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legendary
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I have often wondered about the people who have lost a lot in gambling and who almost loose in every gambling activity they participate. What is their reason or motivation to continue even after so many losses?

   -  I don't think there is any motivation to talk about why a gambler keeps coming back to a gambling casino. Just for example, I just play for fun; maybe with other gamblers, they come back because they think they are lucky the day they gamble in the casino.

Or unless you are an addicted gambler, for sure you will come back because the body of a gambling addict is looking for it, and this is his routine, of course. Even if he has no money, he will find a way to gamble too, right?

It depends, not all the facts are true as OP said and asked in this thread. There are many gamblers who always lose in their gambling, then they stop because they feel tired or for various other reasons. although it cannot be denied, there are many cases like what the OP said, even though they always lose, someone still visits the casino to carry out their gambling session.

Well, I can confirm what you say in your own version. and I can understand it, because after all someone can do a habit for the sole reason of looking for fun. even in this context, someone always loses. That could be the case, especially if someone is only spending a small bankroll of just a few dollars. yep, just for fun. Likewise with the second point, we agree with this. What's more, even if someone doesn't have money, he will find a way to get it.
The point is, we can conclude that the person is indicated to be a compulsive gambler. At this point, it all comes back to each person and how they respond to this hobby. the most important thing is, recognize the risks and avoid things that lead to things that end in something negative.
legendary
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I always tell people to not do this because this will only make them go deeper and deeper into the ocean of gambling addiction, and one day in the future, they will have lost almost everything they have ever had and then there will be no point in regretting since nothing will come back once it's gone.
Sometimes not many people want to listen to anyone's advice if they originally intended to gamble to make money and win, let alone advising people who have become addicts, it is difficult to tell them that whatever they are chasing and doing is to recover their losses or find what they hope for. it's not as easy as what streamers and gambling influencers usually show, it's all fake

Moreover, why are there still people who still think that gambling can make you rich instantly even though it is clear that around us most of the gamblers are not necessarily successful and rich, most of them go bankrupt and fall into serious addiction, I am also sometimes concerned about the situation of these people. gamblers like that even though they should be able to enjoy gambling only as entertainment.

It seems that they already exceed from the suppose budget both time and money, getting to into addiction is not by far if you treat gambling as a source of your income, you are aiming for something that will going to generate money instead of having some entertainment and not to pressure yourself but instead to enjoy every sessions that you play.

Listening to those advise are commonly disregarded by people who thinks that they are just fine and they are still doing the right thing, but in reality, they are already attached and engage too much.
hero member
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I have often wondered about the people who have lost a lot in gambling and who almost loose in every gambling activity they participate. What is their reason or motivation to continue even after so many losses?

   -  I don't think there is any motivation to talk about why a gambler keeps coming back to a gambling casino. Just for example, I just play for fun; maybe with other gamblers, they come back because they think they are lucky the day they gamble in the casino.

Or unless you are an addicted gambler, for sure you will come back because the body of a gambling addict is looking for it, and this is his routine, of course. Even if he has no money, he will find a way to gamble too, right?
Addiction could be a motivation although it's a negative motivation but then it's actually a motivation because it came with this continually drive to always get back at the casino with hopes of definitely winning big some day and probably recovering all they has ever been lost.

Sometimes the need to satisfy that urge as a gambler will definitely keep the gamblers coming back to the casino wether they are winning or not but then it's actually a bad motivation as it's fuelled by false hope most of the times. Another could be the fun the person probably drives gambling especially for those who aren't gamblers and aren't gambling to make money or as a job opportunity but maybe for just the fun.
legendary
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I always tell people to not do this because this will only make them go deeper and deeper into the ocean of gambling addiction, and one day in the future, they will have lost almost everything they have ever had and then there will be no point in regretting since nothing will come back once it's gone.
Sometimes not many people want to listen to anyone's advice if they originally intended to gamble to make money and win, let alone advising people who have become addicts, it is difficult to tell them that whatever they are chasing and doing is to recover their losses or find what they hope for. it's not as easy as what streamers and gambling influencers usually show, it's all fake

