Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 9. (Read 10419 times)

Well, the first days of leaving this environment and not having an activity to fill my time were truly feelings of emptiness and deprivation, personally, I also had a similar but quick start to catch up with daily life, building a better self-image, our lives are such cyclical movements, we need to destroy the past to create the future, living forever in a gambling environment only makes us perceive the world as broken and become bored with communication. Selling assets is not a more serious problem than selling your consciousness and life

It is a reality, whenever we are talking about addictions or something similar, the first thing that must be recognized is that this has to be seen in a detailed way, what it can mean for a person to do anything to improve themselves, and realize that they have a problem is a big step, I talk about what should always be done to generate solutions, and when the player realizes and accepts that there is a risk and problem and that it has to be treated quickly, it is the best decision that can be made, I support to a person like that, because they are taking the most difficult step.

The most proud players do not realize their mistakes and do not have that conviction many times, which is why they care a lot about what others think of them, and if they do not join in looking for the solution quickly, this addiction can be very harmful. , this is careful, it is known that it is very delicate, that is why things must be done accepting the problem that one has to find a more effective and quick solution, it is all a matter of having the will.

It shows how addiction can take over one's life. I always think acknowledging the problem is the first step to solving it. Recovery begins when one realizes they're in over their head. Reclaiming control, right?

I admire and emulate your decision-making style. It takes guts to believe your intuition in gaming. When friends bet, I think gambling is entertaining too. But against casinos? A different ballgame. The house always has the edge, so knowing when to draw the line is vital. Setting clear boundaries is crucial, I've found. When fun becomes compulsive, I step back. Isn't it about knowing and being yourself?

I gamble if a person learn it properly then no one want to live it. Because it's the game that can make you rich easy if you understand it. That's the reason if a person addected with it then the person is expert in it. That's the reason no want want to live it. That's why it impossible to leave. If a person addected its not impossible the person don't want to leave it.

Over a long period, there is a possibility that gamblers who gamble continuously become addicts. But if he stops gambling for some time and while doing other activities to divert his attention from gambling, he can avoid the possibility of becoming a gambling addict. But it is difficult to divert attention to other things, especially if someone has started gambling frequently so he needs to reduce his gambling activities immediately. Otherwise, he will remain a gambling addict that he probably won't even realize. And when he gambles more often, many things will come to him, such as greed when he can win, and he will be told to go back to gambling even though he has already won a certain amount of money. If he can't control himself, he will just continue gambling without being able to stop for a moment. This is what all gamblers must pay attention to and avoid so that they can prevent themselves from becoming gambling addicts.

I would write it a little differently. If you don't have a game system smart enough to have a long-term advantage against the majority of players, then you shouldn't consider the game as a source of income. In the same way, you should not do this if you do not have a developed risk management system, if you do not know how to reduce most risks. It is entirely acceptable to be a “controlled gambler” who allocates only a small portion of his income to gaming each month. Otherwise, you either don't need to gamble at all or play free games or puzzles. I recommend playing solitaire games.

actually it's difficult. I'm sure that people who started here and then really stopped completely will need a lot of effort to leave gambling and it's not uncommon for them to leave the gambling environment where there are also some of their close friends. but if it is deemed necessary I am sure leaving this is not bad, I refer this to a very addicted person who even dares to sell important assets for gambling.

It depends on your state of mind, gambling plays a lot with peoples mind, and it's capable of imprisoning the mind if you let it, if you find it hard to quit gambling, you are already a pawn to gambling, you are not in control of yourself anymore and the quicker you hate been control by something else the faster you will break free.

I believe that many people in the world today still struggles with making decisions by themselves, they mostly like following others, but this is something I don't like, I prefer making decisions myself, where I don't feel safe no one can tell me that it's safe.

I believe that gambling is good if all you want is some fun, I can place bet on games among my friend just to make the experience more fun, but gambling against the casino is different, you are not playing with another human like yourself but the machines, how hard can it be for me to say no when I feel like I can't afford to lose money in gambling?

Those who find it very hard to quit gambling have too much hope and focus on gambling, I think they don't really know what gambling is all about, they have managed to confuse themselves that it's very easy to make money in gambling.

