Topic: Question for those who loose too frequently in gambling - page 2. (Read 1846 times)

Yes, they must improve their behavior when playing by improving certain behaviors that can prevent them from losses that will occur. Such as self-control that always must be possessed so that they do not overplay, Because most of them are not willing to lose money due to gambling and then cannot accept the defeat that occurs so they have a sense of wanting to reverse the losses that have occurred which may cost them more money they have even though they set a budget limit for gambling.
The goal that a gambler should have is to gamble for thrills that can be made into fun or entertainment, and as you said that should be maintained not eliminated, if they lose that goal then they will become addicted to always getting defeated, and those who still continue to gamble even though they often lose, maybe they want a big win that can cover the losses that have occurred,  so in essence they want a reversal of their losses, but what they do is wrong and make their money run out in large amounts.
 
True what you say, if the casino is not an ATM machine, and also not a money-making machine that can be confirmed, but it is only a machine that provides paid games, where money is the medium of exchange with a game trip that will give its own sensation to the players. Casinos are also a place for people who want to get pleasure for those who are stressed because of their work. but if they are addicted to it, in my opinion, it is not the casino's fault, but it is their own fault that they cannot control themselves when playing at the casino, to be honest, casinos can make someone become addicted which will be fatal, but if only they can control themselves and limit and realize the budget they have, maybe they will not become addicted, and in my opinion also casinos are established for the purpose of making profits from people who come and play at the casino, not to give money to everyone who plays it. It's just that many people misinterpret gambling, by making it the main income in life that makes them themselves addicted and harm themselves. There's nothing wrong with casinos providing paid games, it's just those who can't control themselves who have the main point of error. Although there are opportunities to win in casinos, but it does not guarantee that it is easy to get. So they should play with the aim of seeking pleasure not to make money let alone to be the main source of income, it is not recommended.

It's very simple to handle, if you're loosing too frequent and you don't like about it, then try to know what are the possible causes to this, sometimes we may be lacking in some aspects of it and without us knowing, we need to evaluate the way we gamble, the techniques used and the kind of games we bet on to makes some changes from our own side if really we need to experience something different as well.


Not until we see the needs for that, we may only keep rotating on one side without having something new, we shouldn't gamble because we want to make more money, but we are being passionate about knowing the causes to why we often loose than winning.

I think the more reasonable reason for people who still continue to gamble despite losing a lot is because they come to make money, I think they assume that the big win will really happen, when on the other hand it's nothing more than a chance, the fact is not once or twice they lose and say such motivations to themselves, but it's always like that and there is no time limit, they think the winnings they will get will be able to cover all the losses in the previous time, my question is what makes you so sure that you will get the big win? What if it turns out that your winnings are very small and cannot cover all the losses in the previous time? it's very possible isn't it.

But on the other hand it will just waste their time and money, do they think that this is a process like achievement in business for success? no friend, gambling is always nothing more than something that depends on luck. Therefore, it is better to reduce it, after all, there is no guarantee whatsoever for you to be able to achieve great results, it's just your hopes and hallucinations.

I have interview alot of addicted gamblers when I was running a research program during my college years and I came to the conclusion that many individuals continue gambling as a result of the hope they have that one day, they'll be the lucky one and win like others. Apart from the feelings that comes from gambling and the emotions of revenging your lost money, many individual just keep on gambling based on hope that they'll be successful at the end.

The more they're seeing others winning, the more they believe that they can also win so they just keep gambling. Addiction also has a role it plays in gamblers betting without considering if they're doing the wise thing or not. For anyone that's frequently losing when gambling, it's better you stop as you're not doing yourself any good. You might never recover the amount of money you have lost so there's no point of wasting more money trying to be even.

There are loads of reasons why many continue gambling even after incurring losses, these reasons spans across the worlds of advantages and disadvantages, or simply put, positive and negative reasons. Amongst the reasons are motivation and passion, the need to chase one's life dreams through the available resources prospectively to be availed by these gambling platforms.

If someone is determined to achieve a thing, the techniques to be deployed is without limits until the goal is achieved, these class of people don't care about how many times they fail, they only have one word they understand 'success' and until they get there, you might be the only one seeing them as those who loose frequently

The desire and hope to win big someday. That’s what would probably motivate anyone who gambles continuously despite having suffered a great deal of loss. There is always hope for a win and that’s enough to keep gamblers motivated to continue playing. Along the line, the tales of other people having success and winning big, of course would be added motivation to keep up hopes that it would be their turn someday.

Money is being spent continuously while hoping and playing for that big win. Money that may seem small and negligible when playing at the moment but accumulate all you’ve spent and you’ll see it’s not such a small amount.




