Is it possible to somehow set the fees in the original bitcoin-qt?
It was certainly possible, and I don't know if it has changed, but instead of thinking how to use the network for free, you'd better think about how to make it fast and sustainable. If I were a miner, there's no way I would let a transaction go through without a fee.
Think about the miner's point of view: why should he accept transactions without a fee?
Im using bitcoin core 0.10, and it lets you to decide on the fees or no fees option, and also provides an auto estimation on how much the
fee should be for the transaction to be processed quickly.
theres some more info here (
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/0.10/doc/release-notes.md#0100-change-log)for those who are like me and still dont use those fancy wallets everyone has today.
@op just pay the fee, its not worth it waiting possibly days/weeks for your transaction to be confirmed (unless its something realy small), and the fee is funny,
dont know why some people make such a fuss about it.
cheers