As stated by ranochigo in the post above you can implement CPFP method by spending the change.
Using CPFP, you can make your transaction more prioritized, but you can't make that confirmed very soon.
Your change address contains only 8089 satoshi.
Even if you send the lowest possible amount (547 satoshi) and pay the remaining balance (7542 satoshi) as transaction fee, the total fee would be 8453 satoshi.
The total size of transactions (the one already made and the one going to be made for CPFP) would be 133 + 222 = 355 vbyte.
So, the total fee would be about 23 satoshi per vbyte.
This amount of fee will put your transaction about 16 MB from the tip. It's not good for a fast confirmation but it will at least increase the chances of confirmation. Your transaction is now about 80 MB from the tip.
So i have to do another transaction that is somehow connected to original tx? But how to do that?
Don't get me wrong, because i know i'm the one that got myself into that mess, but all i read all over the internet is that i can do CPFP (as you and ranochigo stated) but no one really says how to do it
I already lost more then 20 hours trying to solved it past 48 hours so either i'm stupid or instructions aren't realy user/newbie friendly.
I thought it's not bad, not my usual fee, i can wait a little bit. So I'm using mycelium android wallet for this transfer, set up my fee to 34sats/byte which is low, but it should be confirmed in few hours. After i hit send button i saw there are some leftovers in my account and that tx fee was set for 4sats/byte.
The leftover you mentioned, are they unconfirmed transactions?
How many input are they in total?
How many output are they also in total?
When did you make the transaction? Hopefully not more than two weeks. You will need to know that these can be the reason why your transaction not confirmed in time in addition to the congested mempool and low fee paid in this present transaction.
It will be good to wait till weekend, Sunday precisely. During the weekend, mempool are less congested, and many low transaction fee that are not confirmed in the weekdays have high chance to be confirmed.
Also, know that if you want to use CPFP, another transaction fee will be required entirely in addition to the fee that will get the previous unconfirmed transaction confirmed. I mentioned this in order to let you know how useful replace-by-fee can be. Using RBF will only just make you to pump or cancel the transaction using higher fee (but lower if compared to CPFP if you are sending to another change address in your wallet). It will be better to get yourself a wallet that enable RBF to be used, one the best wallet that support RBF is electrum so that you will be able to just pump the fee next time for ease.
As i said i'm not too technical about all this stuff but i'll try to do my best to answer.
I'm not 100% sure about the leftover. I mean how it can be or not be unconfirmed? I see it in my mycelium wallet and also it appears in the tx. I don't get how that is possible.
https://btc.com/87f45f4054eb12c8dcbc7e14ba71cca166ddc270640fdb8a11b5893a0f2ec634I see 2 outputs here, one is the receiver, second one should (that i'm not sure) be the change. I'm not sure about it for 2 reasons:
The change appear only in my mycelium wallet, electrum dosen't seem to see it - balance is 0.
I don't understand how my original tx took 0.00009 from my wallet, put 0.00000911 into a fee and rest into change. Why not just do 1 output and leave my change with my wallet?
Tx was sent 2 days and 6 hours ago.
There is one input and 2 outputs if I understand correctly the link i posted.
I know mempool get stuck, the low fee use wasn't on purpose.