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Sometimes we can compare ourselves with others, but that kind of thing should not be done because everyone is a different person, we just have a friend because whether they win or not win is something we should not take into consideration to do, this is something we It varies a lot, sometimes they can play the right game at the right time and win, at some point the person who doesn't win will never have a good win, what has to be done is improve certain behaviors they have in the game, I don't know if the person It is the one who sets a budget willing to lose, or do I know if the person when playing does it under pressure with a lot of stress, because if so, it is very difficult to win, there is no better way than playing first to have fun and second to win money, because motivation and good faith or positivism must be had, it is something that we should not lose, but do it on the ground, not with castles in the air, we, as people who are usual, must know that the casino is another thing.

A casino is not an ATM at all, a casino was created, it was first invented to give people enjoyment, to have fun, or for people to have a different time, and obviously those who own the casino built it because they know that it is a business, a great company where they can always have very good income and in addition that is what they are looking for, I don't blame everyone wanting to win, it's a mess, if we ourselves as players don't give ourselves courage, who will? Furthermore , in a casino you can win, knowing that there is the advantage of the casino, which is something that is always there, apart from the players who are aware of what the casino system is like, because apart from everything a person must have a lot of maturity To face things as they are, I am one of those who think that in a casino you must have a lot of maturity to be able to fully enjoy what a casino offers.

The only time people lose their total bankroll is because they increase their bets to the point that it can be recovered by the remaining bankroll. Gambling is really 50-50 game which means no matter how terrible lose streak you encounter, there’s always a counter part winning streak to balance the game probability wise or else the game is rigged.

People continue to bet after losing because you will never experience winning if you stop at loss. The only problem is the bankroll management which many player failed to do that result massive loss.

And it should be with such bitter events that they should be able to realize that indeed it is a bad thing that they experience as a result of reckless gambling, they should be able to make it a bitter experience that they must make a lesson not to repeat the same thing in the future. The first thing they should do is self-introspection as you said and also besides that try to realize that indeed this is a big problem that makes them down and causes a lot of problems in their lives, especially in terms of their finances.

Honestly, in such conditions, in my opinion, it is still unknown or certain whether they will be able to realize and correct their mistakes or even on the contrary they will even get worse with the intention of revenge in gambling, because it is not uncommon for me to see some of them who are very emotional and do not accept the results that are always not in accordance with what they expect at the end of the session and after that they finally take actions out of control such as for example selling one of their valuable assets or vehicles to put a larger amount with a higher level of emotion and hope than before. I think out of 100%, maybe only 40% of people will be able to realize and fix everything so that they don't fall into the same hole.

That is true. Many people believe that life is like zebra, black-white, good-bad, win-lose. That triggers them to place another bet, with a wish to win back a previously lost bet. And this is what destroys people, as I have seen many times that after a loss with most possible lowest odd, comes same loosing odd, even though a probability that it will happen is very low. The reason why people continue gambling after a series of losses is simple, repeated here million times and known to everyone - disability to resist greed.

Maybe there are two things that make this person continue playing even though he is aware that he always loses every time he places a bet, one of which may be that he previously won a big win so that makes him dare to bet because the funds used are funds from winnings and apart from that, I think the person really believes that after If you experience a big loss, there will definitely be a bigger win, so this is the factor that makes some people continue to want to place bets without caring about the size of the loss they experience because they are too obsessed with winning that will be bigger.

Thank you for your understanding. Oh yes, for those who have lost a lot of money and experienced stress, depression and frustration, it will never be easy to forget what they have experienced because it requires acceptance of everything and starting to get up again from the beginning. Not many people are able to do it because getting up from scratch again requires energy and a strong will from within to improve what they have done and cause many serious problems in their lives. Those who have experienced a lot of losses in gambling should also start to introspect on what needs to be improved if they want to fix their mistakes. And that's why we can only use gambling as entertainment and not overdo it in gambling so that we don't experience serious problems as many people have experienced.

Oh yes if that's what you mean, and I also apologize if I misunderstood your statement, but let's just forget that we continue to discuss that where it is true of all gamblers I am also very sure that  the percentage of defeat is much higher than victory, which is why more people suffer defeat or even cause many problems in their real lives such as stress, depression or debt, usually it will happen to those who have entered the addiction phase with a high level. So the point is to stay normal in looking at gambling, meaning don't overdo it, after all this is also just an activity that depends on luck alone, if you are lucky then you will win, don't let you think about increasing your gambling time  because it will not always close the possibility or mean that it cannot increase your percentage of luck to be higher, but on the contrary, your luck is even more.

