Being motivated in anyway at all depends on your focus and readiness to strive else others thoughts behinds it acts as a wall for one to lean on at the downtimes or the uptimes to keep boost your energy and keep pushing til you gets to the hill to achieve your aim.
This is as a view on how you considers advices.
At your guilty or not guilty circumstances, if you are not ready of acceptance to make a change, nomatter however or whoever would preached or advices you, you can never be convinced to change in a second thought.
Individuality open minded and willingness has the primary logins towards your aim.
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In life we all Dream and aspire to be great but lack the right motivation. Anything or anyone can be a motivation to somebody's dream, we often hear some individuals say that they are self motivated while on the other hand some would say my dad, my mom, sister, uncle etc. is the motivation behind my success.
Self motivation is also inspired by others in my opinion. Because when you see others are growing and you want to be your best then you motivate yourself and set some goals to achieve. So for me my motivation is also like same which is self motivation but inspired by my surrounding members in real life. They instructed me to be a good human or student and I just tried to do it even better and win the competition. And obviously I follow "Holly Qur'an" to keep alive my motivations. Because without help of mighty Allah no one can be focused on his goals and can be depressed.
The best motivation for me is my faith in God, and faith in the possibility of a better future for me and my children after me.
Belief in God does not mean laziness, but rather it is a strong motivation that gives a person a lot of comfort and reassurance. The motivation to obtain a better future for children gives you a lot of strength, impulsiveness, patience and enduring difficulties.
Belief in God does not mean laziness, but rather it is a strong motivation that gives a person a lot of comfort and reassurance. The motivation to obtain a better future for children gives you a lot of strength, impulsiveness, patience and enduring difficulties.
The best motivation is pursue those things which make us happy and make out life to have a purpose. Those who also believe in God would also find comfort of the words and teachings for humanity, actually, I have myself witness how people who were trapped in a sad situation managed to improve their life thanks to religion and the community within which is caring to help those who seek to find the Father.
In the end, what we all try to get is happiness and comfort, which all it implies: health, love, food. It is something one can learn by checking the piramid of needs of the human beings.
In the end, what we all try to get is happiness and comfort, which all it implies: health, love, food. It is something one can learn by checking the piramid of needs of the human beings.
Motivation must start from yourself then from others. The bottom line is that both are equally important. And the most important thing in my opinion, is that you must have motivation, intention, goals, and hard work. You will never be able to achieve your dreams even though there are a thousand motivational words for you, but you are still lazy and don't move.
Ones motivation will determine how far a person will go , this is the most important one. I know sometimes we need motivation from people to activate our own motivation too, but in a case where one is not even ready no matter the motivation from people around I don't think it will play any positive role. We just need to help push ourselves first, other people motivation is to support and encourage not to give up but still continue till positive results are made. 
I think all you can do in life is to be the best version of yourself. If you get up in the morning, work hard & go to bed knowing that you were a good person & couldn’t have done any more then that’s all you can do. We all have goals, targets etc but we must make them realistic. We all want to be Tom Brady but it’s not going to happen. Whether it’s a new qualification or a promotion at work, to make your wife proud of you, self motivation to go out there every day & do your best is a recipe for success.
Of course women like to have their men achieving in whatever they do, they want them to excel and so they also assist them in prayers especially the women that have the fear of God.
We can also motivate others by encouraging them using our own experiences. Sometimes we are a living motivation to people even without speaking to them if they know our triers and how we have been able to win in all the challenges. Also those people who know us, share our stories to others.
Most of us often look for the best motivation from various references without asking ourselves, why should I be motivated.
Even though it is very basic to our soul, it will not rise if we don't know what caused it.
Then the sentence why this must be asked into ourselves so that it is motivated for ourselves in particular and also for others.
Even though it is very basic to our soul, it will not rise if we don't know what caused it.
Then the sentence why this must be asked into ourselves so that it is motivated for ourselves in particular and also for others.
On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
I don't subscribe to your definition of why although, I agree to a point that, the WHY becomes a big player or course for one to wish to do better.- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
Fir the record, no one can push you than you would push yourself and that's to say, no one can motivate you the way you would motivate yourself. You might get to pick a role model go life and wish to do as they do or see them for a reason why it's possible to archive certain heights in life but, it all goes down to you haven't been willing yo take necessary steps and push yourself.
Self motivation and determination becomes a course gor change.
On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
Although siblings, parents, or other family members can motivate someone as well, what motivates me the most is when I see someone achieve a common goal in a very meaningful way that is not illegal. That always serves as motivation to me in order to keep trying and also get what that person has got. Self motivation today causes some people to give up when they see they keep trying but they didn't get what they want. However, even if someone tried to motivate you and you lack self-motivation, I doubt it would work since you would feel like, as an adult, no one could force you to do something you didn't want to.
Particularly if he received a certificate from school attesting to his success. I realize that our fates are different, but when one person achieves success, it inspires others to keep working hard until they, too, reach their goals.
I think all you can do in life is to be the best version of yourself. If you get up in the morning, work hard & go to bed knowing that you were a good person & couldn’t have done any more then that’s all you can do. We all have goals, targets etc but we must make them realistic. We all want to be Tom Brady but it’s not going to happen. Whether it’s a new qualification or a promotion at work, to make your wife proud of you, self motivation to go out there every day & do your best is a recipe for success.
Motivation must start from yourself then from others. The bottom line is that both are equally important. And the most important thing in my opinion, is that you must have motivation, intention, goals, and hard work. You will never be able to achieve your dreams even though there are a thousand motivational words for you, but you are still lazy and don't move.
