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Topic: please help me seriously to leave gambling ???? - page 12. (Read 1441 times)

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If you really want to eliminate gambling in your routine you should divert your attention to other activities, something that would really consume your time so you will forget going to casino at all. But I should tell you, that is so difficult to handle and you must be willing to control yourself, actually it's your attitude towards change can only help you to stay away from gambling.
That is not so easy to apply. In fact gambling is a game once a person become addicted then it become difficult for them to stop it at once, for that he need to do regular struggle. In face once a person become addicted to gambling then even if he losing money he try to continue playing gambling because he think that he can make more money in gambling as compare to any other business or job which is time consuming and take a lot of time.
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This topic has been discussed many times before, you should try to search it first. There are many suggestions already, choose one which is suitable for you. No need to wait other suggestions anymore because it will be just a repetitive/similar suggestions that has been posted many times before.

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If you really want to eliminate gambling in your routine you should divert your attention to other activities, something that would really consume your time so you will forget going to casino at all. But I should tell you, that is so difficult to handle and you must be willing to control yourself, actually it's your attitude towards change can only help you to stay away from gambling.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Again! It's already like routine you will only lose because you are addicted in gambling. Gambling is very dangerous game you will not become millionaire as long as you will still gambling. Those who really addicted some of them already in a deep problem and some of them commits suicide because they lose everything. That's what gambling functions in every gamblers addicted.
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Find another activity or hobby. The only reason why I gamble is because of fun and because its money that if I lose it I dont mind. Make sure you seek family support and go to a psychiatrist to talk about your problem.

Yes, it is almost impossible to get rid of gambling if you are used to it or you are addicted to it. Gambling gives a lot of people internal satisfaction and many people cant live without it. Even i have seen people take loans just to play gambling. A few of them are able to pay their loans back and most of them just ruin their life. I always say to play gambling with only the amount you can afford to lose.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

MOVE ON. Just accept the fact that you cannot recover your losses anymore and just move on. Yes, it may be hard to swallow the losses but that's one of the risks that you have to accept when gambling. We may realise big profits from gambling but we may also incur losses at the same time. Another thing, you should know that gambling creates this endless illusion of betting regardless of your winnings or losings. Lastly, you should know WHEN TO STOP gambling as this is the primary reason on why most individuals tend to be bankrupt.

The thing is that these people do not know the essence of moving on because they will EITHER go home with absolutely nothing OR with negative accounts due to debts. Hence, they SEEM to not have any choice but try to WIN again because it is the ONLY way they get to get their losses back, pay their debts, AND earn. These trio they cannot sacrifice thus they keep going no matter how the lights of gambling have dimmed for them.

I see your point, mate, just that these people are already giving themselves ultimatum to never back up until they win BIG. As to when such time comes, we can never tell. They are all for gambling whatever there is in the hopes of winning. As you can see, they really do not have much choice.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

MOVE ON. Just accept the fact that you cannot recover your losses anymore and just move on. Yes, it may be hard to swallow the losses but that's one of the risks that you have to accept when gambling. We may realise big profits from gambling but we may also incur losses at the same time. Another thing, you should know that gambling creates this endless illusion of betting regardless of your winnings or losings. Lastly, you should know WHEN TO STOP gambling as this is the primary reason on why most individuals tend to be bankrupt.
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Find another activity or hobby. The only reason why I gamble is because of fun and because its money that if I lose it I dont mind. Make sure you seek family support and go to a psychiatrist to talk about your problem.

Finding something new might do the trick for OP to quit gambling for real, but it depends on his mind setting. Let's say he already find something new, a new hobby, but after a week he felt incomplete, something is missing in his life, so he went back to his old routine and play gambling again, what is the point here? it is about if gambling became a habit of a person, it will be too hard for him to quit on it, maybe it will take some time if he could fight the urge on playing gambling again.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

Following are my suggestions:

1) You can consult  a doctor for this and he will write medicines related to anxiety. These generally belong to SSRIs.