Moreover, why are there still people who still think that gambling can make you rich instantly even though it is clear that around us most of the gamblers are not necessarily successful and rich, most of them go bankrupt and fall into serious addiction, I am also sometimes concerned about the situation of these people. gamblers like that even though they should be able to enjoy gambling only as entertainment.
hero member
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I know about a friend who has been on the loosing gambling table but he keep having this interpersonal believe that somedays he would win and when he wins it is going to be a big winning that would pay him off from all he has lost in gambling with an interest and then he would just stop gambling.
That belief and mindset is what costs a gambler more money over time because they keep thinking that they will eventually recover their money if they continue gambling but that day never comes. I've seen this happening to a lot of people, they would start gambling with a small amount, lose it, deposit a higher amount to recover the previous one, and lose that one as well, the process continues until they lose a significant sum and then they start hoping that they will get a single big win and recover it all and they keep increasing their bet size to get that but to no avail.

I always tell people to not do this because this will only make them go deeper and deeper into the ocean of gambling addiction, and one day in the future, they will have lost almost everything they have ever had and then there will be no point in regretting since nothing will come back once it's gone.
sr. member
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They certainly believes gambling is a game of win or loss so they basically get addicted to gambling that even when they looses it becomes a usually.
But at most points, they would want to quit instead of being on the loosing table at all times but they are very mean to atleast make a one time count winning before they quit because they can't afford to loose it all. And on the same note while striving to make just a one count winning is the more they have to keep gambling.

I know about a friend who has been on the loosing gambling table but he keep having this interpersonal believe that somedays he would win and when he wins it is going to be a big winning that would pay him off from all he has lost in gambling with an interest and then he would just stop gambling.
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You are correct, most times I do conclude that it is a bit hard to quit gamble, more especially those that are well familiar with it.
It is not easy to stop gamble unless one might relocate to an island were there isn't anything related to gamble and being totally separate from the internet but is is hard to do those things.
Many gamblers things that they can only say that they will not gamble again and that's all,,, no, it is not an easy task for a well gambler to totally quite gambling, unless the person might just take a break for a while.
I say this because in my country I have seen a lot of people that tried to quit smoking and some of them can't quit but few can,,,, however smoking is very much different from gamble but I just used it as an example.

If the gambler feel themselves like get addicted to the gambling,it will be the better time to quit the gambling.But it’s true hard for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction easily.When ever the gambling addicted person get the money,he get some temp to play the game with that money.Because he was in the loss and the loss should be recovered by the upcoming game was the opinion of the gambler.The frequent loss in the gambling was the biggest reason for the gambler get addicted to the gambling,but one big win enough for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction.
This all happens because the player has established an emotional connection with the game. After a loss, he wants to win back, this is the usual behavior of the average person. But if you look at it from the outside, nothing special happened, gambling games are not obliged to give money to losing players, it is just a matter of chance and luck. Therefore, you need to approach the game with your mind, not your emotions. But many will not listen to me and will continue to lose more and more, spiraling into a spiral of debt, unfortunately.
sr. member
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I have often wondered about the people who have lost a lot in gambling and who almost loose in every gambling activity they participate. What is their reason or motivation to continue even after so many losses?

   -  I don't think there is any motivation to talk about why a gambler keeps coming back to a gambling casino. Just for example, I just play for fun; maybe with other gamblers, they come back because they think they are lucky the day they gamble in the casino.

Or unless you are an addicted gambler, for sure you will come back because the body of a gambling addict is looking for it, and this is his routine, of course. Even if he has no money, he will find a way to gamble too, right?
hero member
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You are correct, most times I do conclude that it is a bit hard to quit gamble, more especially those that are well familiar with it.
It is not easy to stop gamble unless one might relocate to an island were there isn't anything related to gamble and being totally separate from the internet but is is hard to do those things.
Many gamblers things that they can only say that they will not gamble again and that's all,,, no, it is not an easy task for a well gambler to totally quite gambling, unless the person might just take a break for a while.
I say this because in my country I have seen a lot of people that tried to quit smoking and some of them can't quit but few can,,,, however smoking is very much different from gamble but I just used it as an example.