Oh yes if that's what you mean, and I also apologize if I misunderstood your statement, but let's just forget that we continue to discuss that where it is true of all gamblers I am also very sure that the percentage of defeat is much higher than victory, which is why more people suffer defeat or even cause many problems in their real lives such as stress,  depression or debt, usually it will happen to those who have entered the addiction phase with a high level. So the point is to stay normal in looking at gambling means don't overdo it, after all this is also just an activity that depends on luck, if you are lucky then you will win.

@coolcoinz has made the best point in the simplest way and I think he speaks of me majorly but this is in my casino aspect of gambling only not otherwise. I don't gamble on sports just for the sake of fun but for the money actually, it's for casinos that I do it often to kill boredom most times when movies and other hobbies couldn't do it anymore, and it has been so effective substitute than ordinarily playing games. Since I have my reason for playing casinos for fun, if I lose in it like @coolcoinz said, it is nothing to me since my mind was never positioned on the money to be made from it.

This is why I also use a small amount of money to bet on casinos, a reason that makes it easier for me to let go. This is unlike those who actually believe that the casino is the avenue that they will get rich in life or that could be handing them a regular paycheck. They get discouraged when it's not as coming as thought and get more desperate to play more and lose money frequently which is another reason why they continue to play more since they want to achieve their aim.

Of course, some would win, some would lose and some would be winning and losing at almost the same pace.

No, that's not what it means. I wrote the meaning wrong. I mean the number of gamblers who lose is more than the number of people who win. Those who lose don't have their luck so they can't win but instead, they continue gambling without realizing that they actually need to rest first. Meanwhile, the number of people who won was few and they were able to win because they were lucky enough to come at the right time. Many people have experienced losses from gambling and we should try to limit the number of losses we lose.

We can only limit our gambling activities and reduce gambling time to avoid losses that can increase because we have seen what happens to people who continue to gamble without taking a break. Their emotions can be triggered and they can no longer think clearly because there is a strong urge from within them to try to recover from their previous loss, even though it is still difficult for them to achieve it. Luck will only come to the right people who deserve that luck, so we can't expect much luck to come to us every time we gamble. Instead of experiencing a lot of losses, we should limit ourselves when playing gambling and always manage the use of money for gambling so that we don't spend all the money we deposit that day. By doing the necessary things while gambling, we can avoid losing a lot and can also enjoy gambling as entertainment.

people make several mistakes while gambling,and it is good to know that when one is in the spirit of gambling,one doesn't really always know what he is doing,and this happens most times when one has lost a huge amount of money,the next thing that comes to mind is anger,you want to recover by all means,and it isnt possible.That is the the reason why gambling responsibly comes into play,because there are some persons who know their boundaries,when to continue playing and when to quit,the moment they see that they are losing too much,they will have to quit for that day.

Our major reasons why we still gambling is for us to make profits as gamblers. It doesn't make sense if we decided not to work hard enough to win. Sometimes we might not be lucky enough to have winnings and that should not make us see gambling as something different entire. Some we try and we don't get results, that should not make us to see gambling as a poor way to make money. There are people who had made quite a huge sum of amount either gambling or betting on lottery. If we can work on the way we do things and bets, we can make profits and that would aid us to gamble more without numbers.

Yes, it's true, as a gambler, never hope to get what is impossible to get when gambling, not many people feel like they are winning as long as they still have greedy behavior within them and they will never be satisfied with their winnings, they will continue to gamble all the time and continue. hope to become rich, let alone get a big win, gambling is not the right place to get wealth or success.

Gambling activities always bring problems for those who gamble only to pursue something that people usually look for in it, not to enjoy every game as entertainment. Basically, if gambling was created to make anyone rich, of course many gamblers would be rich, but unfortunately that turns out to be the case. in fact and still the bookies and casinos are rich because they will continue to win in every game. 

I honestly believe that the defeat that continues to dominate makes you uncomfortable with all the pressure you feel there, it seems like you have to consider from various sides about whether gambling is good for you or not, if the reality is that this activity only adds to the problem, especially in your finances then why not stop early? You can't always force luck to come to you, it all runs randomly and can never be predicted. All the ways you do will still end up in vain if luck is not on your side. On the other hand I'm sure the reason you've lost a lot of money is because you came with the wrong intentions and shouldn't, there is absolutely no guarantee for anyone to win easily, you can achieve it on condition that you have to be willing to spend more capital or that means gambling more often then at a certain time I'm sure you will be able to at least get one win, but on the other hand I would ask if that amount is balanced or can cover the capital you spend with several failed attempts? I'm not sure if it's appropriate.

So the bottom line is if this activity only causes a lot of problems then I hope you can be firm with yourself that this is not a good place for you, forget all hopes, no one is rich just by gambling except the bookie.