Topic: The is always on gambling, never the individual. (Read 636 times)

Well that is a Very Common case , it is Difficult for Human beings to Accept that they Made a Mistake, very few are the ones who will Accept such Blame, in fact things should always be like this, I have seen many Threads Dealing with this Issue , but in all of them there is always the subtopic of addiction, and that is something that usually Calls me the Attention because I know that in gold there are many people who are suffering from this, and it is Terrible , or I can Imagine how someone is like these at the moment they are not apsndo porn this Type of cporbelma that in fact has to treat it very quickly before it happens to maorpes us always have to consider something before Playing , that if we do not control ourselves it is inevitable that we add in the Addiction , the emotion , the impulse are the that make us talk About them , sometimes listening to people who say that Some Friends or People have been so lucky that they are able to play in the casino and win, but that from one moment to the next things went wrong and I try to recover the lost dienor.

It is very difficult to make money from a Casino that the person who has lost Returns it to the casino through the game, the only way is to make very big losses that force the casino to give what was invested and a little of Previous funds and that It's just that it's not very viable, because to do something like that you need a lot of luck and that's not common at all, but particularly if the person tries to do that scheme or this tactic, then the worst thing you can do is mess things up when you try to take decisions, is it when we decide, if it is yes, well, if not, considering so many things, we can think that every time a person enters a house, there is a strong potential for Being addicted ? N o, the people who are in a casino should have the greatest of all strength not to spend more than they should, there is the secret that many people have who are currently lost under this influence and are addicted.

What do you mean by success? does it mean that they will get a lot of money from gambling so that they can become rich people? it doesn't make sense if the idea of success is brought to gambling, but on the other hand, I conclude that maybe the word success you mean is those who can maintain and control their gambling properly so that it stays fine and does not experience a large number of defeats. It is true that excessive expectations are usually the problem why gamblers are unable to accept the fact at the end of the session that they lost so that emotions dominate and finally chase defeat to return the money that has been lost without a specified time limit, simply put, excessive expectations will only make us feel disappointed at the end of the session.

Exactly, experienced gamblers will usually know what they should do, none other than because they already have a high number of hours in gambling so they can know what to do if the situation in gambling starts to go wrong such as taking a break and resuming tomorrow, and different from gamblers who are always focused on winning. instead of getting a win but the opposite happens they suffer the number of losses in the long run slowly.

Reality is hard to accept.

And even when we're just losing, we don't want to take the gamble but who is gambling with our money? is it your friend, your relative or some random guy?

None of them but us.

It's just to accept the reality that within our hands, we've lost and became losers. But when we win and became profitable, who's going to take the credit? Definitely, ourselves.

You have expressed it very correctly, and that is exactly what happened. Adding just a little money can cause our losses to get bigger, especially if we add a large amount of money. That will increase the number of losses even greater.

But if you can control the gambling games you play and also know how much money you have to use, you won't experience too many losses. You can still enjoy gambling as entertainment because that is the purpose of gambling, so you don't gamble excessively. You will also know when to stop gambling after a while.

If you feel that you have been gambling too much, you should immediately take a break and taking leave for a few days or weeks is very feasible. That is what wise gamblers do who do not force themselves when gambling.

Listen. This idea is one of the most interesting that I have come across here. Often people say that this job is destroying me or that my spouse is destroying me or something like that. In fact, if something bothers you or destroys you, then just leave that place. When people talk about a disease with which they can’t do anything, that’s a different matter, but I understand them perfectly well. But when a person says that gambling destroys him, this is not true. It is he who destroys himself, not gambling. 5/5 for this article

Defense mechanism, in particular with displacement. Due to frustrations, we tend to redirect our stress to an object and in this case, the man blames gambling, as an activity, which ruined his life but in reality, it is him who made those bets and it is him who engaged to gambling in the first place. But are they aware of it? Yes which is why they are displacing the stress to other things. Is it a bad thing? It depends; sometimes we need to accept our mistakes in order to learn from it and there are just times we need to displace the stress tooither object in order to move on and to free ourself from it, just depends on what type of an individual you are or what would work for you more.
Gambling addiction is always driven by greed. You won't be obsessed of something if it is not too much and it happened that gambling involves money. What makes people obsessed with gambling is the idea of hitting the jackpot and getting rich in an instant. Although people are aware of the odds of winning, we still think in such way 'coz we are seeing people who are actually winning in gambling across different games; this gives an idea to gamblers that their 'time' would also come someday, however it won't be guaranteed no matter how long you are playing. You could win indeed but will not always be millions in an instant.