If the gambler feel themselves like get addicted to the gambling,it will be the better time to quit the gambling.But it’s true hard for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction easily.When ever the gambling addicted person get the money,he get some temp to play the game with that money.Because he was in the loss and the loss should be recovered by the upcoming game was the opinion of the gambler.The frequent loss in the gambling was the biggest reason for the gambler get addicted to the gambling,but one big win enough for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction.

Yes but the problem is that it is quite difficult for most gamblers to realize that they have entered the addiction phase, usually they will be able to find out if there is one of the closest people who know about their gambling involvement and tell them that they have gone too far, they will not be that easy to realize that they are addicted, because they gamble usually unconsciously as a result of lust and greed that they always carry. As in general people who are already addicted they are very selfish in gambling, always want to win but do not want to lose, it is one of the reasons because of their wrong mindset and most likely they think that they can get money from gambling, when in fact it is just nonsense.

Well that's right, a person who is addicted to gambling usually when he gets money, his main concern is gambling, they are happy because they get capital to gamble and do not think about the risk of losing there. If they lose then they will chase defeat and if they win they will be greedy, that is the cycle of people who are already addicted, there is nothing better except trying to stop but it is difficult, and maybe only time can answer everything I think.
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I think it depends on what games people are losing with. Some times of casino or gambling games are where people expect to lose quite frequently.  Where winning is something not expected to happen often.  I would compare games like this to scratch of lotto tickets.  People tend to win just enough to keep them coming back.  Otherwise I don't think people would keep playing if all they did was lose.
It seems that whether in any game or bet every gambler always hopes to win and whether they win or lose, in the end they will come back with the amount of money they deposited.
Although it is true that not all gamblers will have high hopes, winning is dream for every gambler without exception, many gamblers are even willing to spend more money to be able to produce a more decent win.
There are also many gamblers who have the idea that no matter how many losses they experience, there will definitely be big win waiting in the future that can provide profits that are far greater than the number of losses.
Maybe you have also heard statements like this and it is common in the beliefs and beliefs of gamblers.
Moreover, defeat is certain outcome and cannot be avoided by any means or strategy, so we can only manage our time, finances and responsible attitude so that defeat does not make us lulled into the bad attitude of gamblers who cannot accept defeat.
Most times, when gamblers lose in gambling, they go and come back again, some of them come back to the casino center or the gambling hall will more money than the previous ones, this is how losing starts.
I agree to the fact that it is not all gamblers that have the same hing hope as other because some might lose and never come back and some might still lose and go back with higher money to gamble more so they can gain back their loses (Wich is wrong).
Winnings in gambling don't come all the time and a of newbie gamblers and old time gamblers should also put that in mind.
Sometimes when gamblers lose, they immediately get angry and say they will quit gambling. There will be exceptions, but most are similar. They may take a temporary break to manage their finances. When they make enough money, they become more attractive again. It is normal to lose in gambling but there are many negative comments which have no basis. Those who regularly lose in gambling must have some mistakes and when they learn from those mistakes can increase their chances of winning.
You are correct, most times I do conclude that it is a bit hard to quit gamble, more especially those that are well familiar with it.
It is not easy to stop gamble unless one might relocate to an island were there isn't anything related to gamble and being totally separate from the internet but is is hard to do those things.
Many gamblers things that they can only say that they will not gamble again and that's all,,, no, it is not an easy task for a well gambler to totally quite gambling, unless the person might just take a break for a while.
I say this because in my country I have seen a lot of people that tried to quit smoking and some of them can't quit but few can,,,, however smoking is very much different from gamble but I just used it as an example.
Stopping would really be only necessary on the time that you would really be already compromising your finances on which it is really that the best thing to be done but if it isnt really that affecting you on negative way then i dont see the reason for it to be that for you to stop gambling Anyone does have the right on playing or entertain themselves on which it would really be just that right that
moderation would really be crucial on times like this. Losing is inevitable and this is why on the time that you have decided on touching up gambling then you should really make yourself that prepared on whatever things that you would be able to experience along the way. Get prepared and endure into those annoying and disappointment along the way because losing money
is never been giving or being a pleasant thing in the first place. This is why acceptance and moving on would really be that crucial.
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Haha, I have heard about the mentality of losing till you win and I think it is bullshit! Do not go and keep throwing your money when you are obviously seeing nothing but failure. There are different things you can do; If this is happening in a row on the same day, take some time off gambling as your mind also needs to be in the right state. If it is happening on different days, you may need to check the game you're losing at; are you good at it? How about trying a different game to see if you could get better results in the top bestead? Also, desperation can cause frequent loss. Don't gamble with so much desperation, be in a free state of mind and let the game flow through you.
It's actually very unwise for anyone to think that continuous loosing gives more hope for gamblers because they'll eventually win big one day. Loosing a lot of money with the mindset that one day, you're gonna hit the jackpot is way of impoverishing one's self because at the end of the day, the said gambler might still not be able to win anything.
When gambling isn't favourable to a gambler, the best thing to do is to suspend it for some period of time, re-strategize and probably come back to it later.
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You are correct, most times I do conclude that it is a bit hard to quit gamble, more especially those that are well familiar with it.
It is not easy to stop gamble unless one might relocate to an island were there isn't anything related to gamble and being totally separate from the internet but is is hard to do those things.
Many gamblers things that they can only say that they will not gamble again and that's all,,, no, it is not an easy task for a well gambler to totally quite gambling, unless the person might just take a break for a while.
I say this because in my country I have seen a lot of people that tried to quit smoking and some of them can't quit but few can,,,, however smoking is very much different from gamble but I just used it as an example.

