Topic: Shit things that has happened to you today - page 2. (Read 5889 times)

this thread has been around for about 2 months  the shit thing is I have to stay at home doing nothing on Christmas Day

This bitch be cray. We both have our issues and all, that have obviously caused this to happen. She has had a rough upbringing and she has never been able to deal with her emotions properly. She's been brought up to just suppress everything. But she confides in me like no one else... She always said she's never been able to act herself apart from around me. Now is not the time to be like this at all. She can talk to me, it's very hard for me to deal with. Thanks for your support guys, I literally have no one at the moment. 

Well that does sound weird and out of the blue. I guess bitches be crazy.

She's the glue that holds me together. She's been so good for me over the years. She got me off my ass and into university, I would never have got there without her help. I have no idea what she's thinking.... We go a kitten a few weeks ago... She obviously wasn't feeling like this then. Nothing to suggest she's been feeling like this for long enough to break us apart. It's blowing my mind

I dunno, that kinda sounds like she's wanting to split up.

I think you're better off without her if that's how she treats you.

I had really good surprises planned for our anniversary weekend. She would've loved it, it was just what she'd always wanted to do.... So on her way home from work she just immediately started blanking me. We had been talking during the day. She switched her phone off and staring ignoring me, I was like okay.... WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON. I drove around trying to find her (not sure If that was the right thing or not) I found her walking down the high street with her friend (who is practically a lesbian... you know the sort, she's obviously not help things lol). She just starting running away from me... When I finally got her to talk she was just shouting WE'RE OVER BEN DON't YOU FUCKING GET IT?. No I really don't get it. Now she just says she just needs her space to figure out what she wants. I find that very hard to take because we are really good together. There's no other guy or anything. Her head is just fucked up and I hope she comes around soon before I lose my shit completely...

So no, she didn't actually leave me as such. But she thinks we're over and she can't explain why. She's not even willing to talk things through at this point... She says she's doesn;t know what else to say... anything would be nice, because I'm getting nothing from her.

She was about to move her shit out at one point. If it weren't for my drastic intervention she would certainly be gone right now.

Did she actually 'leave' you as in split up with you, or just say she wanted to spend time away and with her family etc?

Yeah she wanted to go say with her parents... Like fuck am I hanging around in this house on my own! Left to pay the bills and just try to get on with things in the mean time. No fucking way.... I won't allow her to have the luxury of someone to talk to. She should talk to me!



She seems to making all the decisions, that's what I'm finding so hard... Do I not get a say at all?? I've done nothing to hurt her. We've both been with our lives this year but we have each other to talk to and fix things... I have a nice bit of cash in the bank. We'd planned what we were going to do next. She's not thinking straight I'm sure of it... I hope I'm not kidding myself.

Just last week I thought we had spoken about what was wrong... So we planned starting a new life together on the other side of the world. We were discussing schools for our future children and everything??! Way to give me mixed fucking signals.... WOMEN!!!!!!!

She left you on your anniversary? That's cold.  I like the fucking off to Amsterdam part though haha.

Nothing. I'm from Brazil and here are still 10 hours

My Girlfriend 'left me' on our 4 yr anniversary (16th december). She can't tell me what the fuck is going on... Apparently things got mediocure, great... And you don't want to fix things?!?! She always told me we were perfect, we were talking about getting married and having beautiful babies together just in last few weeks ago. I wish I knew how women worked! She said she just needs her space to work out what she wants.... So I've fucked off to Amsterdam, I grew up in Holland so it's a very familiar place for me, I'm not just here for the weed . It's not a million miles away from home either.

So here I am, spending christmas all alone and fucked up in a hotel room. This came from nowhere.... How do you just give her space when you've had no explanation?!?

She is my first love, we had so many plans together. I have enough BTC and fiat to last me a long time. I quit my job recently because I knew it was making miserable... Working 75hours a week is no good for your head or body..

Any advice please?

I'm so depressed! I have no one else in my life and that's only my fault...