It's not an investment, it's a game, a gamble that can get you your money back, or you'll lose it, but consciously and know the risks.

As long as I play games at gambling, I just enjoy it as entertainment only, not using a lot of money because I know this will disappear.
When you ask what's fun when you'll find out that your money will be gone, it's like you bought cigarettes for you to smoke,
and you know it's just going to be useless smoke.

This is a pleasure that cannot be measured only from one point of view,
Everyone has their own pleasure and is willing to spend their money to achieve that pleasure.

In gambling when winning it is only a bonus and certainly will not always win.
Gambling in person is just a boredom busting game for me and not as a primary source of income,
so it's clear I don't put all my money into gambling.

Gambling definitely plays a part in getting these people hooked until they get addicted, but I do agree with you, for the most part it all depends upon the person that's gambling. For example, we have people who have never gambled in their lives be so addicted to gambling from the get-go that it became their lifestyle, eventually shit hit the fan and now they are addicted to it with no signs or chances of recovery. But there are also newbloods who have never tried gambling but are so consistent with keeping their shit in check that you'd think they learnt how to gamble responsibly the hard way.

Gambling is inherently addicting, it's up to you if you would let yourself fall for this honeytrap and subject yourself to possible years if not decades of problems and gambling addiction, or if you're going to stand up to become a more responsible gambler version of yourself so you don't lose more than what you can afford to lose and end your sessions with a pretty intact bankroll, if not a net profit. I myself learned how to gamble responsibly and for the fun only after realizing that I'm slowly becoming addicted to gambling. I quit cold turkey and only came back when my mindset is solid and configured to only gambling when I am not overwhelmed with emotions that would affect my gambling behavior.

Unfortunately this is something that not even quarter the number of gamblers do. Gamble as a hobby? No. The average person is in it for money… in fact desperately for money. This is just the truth. They gamble carelessly just because they want to solve all their life problems all at once. And I don’t think gambling should be about fun generally. You just shouldn’t be too invested in it. It shouldn’t be about fun because the outcome is unknown. What’s fun knowing that your money could be gone and gone forever? It’s fun when you win. But when you stake the money? You just have to be optimistic.

if someone experiences bad things that can be said to have ruined their life because of gambling, it is because of their own wrong actions, and not because of wrong gambling, people who have a good mindset towards gambling I think even though they are active in gambling but they don't experience anything bad especially with their lives being ruined, because they know the limits of gambling responsibly, if someone whose life is ruined and says that because gambling is wrong, it is because they themselves are wrong in responding to their gambling, because if If they don't gamble excessively, maybe their life won't be ruined. because I am sure that someone who is addicted to gambling and experiences their life being destroyed is also based on their own wrong actions towards gambling, it is not their gambling fault, because gambling is basically a paid game and it is normal for us to lose money in gambling because that is the rule. gambling was established to generate profits for the company, and if their lives are ruined it is because they forced themselves to make a profit in the wrong way.

There are many bad and negative points of view towards gambling because gambling has changed a lot of people's lives to ruin, but you need to know that the destruction occurred because of their own actions, their lives will not be ruined if they gamble wisely and don't overdo it.

It is usually a normal human nature for people to blame others or  something else for their misfortunes. Under many occasions people are advised to gamble responsibly but most times not everyone does this some persons who are gambling addicts can even go out of their way to take quick loan from people just to gamble which is wrong even if there is a chance of winning.

Sometimes gambling addiction is driven by greed but still gambling cannot be blamed for making someone go bankrupt but rather the  person. Besides people are the architect of most of their problems and not gambling.