If the gambler feel themselves like get addicted to the gambling,it will be the better time to quit the gambling.But it’s true hard for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction easily.When ever the gambling addicted person get the money,he get some temp to play the game with that money.Because he was in the loss and the loss should be recovered by the upcoming game was the opinion of the gambler.The frequent loss in the gambling was the biggest reason for the gambler get addicted to the gambling,but one big win enough for the gambler to get away from the gambling addiction.
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Haha, I have heard about the mentality of losing till you win and I think it is bullshit! Do not go and keep throwing your money when you are obviously seeing nothing but failure. There are different things you can do; If this is happening in a row on the same day, take some time off gambling as your mind also needs to be in the right state. If it is happening on different days, you may need to check the game you're losing at; are you good at it? How about trying a different game to see if you could get better results instead? Also, desperation can cause frequent loss. Don't gamble with so much desperation, be in a free state of mind and let the game flow through you.
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I think it depends on what games people are losing with. Some times of casino or gambling games are where people expect to lose quite frequently.  Where winning is something not expected to happen often.  I would compare games like this to scratch of lotto tickets.  People tend to win just enough to keep them coming back.  Otherwise I don't think people would keep playing if all they did was lose.

I definitely agree that this varies depending on the game of choice. As someone who usually gambles for fun, I play slot games knowing that I will lose and thinking that I will use all my balance for fun especially when I first start playing slot games. Of course, sometimes I get unexpectedly high winnings and in this case I continue playing slots with a certain amount depending on the amount of the winnings and transfer some of it to my wallet. In such cases I gamble more often than usual because I earn money from gambling. So, actually winnings is something that causes me to gamble more often or more.

