i dont trust your words either and i never heard about signed messages so how can i know you wont be able to steal my coins?
If you've never heard about a signed message, then you have no business buying or selling 5-BTC. It is one of the most basic functions of Bitcoin.
You are clearly more angry than you are knowledgeable. Maybe instead of insulting people, lashing out and throwing around accusations you should do some research and reading.
i followed the thread but its not very clear i will sign a message send me a youtube or a good explenation video
There is no better explanation than that thread provides. If you are unable to sign a message after reading that post, then I suggest you stop using Bitcoin until you understand it better. If you are thinking that your coins might be stolen after signing a message, then you do not understand Bitcoin in any capacity. Everything you are saying leads me to believe that you have never used Bitcoin before, or at least do not understand it on it's most basic level. If you are unable you follow simple instructions, or make choices then I am worried for your future success.
for escrow i will not use i trited to use monbux with one scammer i have emailed him and never got a response back from him and the scammer tried to rip me off with fake "escrow" account so if you are not interested just goodbye
Your strategy here isn't going to work, you are essentially saying "I am a victim, hand me money and trust me, because I don't trust you or anyone else"; this doesn't make sense even to the most gullible amongst us. If you have been scammed, while using an escrow or without using an escrow then you need to head here :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=83.0 <-- create a scam-accusation using the format found here :
https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/scam-report-format-use-it-to-make-scam-reports-properly-260073 .
You claim to have tried to use monbux, but they haven't been online since February. That is literally 3-months before you even created your account. There is no way you have ever been in contact with monbux, on the forum, with the account you're currently using. So are you claiming to be a victim of someone you have never had contact with, or are you claiming that you've been tricked by a fake-escrow? You're not making sense, was it monbux or was it not?
Here's an idea: Verify that you're dealing with the official escrow, there are endless ways to do this.
This is rather simple: Abide by our principles, procedures, rules, and processes or continue to throw a tantrum like a little girl while being ignored or berated.
Escrow and a Signed message will be required or nobody will deal with you. If you are unwilling to do these things, move on - you're wasting your time.