Well that is a way of looking at addiction, it has many approaches , just as you are saying it and sharing what you think, I could say that when you try to make things of a different color you can emphasize something, a person when He falls into addiction because he let himself be carried away by emotions and his impulses, which seems very incorrect and unreliable to me , so I could say and think that, who is to blame? of the same person, because wherever it is a person who is aware of his actions and who knows very well what he was Getting into may have decided not to do it, not to bet on having a way of seeing things like that, but to Stop at the moment that I had to stop , I think that every person who is Falling into Addiction realizes and Knows that if they don't stop once and for all things could be very ugly, including that they have a lot to do, in particular sometimes an eropsna that is in a casino and he realizes that he is losing a lot, he leaves things Alone,  because there are people who cannot see that they will be losing money in a game, there are people who do not approve of that themselves, and they leave it.

Now people, like everyone else, are different, we have very different ways of thinking, we can share ideas, but also from there we do anything to be able to assume the consequences, because our decisions are the ones that lead us to be right or wrong , in general a very direct path to what we have decided, it is known that the casino is a business where you will always have profits, the way to earn money is not there , it is somewhere else , things can be seen very differently when you have others ways to Generate money, safer money and not risking the own capital of a person who has the wrong idea that the casino is a good place to make money, it is not ruled out that they could do it, but not in a safe way, and that That's what sometimes people don't Understand.

In other words, a gambler who plays continuously will become an addict and he will view gambling as a way to make money, even though this is clearly questionable. Then he will easily be tempted by the games he sees in the casino so that he will gamble excessively and greed will incite his mind to gamble again and again. Yes, that's right, a sensible person in gambling will not only see his wins, but also his losses before his eyes, so that he will not gamble excessively and will not be addicted, because he is aware that there will definitely be more losses than wins. and he can also gamble for his own entertainment.

The thing is that in gambling if you want to be addicted in gambling you will be addicted without knowing that you have become addicted in gambling, and this happens when you don't calculate or keep records of what you spend for gambling weekly and monthly so that you can know if you make gain or not, some people can gamble throughout one year and it's only onces they can win gambling so therefore becoming addicted with gambling is basically depends on the regularity of them trying to win, and it's clear that onces you win gambling you will be expecting to win more and more and that leads some of the gambler to be addicted unknowingly

To me is two ways either easy or hard just depends on the gambler. For example yah new in gambling and you found that gambling ain't impacting positively in your life you can easily stop it because then you haven't gotten addicted to it. But if you started a newbie in gambling and you hit the jackpot,it will encourage to continue given you the mindset that you can easily hit it again well as is beginners luck. through that process of still trying and losing more and gaining small you become addicted To it which would make difficult for you to stop gambling.

As long you arent compromise the ff;

1. Money
2. Family relationship
3. Health
4. Time allocation

Then you would really be just fine, because majority of those gamblers who do really be able to engage with gambling then these are the primary things that they do really messes up.
If you cant bare up those potential risks and you do find out that you are already gradually making these things do happen then it would really be that better that you should quit
before its too late.
Realizations would really be always at the end of the line and people cant be possibly be able to assess those things because they are really that making themselves
that blind on the things that they are dealing with. It is really that a usual stuff for someone to focus on something which they've seen that
they are currently making money or profits but didnt realize about the risks involved behind those things.

Exactly if the sole purpose of a gambler why he gamble is for fun and entertainment then I don't think soending a lot of money for that is unreasonable, maybe yes some can waste or allocate a money for their gambling hobbies for fun and entertainment but they are the ones that are fortunates, but for us who don't have a luxury to waste money then if we only want to enjoy and experience the thrill of gambling games in a gambling casino then we should not use a large money because you are right when a gambler lose a huge amount of money because of his gambling session then it can't be help he/she will feel the regret and the urge to gamble more to recover the loss which is hard to avoid and the urge will mostly win. Chasing losses just to recover is like committing suicide. Because you already lost money, you will risk it again just in the hope that you will get back what you have lost.

