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Topic: please help me seriously to leave gambling ???? - page 8. (Read 1441 times)

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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
What I do for me to get rid over gambling was to divert myself in other things that also get my interest like to be in sports also you should have the determination if you really want to quit gambling i know it is so hard to do especially when you are in a community that full of gambling places. I've been there and almost lose everything but i told myself that i should stop set my goals to earn money.

The easiest way to get away from gambling when you are addicted is to take holidays and move out of that city or country if possible or else join your passion in any of the sports or something like that which will change your mind and you will be involved in some other daily activities which will make you much better and keep away from gambling as well.

Yes,i agree with you that it is most effective if we move out to the place which are lots of gambling because once you are a addict it is easy for you to get tempt to gamble over and over again even how much you wanted to quit but since you used to gamble everyday you cannot say no once someone invite you to play. And actually thats what i'm doing right now I move out to my parents place and divert myself into sports like i play volleyball also I go to gym and now i can say i am free of being addict in gambling.
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For someone that doesn't know what to do with his earning needs to look for something where he can allocate his earnings. And if you are serious of leaving gambling, you should not let yourself engage with any gambling tool, casino, app or anything that's related to gambling. Take time to meditate and look for yourself and what you really want. This can give you a lot of space on knowing what you really want in this world and it can definitely help you stay away from gambling.
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You're too serious about your gambling. Avoid that, you'll surely waste money with that way. I suggest that you go out for a while and take a deep breath, do something that is useful then go back to gambling if you feel like you want to. With what you are sharing it seems like you are sitting the whole day and gamble. That's wrong, you will surely have a hard time thinking on what to do with your money when you win.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
What I do for me to get rid over gambling was to divert myself in other things that also get my interest like to be in sports also you should have the determination if you really want to quit gambling i know it is so hard to do especially when you are in a community that full of gambling places. I've been there and almost lose everything but i told myself that i should stop set my goals to earn money.

The easiest way to get away from gambling when you are addicted is to take holidays and move out of that city or country if possible or else join your passion in any of the sports or something like that which will change your mind and you will be involved in some other daily activities which will make you much better and keep away from gambling as well.
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To leave gambling is not that difficult if you really are decided to do so. First thing to do is to seek a new hobby to replace with it the time you spend in gambling. This can be running, going to drink a coffee or a drink whenever you have the urge to gamble and so on. If you are not successful with replacing gambling with something else as described above then you should seek help from gamblers anonymous together with your family. Also family support is key in reaching this goal.
I have never been addicted to anything but I have known some people that went through it and they have said to me that is the hardest thing they have done in their life, you need to understand that for them is a daily struggle, they need to battle the temptation of falling again in the world of addiction, it is not something that simply goes away it is with them for the rest of their lives.
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Lol. If you said you did everything but still addicted, then you haven't done everything yet. If you're serious and determined to quit, the outcomes of your gamblea should be enough to knock your head out of it. The fact that you made the threat probably means you're not serious and determined enough

If a person can make it alone they should seek the help of a specialist. In other words OP should go to a rehab where he'd have no access to gambling for some time and frequent psychiatric sessions that would determine his condition. If his addiction can lead to ruing and possibly a suicide there's no other way but to go to a mental institution.

Treatment for compulsive gambling may include these approaches:

Therapy. Behavior therapy or cognitive behavioral therapy may be beneficial. Behavior therapy uses systematic exposure to the behavior you want to unlearn and teaches you skills to reduce your urge to gamble. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhealthy, irrational and negative beliefs and replacing them with healthy, positive ones. Family therapy also may be helpful.
Medications. Antidepressants and mood stabilizers may help problems that often go along with compulsive gambling — such as depression, OCD or ADHD. Some antidepressants may be effective in reducing gambling behavior. Medications called narcotic antagonists, useful in treating substance abuse, may help treat compulsive gambling.
Self-help groups. Some people find that talking with others who have a gambling problem may be a helpful part of treatment. Ask your health care professional for advice on self-help groups, such as Gamblers Anonymous and other resources.
Treatment for compulsive gambling may involve an outpatient program, inpatient program or a residential treatment program, depending on your needs and resources. Treatment for substance abuse, depression, anxiety or any other mental health disorder may be part of your treatment plan for compulsive gambling.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/compulsive-gambling/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20355184