Motivation is not the only thing people need to achieve their dream and from my research what people to achieve their dream differs.
For some people what they need to achieve their dream is persistence and resilience while for some people confidence and self-belief are what they need not motivation.
For some people what they need to achieve their dream is persistence and resilience while for some people confidence and self-belief are what they need not motivation.
In life we all Dream and aspire to be great but lack the right motivation. Anything or anyone can be a motivation to somebody's dream, we often hear some individuals say that they are self motivated while on the other hand some would say my dad, my mom, sister, uncle etc. is the motivation behind my success.
Personally I think the greatest motivation a person needs to thrive is his /her "WHY"
W=what
H=hurts
Y=you
Personally I think the greatest motivation a person needs to thrive is his /her "WHY"
W=what
H=hurts
Y=you
Trying to figure out what to do and what to do next is already a strong motivator to keep you focused on your goals. Only a lazy man and a man who does not plan his future effectively would never think outside the box, find solutions to new problems, or be curious about what is going on around him.
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What hurts you most could be anything so a deep meditation on your "why" will help push you a bit harder on you career endeavor.
On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.
Any source of motivation is welcome if it can at least solve an issue and provide a solution to whatever is at hand. Trying to get the persons motivation to value more over the other is a complete waste of time and thought. If you’re already determined to know more, then you’re already motivated at achieving your goal already.
You don't need motivation from anyone, what you only need to think is about the daily survival that you have to make. I barely remember who said that if you need a motivation, you'll stay on where you are.
I know that motivation is going to drive you at your best when you've got one. So, if you're going to have something that pushes you at your best, what you need to do is to do everything with happiness.
So whether you've got one or none, do it with joy and fun like if you're in your job.
I know that motivation is going to drive you at your best when you've got one. So, if you're going to have something that pushes you at your best, what you need to do is to do everything with happiness.
So whether you've got one or none, do it with joy and fun like if you're in your job.
I think self motivation is everything, you can be motivated by people though, but your self motivation is your power, I see external motivation as a channel for achievements or an advice that can help you reach your own set goals.
To me someone's success might motivate me but their achievements might be what I want, but it might not be at that material (particular)time.
for example I might be motivated that someone just got a car for maybe 5.5million or there about, but if I have 5.5million I won't use mine to buy a car, I might use it to buy a land or start up a business, so to me my self motivation is just everything to me, I see external motivation as a channel for learning or advice because it's not every someone does I will do, or anything someone achieves I would want to achieve....
To me someone's success might motivate me but their achievements might be what I want, but it might not be at that material (particular)time.
for example I might be motivated that someone just got a car for maybe 5.5million or there about, but if I have 5.5million I won't use mine to buy a car, I might use it to buy a land or start up a business, so to me my self motivation is just everything to me, I see external motivation as a channel for learning or advice because it's not every someone does I will do, or anything someone achieves I would want to achieve....
I used to think that self-motivation is everything until I joined a martial arts dojo decades ago. The teacher asked me to kick the sandbag and told me I didn't give everything and started screaming. Long story short, I was able to kick harder when that guy was screaming and saying nasty things. The moral of the story is you need someone to PUSH YOU beyond your limit.
Both is definitely something everyone should have in their life. However at the end of the day, it is you that will make things happen so I still believe self motivation is the strongest out of the two. It doesn't matter if there's hundreds of people cheering you on if you yourself don't have that drive inside you. Motivation from other people surely helps but it's always our decision to make a move.
Everyone has which kind of motivation that is best for them. When we were kids,our parents motivate is to study hard and also to be focus. Gradually when you have someone that motivates you,you can later when you are on your own motivate yourself. Some persons on their own needs other people to motivate them on their decisions because they feel that two heads are better than one.
On the other hand,some people have that gift of self motivation in the sense that they encourage themselves and take a bold step to whatever is suppose to be done by them. One thing I understand is that motivation mustn't be talking to someone but it can be that the way someone is handling issues can motivate you that you can do the same. I was motivated by my friend's dad even though we have never sat down to talk for once.
On the other hand,some people have that gift of self motivation in the sense that they encourage themselves and take a bold step to whatever is suppose to be done by them. One thing I understand is that motivation mustn't be talking to someone but it can be that the way someone is handling issues can motivate you that you can do the same. I was motivated by my friend's dad even though we have never sat down to talk for once.
Different things can motivate someone not only yourself or second party like parents or siblings. You can have a motivation after you have come out of a particular challenge, so will this be considered as a personal motivation or third party? I see many things can be a source of motivation but what is important is how we are able to see that as something motivating us. Like they say, the best advise is the one that an individual give to themselves. Therefore, if you had a challenge and after words that challenge became your source of motivation, then take up the challenge and make your life better, that is what is important. We don't have to allow situations that are not pleasant to bring us down but we are to learn from it, get motivated and move on.
On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Maybe self motivation may be the most important but external stimuli are also important. External motivation is mainly important for stimulating self-motivation, and herein lies its importance.
Most of those who were able to succeed in achieving great goals necessarily believed in themselves and in their ability to implement and reach, even if they were constantly frustrated.
Today I watched the final match of the Wimbledon women's professional tennis championship, and as usual, the Tunisian Anas Jaber lost, who always won us back to lose in the final match. This provides an example that self-motivation is important to win all matches but can backfire when self-confidence becomes excessive.
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