Our purpose in life it to be happy, relaxed, eat and drink as we please, not serve others and make their lives better at the expense of ours.
Is child victim of its parents? Because you certainly seem to think, that way.
Religion gives us context, puts human existence within laws of natural order.
Atheistic hegelian conflict with believers is based in narcissism as you, atheists are not gods even though you would like to be ("Usually people want to rule"). Universe was here before you and will be after. So choice "not to believe" is really choice not to mature.
You claim people want to rule. Rule who? Other people. According to what law, though?