In other words yon need to be evaluated and possibly locked up and heavily medicated, just like other nutjobs Wink
There is one you are not adding there and that is hypnotherapy. 10BTC is huge and I am sure that dude sure needs one right now. Jokes apart though, I really want to know if there is anyone in the community who has had someone do this, or have experienced it before. I know hypnosis has been said before to cure some behavior and some addictions, but I need to know if there is a real case of it, as all I have seen or read is just basically theory and the way it was placed, it works like charm.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
We are all addicts in some ways, for someone it's drugs, for others gambling, trading, investing, buying something. The thing is, when something really excites you - you become addictive, even physically to bioactive compounds that release while you receive pleasure. So if you're not okay with spending that much money on gambling just find something else that might excite you that much, so you could just switch over to it.
Lol. Yeah, I feel you bro! It is just that our level of addiction is different and some are just pretty good. My own addiction anyway is making money and making a lot of it, and I am not ready to get any help, not now and not anytime at all. That is by the way, gambling addiction or any negative addiction generally is a bad one, and it takes a whole lot to be able to get out from. I have heard some people talking about hypnosis before and saying it works, I really hope it does, but in one word, it takes a lot to quit any addiction.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
What I do for me to get rid over gambling was to divert myself in other things that also get my interest like to be in sports also you should have the determination if you really want to quit gambling i know it is so hard to do especially when you are in a community that full of gambling places. I've been there and almost lose everything but i told myself that i should stop set my goals to earn money.
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To leave gambling is not that difficult if you really are decided to do so. First thing to do is to seek a new hobby to replace with it the time you spend in gambling. This can be running, going to drink a coffee or a drink whenever you have the urge to gamble and so on. If you are not successful with replacing gambling with something else as described above then you should seek help from gamblers anonymous together with your family. Also family support is key in reaching this goal.
But i think that it is not so easy to leave gambling, specially if you are addicted and playing gambling for a long time. They need some help from their friends and relatives. He must also have good control over his pulse with strong determination and only then he can stop himself from playing gambling. I have seen a lot of people who stopped playing gambling but do not succeeded for a long time, they start playing gambling again after some time.
This self will, and determination doing it, are the the best tools to overcome gambling addiction, the person who already attached to much to this activity can't control emotions anymore and even he keeps getting busted he will continue to seek for any means to gamble, it's needed enough time to realize
and really pursue quitting, the more you really determine to stop the more you can achieved quitting.
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If you will get broke you will surely leave the gambling since you do not have enough money to be used in betting. If you are really serious in leaving gambling you should also take it seriously. You can seek help from therapist.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
I think you better to control your self on gambling try to do something like playing games online to avoid gambling. If you not control your self your going back again and do gambling. Just focus on another thing so that you can stay away on gambling.
Getting control on gambling is possible specially if you are playing gambling for a long time. It can only be possible if a person is you help of your friends and other relatives. In fact when we become addicted then it become difficult to stop playing gambling so easily. Even if we stop gambling we cannot continue stop playing gambling for a long time but will start playing gambling again very soon.
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To leave gambling is not that difficult if you really are decided to do so. First thing to do is to seek a new hobby to replace with it the time you spend in gambling. This can be running, going to drink a coffee or a drink whenever you have the urge to gamble and so on. If you are not successful with replacing gambling with something else as described above then you should seek help from gamblers anonymous together with your family. Also family support is key in reaching this goal.
But i think that it is not so easy to leave gambling, specially if you are addicted and playing gambling for a long time. They need some help from their friends and relatives. He must also have good control over his pulse with strong determination and only then he can stop himself from playing gambling. I have seen a lot of people who stopped playing gambling but do not succeeded for a long time, they start playing gambling again after some time.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
I think you better to control your self on gambling try to do something like playing games online to avoid gambling. If you not control your self your going back again and do gambling. Just focus on another thing so that you can stay away on gambling.
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Find another bustle, make your days going even further to touch gambling again. Well indeed it's not easy, but if we really have a strong intention, it can be done. And also try to consult with a religious expert, it might be more helpful if you really want to leaving forever from gambling.
Gambling does feel like a completeness, but it can be replaced with something else, I'm very sure of it.
The point is there are many other things that can be done that makes you more busy in the virtual world or the real world, just don't giving up if have that intention.
Yeah, once you can get yourself busy and occupied with other related hustling and bustling, then it would be easy to leave the world of gambling. It still at the end of the day has to do with the mind, but to me that should be a start. Go to gym, go to clubs, do some other things you may like and have fun with, roll with friends who are not into the gambling world and let them know your plans so they can always watch out for you. It is a gradual process, but over time, it gets better.
To come out of gambling self-desire is very important, I can give n number of suggestions to the gamblers, but they need to be mentally strong enough to leave gambling. As you mentioned in the suggestions there are so many ways are there to leave gambling need to concentrate on those also that could be one of the methods.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

