Topic: Responsible gambling - page 18. (Read 3918 times)

If you feel like you are doing your best to win from gambling, that does not guarantee that you can win because we know that gambling is a place of entertainment and not a place to make money as many people think, so they still come to the casino with the intention and purpose the same as before. They forget that gambling is a place to have fun, so many of them gamble excessively and are irresponsible with their money and themselves, so many of them end up losing a lot. We really don't want to lose when playing gambling. But if that has to happen, we can't refuse it and just accept the fact that our money will be lost and gone before we realize it, and if we want to recover it, we will have difficulty because gambling will not provide easy opportunity to earn that money. Maybe they can make money, but must remember that it must be the last time they gamble and immediately stop gambling. Otherwise, they will only lose even more and cannot recover from their losses.

Yes, we have to be able to gamble responsibly to avoid defeat, and being calm is a way to think about what we can do, especially when we have experienced defeat before. We cannot force ourselves to continue gambling, especially if we have little money left, so we have to stop gambling to relieve tension and save the remaining money, even if it is only a little. We can indeed become millionaires overnight, but we can also go bankrupt overnight, especially if we lose self-control, causing us to be unwilling or unable to accept the loss and deposit more money to gamble again to recover the previous loss. That is why, when we win, we must be able to enjoy the winning money well and not gamble for a while because we need to enjoy the winning money. We don't need to follow what other people do with their winnings because that is our form of responsibility for the money we have earned by withdrawing the winnings and enjoying it while we still have time to enjoy it.

No matter our reasons in the market to make money, we all have to ensure we gamble responsibly whenever we are betting.
Gambling is one of the ways we can add some little funds to our Capital although this does not happens always.
We ought to keep doing the right from being disciplined to taking appropriate risk whenever we want to bet and try our luck of making addictional profits from ourselves. We owns responsibility our all our decisions whether we lose or wins.

I've read quite a few threads about self-control, budget management, and more in this forum. The content in these threads is indeed helpful for newcomers, but it seems like there are already too many threads like this here. Honestly, it makes me bored.

Many people tend to lose control when they experience big wins or losses. Yeah... the emotions from the mind usually influence them to become greedy or vengeful. Any limits won't be of any use, so it's basically nonsense for people like them.

Wise individuals will stay wise in gambling, and that's an advantage not many people possess. Without you teaching them to set limits, they're already doing it automatically.

Yes, that's right, if we often read discussions about the dangers of gambling through this forum, we should try to be careful when we want to gamble, there will definitely be benefits here, namely that we can both advise each other not to do things we don't want. do not become addicted and greedy in gambling.



That's right, friend, but we have to learn to control ourselves when gambling, because we don't know how things will be in the casino and things could be different from what we've seen before. there will definitely be changes in atmosphere and conditions and we have to be able to adapt to this with good control, if we win then we will be happy and think about stopping for a moment to enjoy the results, whereas if we lose then what we have to do is just stop because It's useless if we continue there will be no results, because we can't predict win or lose, only the host decides.

When it comes to self control then each person does have that different level when it comes to this and this is why we do really see that there are people who do able to control and there are ones who do really fail to do so. Being responsible would really be that hard because you do know that it isnt something that you could teach to other people. It is a natural thing that someone would really be doing basing up into the condition that
he's really that experiencing. Just like on what others been saying that you are the ones who do really make your own fate on which means that actions should really be something positive and not really that
going into that something bad because on the time that you would really be doing things then you are really just that basically putting up yourself on harm.

There would be no bad effects if you are really just that sensible or mindful on the things that you are doing.If you are doing something negative then expect negative would
be the expected outcome to happen. If you arent that good on doing things then for sure it would be a mess up.