In addition, in raffles or instant games of chance that occur frequently such as lotteries or scratch-offs I usually buy tickets a maximum of 3 tickets just to try my luck. In this way, I can try my chances of gaining large amounts of money without losing too much money and I regularly gamble with games of chance.
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It seems that whether in any game or bet every gambler always hopes to win and whether they win or lose, in the end they will come back with the amount of money they deposited.
Although it is true that not all gamblers will have high hopes, winning is dream for every gambler without exception, many gamblers are even willing to spend more money to be able to produce a more decent win.
There are also many gamblers who have the idea that no matter how many losses they experience, there will definitely be big win waiting in the future that can provide profits that are far greater than the number of losses.
Maybe you have also heard statements like this and it is common in the beliefs and beliefs of gamblers.
Moreover, defeat is certain outcome and cannot be avoided by any means or strategy, so we can only manage our time, finances and responsible attitude so that defeat does not make us lulled into the bad attitude of gamblers who cannot accept defeat.
Most times, when gamblers lose in gambling, they go and come back again, some of them come back to the casino center or the gambling hall will more money than the previous ones, this is how losing starts.
I agree to the fact that it is not all gamblers that have the same hing hope as other because some might lose and never come back and some might still lose and go back with higher money to gamble more so they can gain back their loses (Wich is wrong).
Winnings in gambling don't come all the time and a of newbie gamblers and old time gamblers should also put that in mind.
Well, that the biggest mistake gambler makes when they think and try to recover all the losses that occur, but it natural that things like this happen because accepting excessive losses is very difficult and can even have the effect of panic and unease in heart and mind.
It just that all of this is still a mistake and gamblers can avoid it by gambling according to their abilities so that what they lose doesn't make them feel disappointment or pain that is too deep to the point where they have an attitude of trying to recover their losses.
Of course victory can come but no one knows when that victory will come, so when it not time to win and we try to chase it even with more money it will be in vain because victory is not yet in our hands.
I often say to stay calm and try to be safe in gambling, even as much as possible not to expect victory because without expecting it we definitely have victory, only time can determine and we just try to stay safe while waiting for victory to come.
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I think it depends on what games people are losing with. Some times of casino or gambling games are where people expect to lose quite frequently.  Where winning is something not expected to happen often.  I would compare games like this to scratch of lotto tickets.  People tend to win just enough to keep them coming back.  Otherwise I don't think people would keep playing if all they did was lose.
It seems that whether in any game or bet every gambler always hopes to win and whether they win or lose, in the end they will come back with the amount of money they deposited.
Although it is true that not all gamblers will have high hopes, winning is dream for every gambler without exception, many gamblers are even willing to spend more money to be able to produce a more decent win.
There are also many gamblers who have the idea that no matter how many losses they experience, there will definitely be big win waiting in the future that can provide profits that are far greater than the number of losses.
Maybe you have also heard statements like this and it is common in the beliefs and beliefs of gamblers.
Moreover, defeat is certain outcome and cannot be avoided by any means or strategy, so we can only manage our time, finances and responsible attitude so that defeat does not make us lulled into the bad attitude of gamblers who cannot accept defeat.
Most times, when gamblers lose in gambling, they go and come back again, some of them come back to the casino center or the gambling hall will more money than the previous ones, this is how losing starts.
I agree to the fact that it is not all gamblers that have the same hing hope as other because some might lose and never come back and some might still lose and go back with higher money to gamble more so they can gain back their loses (Wich is wrong).
Winnings in gambling don't come all the time and a of newbie gamblers and old time gamblers should also put that in mind.
Sometimes when gamblers lose, they immediately get angry and say they will quit gambling. There will be exceptions, but most are similar. They may take a temporary break to manage their finances. When they make enough money, they become more attractive again. It is normal to lose in gambling but there are many negative comments which have no basis. Those who regularly lose in gambling must have some mistakes and when they learn from those mistakes can increase their chances of winning.
You are correct, most times I do conclude that it is a bit hard to quit gamble, more especially those that are well familiar with it.
It is not easy to stop gamble unless one might relocate to an island were there isn't anything related to gamble and being totally separate from the internet but is is hard to do those things.
Many gamblers things that they can only say that they will not gamble again and that's all,,, no, it is not an easy task for a well gambler to totally quite gambling, unless the person might just take a break for a while.
I say this because in my country I have seen a lot of people that tried to quit smoking and some of them can't quit but few can,,,, however smoking is very much different from gamble but I just used it as an example.
legendary
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Lolz interesting question. And if I may say, there is always a hope that one day they will win and that is the major hope of a persistence losing gambler. He believes that all the games he has loss out, one day he will win them back. And some the winnings of a friend also motivate them to stay put to continue playing. According to a saying. "If there is life, there is hope", and that is one of the theories of a gambler. They have that patient hope in mind that one day all will well. But before a gambler win to recover his loss, he might have loss enough in the gambling so even the one he might win will not compare to what he has loss. And the major motivation they normally have is the winnings if their friends. If that person can win this amount I will also win. These are the motivations that giving them to continue.
sr. member
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I think it depends on what games people are losing with. Some times of casino or gambling games are where people expect to lose quite frequently.  Where winning is something not expected to happen often.  I would compare games like this to scratch of lotto tickets.  People tend to win just enough to keep them coming back.  Otherwise I don't think people would keep playing if all they did was lose.
It seems that whether in any game or bet every gambler always hopes to win and whether they win or lose, in the end they will come back with the amount of money they deposited.
Although it is true that not all gamblers will have high hopes, winning is dream for every gambler without exception, many gamblers are even willing to spend more money to be able to produce a more decent win.
There are also many gamblers who have the idea that no matter how many losses they experience, there will definitely be big win waiting in the future that can provide profits that are far greater than the number of losses.
Maybe you have also heard statements like this and it is common in the beliefs and beliefs of gamblers.
Moreover, defeat is certain outcome and cannot be avoided by any means or strategy, so we can only manage our time, finances and responsible attitude so that defeat does not make us lulled into the bad attitude of gamblers who cannot accept defeat.
Most times, when gamblers lose in gambling, they go and come back again, some of them come back to the casino center or the gambling hall will more money than the previous ones, this is how losing starts.
I agree to the fact that it is not all gamblers that have the same hing hope as other because some might lose and never come back and some might still lose and go back with higher money to gamble more so they can gain back their loses (Wich is wrong).
Winnings in gambling don't come all the time and a of newbie gamblers and old time gamblers should also put that in mind.
Sometimes when gamblers lose, they immediately get angry and say they will quit gambling. There will be exceptions, but most are similar. They may take a temporary break to manage their finances. When they make enough money, they become more attractive again. It is normal to lose in gambling but there are many negative comments which have no basis. Those who regularly lose in gambling must have some mistakes and when they learn from those mistakes can increase their chances of winning.
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Revenge and addiction are perhaps the most fundamental reasons that keep people gambling, even when their gambling history is dominated by losses.

