining money to live extravagant lifestyles, going out with friends, carrying girls to where we can't ordinarily afford bills, buying wears we don't need, gadgets and accessories we don't match our income or status but all this turn out against me. I lost almost everything, for two years after my school I could afford a dime, no job, no source income, I have nothing in my bitcoin wallets, life balls back to zero level.
Honestly I don't see an issue of spending out of budget but rather a case of someone spending out of frustration after losing two valuables... probably call this trying to forget what happened,but hey we all learn from our mistakes no need of being hard on ourselves this is a normal reaction that anybody would do to try and forget such.
Today I can boastfully said this not to impress you or give you a plan but is good to plan your life, know what you want per time, avoid impulse buying, avoid competition, avoid extravagant lifestyle, have a routine, draw your scale of preference, learn forgone alternative principles. Life on earth is short if you can't get it right, and life is hell if you're not living it right.
Appreciate the advice buddy but let's also agree that life has no blue print on how to go on with it ..we all have our own path's to live but precautions should be necessary to avoid the pitfalls of life.