there must be a first move of making moves for another source of income provided if the gambler want to live up to expectations, he must have a target plan and time frame to discover more potential opportunities through gambling or from other sources to help earn a living in addition.
This is very important for every gambler because no area of job gives you total of 100% profit on monthly or yearly basis as there must be down times and such moment need to be taken care of for support. Most gamblers seem not to understand this, they don't think of diversifying but only to focus on one source of expectation of financial benefit and that is why when they don't make winnings from gambling after some time they begin to go down financially because they have exhausted their bankroll. What you see next is frustration that leads to addiction because of the hope to get back to their feet through gambling. Most people who lose everything they have to make this mistake and take gambling as a source of income and try to get stable earnings from it which is not possible at all. It is always good if things are taken the way they are and used accordingly to avoid unnecessary losses.
If you are still in control and you are not trying to make it as your source of financial income, you can feel the enjoyment and the entertaining side of gambling, but like what you said, each time you'll try to make it as your income generating place the outcome most of the time turn against you.
If there are people who can generate profits, those are people who can control and know their limitations. Experienced gamblers who can decide the right way when playing the game, both winning and losing side, they can control their emotions.