We've all seen someone who keeps hoping for a big win after a series of losses. However, that dream win never seems to materialize. This illusion of winning only worsens their gambling spiral... instead of seeking revenge, they end up losing even more. this often happens to people who fail to control their emotions.

As for those who are addicted, they view gambling as a dependency. Without gambling, they feel like they can't live. This is a level where someone will continue gambling no matter the outcome, be it a loss or a win. the adrenaline they get while gambling has already influenced their brain to become addicted and dependent.
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Being hopeful whenever gambling would only make one spend a lot more money. These gamblers tend to have hopes that are high and unrealistic and end up losing even more.
Those who play to be entertained may not stop as well despite losing as these set of players are employed. Having been employed, there can be spare money put aside to continue getting entertained even at the risk of losing money constantly.

With gambling, the outcome can go either way so it’s always best to keep an open mind.
High expectations in gambling can make them experience disappointment because they still have difficulty getting even small wins. That's why if they want to gamble, they don't need to have high expectations and tend to be realistic so that when they lose, they won't be disappointed and sad. In gambling, we can only have fun and try to enjoy every gambling game we play. And if we win, we should remember to stop gambling immediately rather than spending more money in pursuit of more wins. Apart from that, the results we will receive from gambling will not always be wins but we may experience losses more often. So prepare yourself for whatever results you will get after you finish gambling and don't think about chasing bigger wins.
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