Saying would be easier than doing.
That's what I've learned to this day just by saying "gamble responsibly" but how many gamblers ignore that wise word? Meanwhile, in gambling, everyone will have difficulty avoiding temptation, such as a gambler who initially tells his friends to gamble responsibly but when he wins, the situation changes, he is immediately tempted to place another bet with the thought "who knows, I might be lucky again" and unconsciously loses the winning money. have lost half and regret.
I say this doesn't mean I don't believe in responsible gamblers, but it is very difficult to do this unless a gambler who is used to the attitude of gambling responsibly holds strong commitments that have been previously planned.
But there's no harm in always reminding each other, but for me it all comes back to each individual's wishes.

Self control is an easy word to say and write. It is not that easy to inculcate it in your life. If you are an addict it become much harder to have self control and without proper help it is not possible. A social gambler will get affected by the urge to play more if he starts winning. Imagine what happens to those gamblers who are gambling daily there urge is far bigger than someone who gambles occasionally.

Self control needs to be practice even before we gamble or  when we are still starting because the problem is that once we become connected and inlove in gambling? that is when the world will change forever ,addiction will follow and we will forget everything but not the eagerness to win and win , not giving a damn how much are we losing.
this is how and where gamblers become addict .

It is highly irresponsible for anyone not to be able to control themselves when it comes to things of money, money is powerful and very volatile. If we are not careful, we spend more, and this is majorly out of self-control believing that one thing or another can be better if more risks were taken. Especially, in gambling, once the trader starts gambling more and aiming for more, then the result can't be fine. The gambler might be hitting it at first but when they overstay their welcome due to their insensitivity, they get to lose everything and start regretting. We all do in this situation if we allow it. But if gamblers have planned well and have the proper budget for gambling and are disciplined with it, they will not even feel it much when they lose and that is what I call responsible gambling.

They would have also planned for the break they would have after such losses to cool off so that it would not affect their psychology and their financial lifestyle. This helps a lot and I am a living witness to it. This can't be said of addicts and those who believe that gambling is where they will hit it big in life, no, it is not, it might give money to some lucky ones, but definitely not the place a responsible person should look towards to be successful in life. If the two considerations are removed, you will hardly see gamblers who will play irresponsibly.

Children usually think that their parents are ideal and they try to copy their parents. The boys usually copy their fathers while the girls copy their mothers. When they see that their parents are gambling, they will just try to do the same, without knowing the advantages or disadvantages of gambling.


Anything which is done excessively can turn into a curse. This holds true for gambling, alcohol or any other activity. Let's suppose the adults are gambling often but they know how to manage money and they are responsible gamblers. When the kids see their parents doing the same, they only see them gambling. They do not know behind the scenes the plans and risk management which the parents may have deployed in this.
This is the reason if kids only copy their parent's gambling, then this may hurt the children in the long run.

Yes that's right. No gambler is happy with addiction, they will definitely avoid this problem as much as possible. In theory it is easy to read and listen to, but in practice it is difficult to apply, especially if conditions are favorable, greed will control us. Whether they admit it or not, they are aware of their actions but find it difficult to control them.

but even though it is difficult to put into practice, if we often read about the dangers of addiction from this forum every day it will definitely be useful and serve as a reminder at least when we are in the game so as not to be careless. This is what I practice, slowly every time I play I can control myself.

I agree that it is potentially dangerous if children see their parents not only gambling, but also drinking or smoking, because according to research chances of becoming a gambler, drinker or smoker increase compared to cases in which this conditioning factor doesn't exist.

But there are degrees also in what we say, as it is not so potentially dangerous for the children to see their parents playing lottery from time to time, drinking a cup of wine or a beer in social events, etc. These cases are culturally accepted as innocuous or at least as an acceptable risk.

Therefore, self-control is very necessary when gambling so that gamblers do not experience greed and of course do not become addicted. If someone is addicted, it is very difficult to think well because his mind is dominated by feelings and incorrect behavior by pursuing victory without seeing that he will also accept defeat. Meanwhile, to anticipate this, we must behave responsibly so that gamblers play within the limits of the money they have, there is no element of coercion and they are not easily influenced by temptation in gambling because they already have good behavior.

So I guess that's one secret for winning? Maybe just enjoy the game and don't look for that kind of miracle and change the outcome to your favor? I also here this from players that won though, I mean they say that they just play and like to be entertainment and when everything looks like they are going to lose, something happen to them and win big.