Haha. My butt/balls go numb sometimes when cycling. First time it happened was quite a shock as it just felt like cock and balls had disappeared. feltbadman.jpg.

Broke 2 plastic hangers in 2 different rooms in 2 minutes. Wire hanger time.

i went cycling today and a few days ago.. my testis have been hurting, or maybe it's my prostate. i think i should stop, especially if i want to make a baby in the future.

Hey!!! I actually like reading this thread! It's crap but you entertain it. But to rebut...

1) Why do I have to be a man... although I can be a little aggressive/bossy I try to soften my tone with 'pleases' and 'thanks' and other nice shit like that
2) Trust me, I do get it! Point out one comment I said suggesting otherwise; you can't because I agree with you
3) I knew the car analogy was a bad example (even said so), but I couldn't resist... your name
4) I'm a realistic thinker; but I think you missed the fact I was referring to marketing tactics; similar to bait and switch   
5) If you skim this forum, you've heard about them way before I posted proof, and thanks for acknowledging that I found one

You really put a lot of effort into talking some sense into me, eh? If I had big brother, you'd be his voice.

This thread was crap from the get go, it's no big loss.

No, my man, you still don't get it. A random throw of the "dice" is not like a car going bad from wear. Thinking any different is nothing more than gamblers fallacy. It feels different, but it's not.  I don't really care to read about your proof, but I'm sure I would have heard of it were it legitimate and from one of the big dice sites. There are a lot of straight up rip-off casinos though, and it seems you may have found one of those.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamblers_fallacy

It's unfortunate we've taken this thread on another level... But I'm not mad at all, you're actually looking out. I know the house eventually win; by design. I'm also not making a claim that a popular site is ripping me off, please re-read my original post. I said "seem to have taken a turn for the worst..." This implies my perception of the usual game play. You've driven your car long enough to know when there's something wrong, right? Well, maybe that's not the best analogy. But you hit it on the mark... in a 'fair' casino, I might win. Full circle, right back to my original point.

Also, please don't generalize that people think that games are fixed because they're losing; this is ludicrous to anyone who gambles, it's a gamble after all. But it's of no wonder your message to others isn't being well-received, it could be your presentation. But I get what you're saying. Oh, and for the casino that I know for sure are ripping me off, yes I make it public. Read my previous posts.

Because for every post like yours I see, the guy making it really doesn't see the issue. I've tried pointing it out before, but it never seems to work. I'm not trying to rain on any enlightenment, just make my point that you were never in a situation to come out ahead, the odds were always against you. I'm not sure if you see that now, but it would probably be a good thing to know. Hope you don't get mad that I thought I'd point that out for your benefit.

You are making a claim that a popular site is ripping you off, yet you don't have any proof. If you have proof that a roll should have been a winning bet, but it came up loosing, you'd have a case. Either you don't know how to check them properly, or you actually have proof. If you were to continue using these sites I imagine such a skill would be most beneficial to learn. Confirm that you were ripped off and make it public (best be sure though, I don't like to look foolish any more than I have to myself.)

All casinos are set up to take from you, please learn that now. Even the "fair" ones, they all have a house edge. You might win, but the thing is you don't complain then. When the odds go against you, all the sudden it's "fixed!"

Can't you see that madness?

Okay... so this was my epiphany; why are you trying to rain on my enlightenment? Here's my emoticon with X's for eyes and the tongue sticking out just for you:  xx-P

But on a serious note, what are the checks and balances? Changing the client seed that can be changed by a quick hiccup on the server side? I've done that just to check my proof and it wasn't what I entered. I understand losing and odds -  I certainly don't expect to win 1/2 of the time even playing 50/50. But what I do expect is to be given the fair chance - the odds I pay for.

Besides, the issue isn't the fact that I'm being had, the point is it's getting hard to find a casino where you won't be had. Perceived or real had. We wouldn't need those precautions if the 'had' don't exist, right?