2) There are therapies where you are made to interact with past gamblers who were able to quit this by determination.

3) Finally, it is important to keep yourself busy. Try to spend more time with family or prick a hobby.
before doing all this,he must first consult hes family because if theres someone whi can help him seriously ,morally and truthfully its the family(ofcourse with God) .this is the typical case of addiction and this is not an easy task to quit so if theres some important person to be part of this.thats our family,our loveones than will be there in times like this
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Find another activity or hobby. The only reason why I gamble is because of fun and because its money that if I lose it I dont mind. Make sure you seek family support and go to a psychiatrist to talk about your problem.
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First is you need to swallow you pride and accept that your a loser because the thirst of turning it around is what most gamblers drives them to go back and play. Second is cut your internet connection for some months.

Ideally, setting yourself into limit can really help you from getting out of the casinos and you must commit on that for you to succeed. Its not easy to stop from the things you used to lived but you must try it. Gambling is not a good addiction after all, so better to think again.
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First is you need to swallow you pride and accept that your a loser because the thirst of turning it around is what most gamblers drives them to go back and play. Second is cut your internet connection for some months.
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You have already lost 10 bitcoins in gambling and you still don't stop your gambling addiction, you will just continue to lose more, casino have a better chance to win your money with the house edge, if you want to stop gambling, maybe you could try to pass your money to someone you trust, let them hold the money for you and therefore you can't gamble anymore.
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That's huge money, OP! You were quite a rich man before you started gambling as those 10 coins would buy you a house right now. Your case is quite extreme and the only thing I'd recommend is to either start living in a secluded place, with no casinos and no Internet, until the urge passes, or going to a rehab.
It's the same with all addicts. Either you can do it yourself or with the help of your family or you can't and it will be the end of you if you don't start fighting it. There are people and institutions that specialize in cases like yours. Don't waste time and money thinking you can get those lost coins back and trying to play the system, because obviously the system is playing you.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
I really don’t know if there is a rehab for gamblers but I think you should really make sure that you check yourself into one or try attending those gamblers support groups and instead of gambling find something else to do.
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Not only you,many are struggling with this. To leave from gambling,you have to control your mind. It's purely based on your mind set.In gambling you will get profit sometimes and even loss .You should not excited once you win and don't worry if you loss a huge.You should not continue to play to get the lost dollars.
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The only one that can help you is yourself, if you dont committed to keep your promise then any advice is useless, go find a psychiatrist to help you to deal with your addiction, keep yourself busy with hobby and activities, then always remember how gambling affect your life

Family support and religion become the primary help for addicted gambler since it's difficult to do it without any help of people around.
I have my neighbours but they have different fate , first one , the gambler finally recovered because their family was support him meanwhile the second was commit to suicide !
This is the possible outcome when you are really broke and too addicted with gambling, worse part is after seeing that you can't control your emotions and too much stress was been brought by heavy gamble then corruptions inside your minds will followed, better to seek personal help with either your friends or family relatives aside from seeking psychological medications and treatment.
legendary
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The only one that can help you is yourself, if you dont committed to keep your promise then any advice is useless, go find a psychiatrist to help you to deal with your addiction, keep yourself busy with hobby and activities, then always remember how gambling affect your life

Family support and religion become the primary help for addicted gambler since it's difficult to do it without any help of people around.
I have my neighbours but they have different fate , first one , the gambler finally recovered because their family was support him meanwhile the second was commit to suicide !
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Your own decision making and dedication to leave gambling will lead your way to leave. An advises will just a words even you will read but if you don't do and apply its nothing. The very basic and to step out is too push yourself to quit. Have some hobbies that you can do or what you want physical activities that may turn your attention and not to think of gambling.
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The only one that can help you is yourself, if you dont committed to keep your promise then any advice is useless, go find a psychiatrist to help you to deal with your addiction, keep yourself busy with hobby and activities, then always remember how gambling affect your life
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