If you really did everything but no avail...I think you must need a ultimatum solution and quit this cryptocurrency and focus your time to your family or establish a new business that needs much of your time. I think that's the only way you must do if you want to quit gambling. 

better solution indeed, give your self a conviction so inside your mind you will be able to punish your mistakes, if everything already been done and you still can't control yourself finding ways to keep continue gambling then much better to empty your wallets and let your finances being surrender to your wife or to someone who can handle it much better, you won't be able to play anymore if you doesn't any money.

Lol. If you said you did everything but still addicted, then you haven't done everything yet. If you're serious and determined to quit, the outcomes of your gamblea should be enough to knock your head out of it. The fact that you made the threat probably means you're not serious and determined enough
I have seen people in his shoes that just keep trying all by themselves and then feel they are doing everything in their means to stop but nothing is working. The truth is that I have never seen someone who is already in the high level of addiction and ended up doing it alone. He will need to involve people, he will need friends and families, and then he will probably need to go see a shrink and support group. It is easy to get addicted to anything, but coming out of it? No way easy!
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Find another bustle, make your days going even further to touch gambling again. Well indeed it's not easy, but if we really have a strong intention, it can be done. And also try to consult with a religious expert, it might be more helpful if you really want to leaving forever from gambling.
Gambling does feel like a completeness, but it can be replaced with something else, I'm very sure of it.
The point is there are many other things that can be done that makes you more busy in the virtual world or the real world, just don't giving up if have that intention.
Yeah, once you can get yourself busy and occupied with other related hustling and bustling, then it would be easy to leave the world of gambling. It still at the end of the day has to do with the mind, but to me that should be a start. Go to gym, go to clubs, do some other things you may like and have fun with, roll with friends who are not into the gambling world and let them know your plans so they can always watch out for you. It is a gradual process, but over time, it gets better.
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There are two factors that influence things, one is the subject itself and the other is the environment.

If you want to give up a habit, you want things to change.

Otherwise, it will be painful, deep reflection, or changes in the surrounding environment and attention transfer.

OP wanted to change but he does not know how to change.  He already stated that he wanted to leave gambling,so it would be best to tell him some advice on how to leave gambling and not just a general view about stuff.  But I do believe it is always up to the person.  There is no greater than the power of mind.  Whatever we think to do, if we are willing and determined, we can do it, no matter how hard it is (telling about stuff that we can do and not the impossible.)
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To leave gambling is not that difficult if you really are decided to do so. First thing to do is to seek a new hobby to replace with it the time you spend in gambling. This can be running, going to drink a coffee or a drink whenever you have the urge to gamble and so on. If you are not successful with replacing gambling with something else as described above then you should seek help from gamblers anonymous together with your family. Also family support is key in reaching this goal.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
You seem to have made a key realization this is key but now you need help, overcoming and addiction is never easy, unfortunately the help we can provide is limited so the best thing to do is to confess everything to your family and ask help from them, since your addiction is so severe you will probably need professional help, get it, do not be ashamed of it, if you follow the treatment you will improve in just a few months and you will leave your addiction behind you.
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If you want to give up a habit, you want things to change.
You need to motivate yourself that you have to change and there's no other people that can help you but only you. It may not be easy in the beginning but stick to your plan that you want to quite because if you'll become inconsistent you will struggle more.

If you are serious gambler and playing for long time. It would like a drug for you. Need to get the counselling to get out from the gambling filed. I suggest you to reduced the amount of investment rapidly and then reduce the matches you bet or dice games.
After some time you have to invest on trading or mining platform. This option is best of every investors. So you will be able to make the profit soon since all the coons price is low today.
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