The possibility of an uncomfortable position because of uncontrolled gambling sessions is the reason why we have to fight with every available strength in us never to slide into addiction at whatever time and also that we put everything in check as regards to how much time and money we gamble with and also the level of our greed,  we shouldn't allow the tendency for profits to drive our urge and pursuit for gambling.

Taking gambling as fun and staking a little amount that we can afford to let go is what makes for a good gambler and not the amount he is looking for to win from the games which that may likely never come,  and chasing after it may result into a more drastic ugly outcome.

The bad side-effect of gambling is your uncontrollable emotion, like what you mentioned, it's better to use the amount of money that you can afford to let go, setting it like this before you gamble will allow you to control whatever amount you are willing to lose, if you are aiming for entertainment, you should be enjoying for that small amount even if you lose your bet/s.

Most gambler who can't control their emotions ending in this bad situation, to the point that they can go and barrow some money to try recovering the money, but unfortunately, instead of winning back they just added it to the amount that they lose and become an additional problem financially.

Of course, if someone already has or carries the wrong mindset in gambling especially taking the chances of winning too seriously then obviously they will continue to pursue that victory, defeat is not the end of the world because they will not give up, the victory of others becomes an image that will make them feel motivated to be more enthusiastic in pursuing victory, people who are already addicted will never stop or it is very unlikely for them to stop before they lose all their money or valuable assets, and of course just because of the wrong point of view on gambling can make someone act out of control such as robbing to get money to gamble, and when they already feel various pressures then it is usually not uncommon for them to end up with stress or depression or even to suicide.

The fact is that it will not be that easy to stop and get out of the addiction zone, it is difficult to reach consciousness when you are still focused on winning which is basically no certainty and guarantee at all to get it, chasing victory and recovering the state there is a scenario that they will pass before entering the final phase between really wanting to correct mistakes or experiencing mental disorders.

Agreed and i want to say If a gambler tries to gamble not for money but for entertainment and if he loses a large amount of money, I think he should not use re bet to recover that money. He needs to take time. Because when he sets out to quickly recover that lost money, he will lose more. His enjoyable time will be the cause of his downfall. Generally those who wish to gamble only for entertainment should use a moderate amount of money so that they don't loss more. To use little money so that not to try to recover the lost money. Gambling is not a problem for those who are not too excited about losing money.

That's right, gambling is a risky game with a large percentage of losses that must be accepted, because many of them gamble but cannot accept the losses that occur, even though in my opinion in gambling the percentage of losses is superior to the percentage of wins. Therefore, if they really want to gamble, they should be prepared for the risk of losing which will clearly harm them, and also not think too much about defeats that have already occurred because no matter how hard we think about it, it will not change the situation that has already occurred.

and indeed stopping gambling is difficult if they are addicted to gambling, because people who are addicted to gambling tend to change.

*change of attitude
   become a person who is more stubborn and easily emotional.

*change of thinking
   People who are addicted to gambling tend to only think about gambling, because it has become a habit that they cannot get rid of easily.

*financial changes
   People who are addicted to gambling will not feel calm every day, because they always want to gamble, which could ruin their finances.

and if they are addicted to gambling, of course this can damage their health and possibly their mental health. Therefore, in my opinion, being able to recover from gambling addiction is not easy, because they have to be able to get rid of the habit that has stuck.

Gambling is like eating spicy food even though it can make you sick, since it might be good! Gamble, pun intended. But you're right - mindset matters. Entering a casino or betting site requires the mental preamble, "I might win, I might lose, and thats okay." Like going to the movies, you hope its good but sometimes its not.

The health situation is different. When gambling becomes a heartache rather than a race, stop. I say, "If its messing with your head, it's time to put it to bed." Mental wellness requires frequent care like a garden. Quitting is hard but achievable. Like breaking up with someone you know is bad for you, it hurts but is best.

Promoting healthy gambling is crucial. Like drinking wine, moderation is key. I usually advise time and money restrictions. If you're struggling, dont be ashamed to ask for help. Like asking for directions, it doesnt indicate you're lost, merely that you need help getting back on course. This is a game, not life or death.