However, this might not be the case always, that's why there are risk involved in gambling and as human, it's a people that is part of us. So really depends on the individual if he will turn into a gambling addict or simply enjoy and have some fun whether online or offline.

Yes, if we manage to win that's a bonus, but most of the time when a person starts to get into it and wanted to keep winning, then it will increase the desire inside him to play for more, there are individual reason like what you mentioned, some may aim for fun while some are aiming for money, being responsible is an individual task if you don't want to take that risk in losing more money better to keep gambling as way of entertainment and never to exceed from that.

There's no such thing about risks free and this is something that you should really be that mindful about on which there's no way that people would just easily neglect about on the money that they could possibly be able to earn on the time that they do play gambling. For those rich people then it would really be just that normal that they would really be having those kind of treatment on which they wont really be caring on the money that they are spending as long they could be able to get the leisure that they do seek which it is really that totally opposite into those people who are really that playing gambling for money and not for fun. This is why different situations or conditions that could really be seen into each persons status specially into their finances in related to gambling.

I am not against discussing gambling, but I am inclined to ask everyone to never gamble or to stop in time if they are gambling people. Understand, it’s one thing when a the gambling person plays, and another thing when a non-gambler plays and can enjoy the game. But there are very few such people, among hundreds of people I met only 1-2 people who can enjoy the game and they were very rich. You must understand that besides gambling, there are many ways to have a good time and all of them are risk-free. Time spent gambling, even if the amount lost is little, the time lost is priceless.

If you think that gambling only offers us a means to have fun and nothing more, then you are either not a gambler or you are just ignorant of the possibilities and potentials in gambling, and yeah, this is my way of saying that you are wrong.

Aside from having fun, gambling is offers us a chance to make money, profit. And in as much as I do not advise gamblers to prioritize making money from gambling over having fun, the truth remains that, gambling is never gambling without the chance of one making money from it, we all just have to chase responsibly, that is the most important thing, no body enjoys throwing money away, or dashing money out to some random persons on the internet when you arent doing charity, without the ability to make money from gambling, not very many people will be gambling, this I am very sure of, and I believe even the casinos will agree with me.

We cannot say no to gambling all because some people are there who couldn't control the way they are gambling because they can't manage themselves not to talk of gambling responsibly, in such case, this has to be an individual issue and not to be a general one, gambling is a means of offering to us fun and nothing more, but when we are getting other things aside being entertained, then that has to do along way from how we are gambling, while there are many others making fun and gambling responsibly even when we are not.

It is like this, we are people who are always going to generate a lot with respect to the things that are necessary for us to have, for example when we are looking for a way to play and win, sometimes we do not set the money because we are unwilling to lose, and that is why it is that many players cannot exercise a good way of doing things well, the cases of people who are ready to generate some money in a very few c, in fact this makes things in them become and turn into pressure, because they If they play at the moment and lose some money, they will want to recover it, and when they make the mistake of looking for those losses to recover them, they will not do it, for the reason that people, at the moment of generating some money, find themselves with reality in an inappropriate way, making things get out of hand , money is something that we all look for all the time , that is why when we do our best to win, sometimes what we achieve is losing.

That's why I believe that Responsible play will always be Synonymous with being calm and doing things as best as possible, that is, we are people who at any time cannot have some luck and win, in the event that we have that luck we must take advantage of it. and not being there anymore and withdrawing to obtain our Profits and enjoy it , as long as things are done well it is good, but when you think that we are going to earn a lot, or become Millionaires overnight, well the Things will go from bad to worse, that's why Every time we see that we are Generating some money in the casino we have to start taking it out, if the Person does not want to do it and can control themselves, well, if not it is better to do it this way, so that is always essential , having a dissuasive money to lose, something that does not affect us in anything in the future, we are people who have to Fulfill for the most part with commitments where we Should not fail, that is why in this case things must be Done very well to Be Clear that we Should not do Extra things and lose Money.