The gambler who want the entertainment alone and doesn’t need any money returns will be the successful gambler.Because they can feel the gambling without any depression,the expectation will always hurt.We know this,the Men always know this.Because if he love the girl,she may reject his proposals.The same thing will happen in the marriage proposal of the men.The gambling was the third one in the row for the men.So the experienced gamblers will try to entertain themselves with the good entertainment.The wrong approach to the gambling by expecting the dollars as the return will leads to the loss in the gambling at the end.

Yes what the OP said is true and maybe I would also blame the person more than the gambling, because casinos created gambling just for leisure activities and not for something that should be done seriously, fun should be the main focus if you want to engage in gambling, understanding the basic concept of gambling about winning and losing will at least keep you a little awake from the wrong point of view and out of control actions. People say that gambling almost ruined their lives when in fact there are quite a few people out there (gamblers) who are doing just fine despite their involvement in gambling.

It is very clear that the main problem and cause is because they are unable to control their gambling activities, do not understand that gambling is a game of probability that has no certainty and guarantees that are only suggested to fill empty time when you are off work for example. And I'm sure the person the OP is referring to is one of those who is nothing but a victim of addiction due to having the wrong approach, so the point is if you want to gamble then first understand what gambling is, what the chances of winning are and how bad the risks are in gambling, if you don't want to lose money then it's better not to get involved.

It's a habit that tend to playoff in most gamblers and I can say it's even a general thing in most person that are irresponsible in a general sense although most of them do this after losing major funds. If a gambler has the ability to set some principle that will guide him or her on his habit then he or she will find out that this gambling activities is actually fun and nothing to put blame on someone. The funny thing is that they don't tend to blame anyone if the results goes in favor of them but when it goes sideways then it becomes a problem.

I agree. You should never blame the inanimate object, or a concept, but yourself. People who do that are in denial or completely broken and depressed and that's all they can think of, that they weren't aft fault but it's this devil that made them do it.
It's funny, but think of any addiction and you'll see that people do the same. It's not me, it's alcohol. It's not me, it's heroine that makes me do all these things.
The only advice I have to you if you're one of these people is: get a grip, own your life because you're not a puppet on a string. You are in control!

It's not only about gambling, people often try to find ways to blame others for their mistakes if their mistakes either make them or someone else lose something or cause a negative consequence of any sort, and if they find the opportunity to do that, they don't let it go and do their best so that someone else or something else is blamed for what they did and they are proved innocent. I don't say that this is what everyone does, but many people tend to have such habits.

I hate people who don't have the guts to accept their mistakes and say that yes, it's our fault that they did a certain thing and we are sorry for it if it caused anyone something negative or they feel bad for themselves because they did that thing instead of making excuses or blaming someone else for that.

Blaming the toaster for burned toast is easy but ineffective. I understand the rush. Gambling is like hot cuisine. A little adds flavor, but too much causes discomfort.

Like driving, you cant control traffic but can control your actions. Gambling requires knowing when to stop. Those losses? Feedback, not bad luck. "Hey, maybe rethink your strategy, or maybe its time for a break." Instead of blaming the game, reflection is needed.

I say gamble with your head, not over it. Set limitations, follow them, and remember its fun, not a full-time work. When it stops being fun, step back. It takes smarts, not luck. And learning from mistakes? Thats life advancement.

There are countless people in gambling who manage to gamble but after losing they try to blame the gambling platform instead of blaming themselves. It is a low characteristic of most people. I want to say for that particular people since the gambling platform does not force them why they blame the gambling platform for their bad situation. Most of the time when the gamblers win the bet or get the jackpot it doesn't reflect on them but when they lose their money by over greedy betting then gambling becomes a big problem for them. A gambler is admissible if he takes such thoughtful and necessary decisions before gambling but when he has nothing else to do after losing everything, he is trying to blame.

Nevertheless, these people are partially right. Not everyone is to blame for becoming addicted to casinos, it's just that these people turned out to be weak in their inner qualities. Can we blame them for this?
I think they rather need specialized help, but their desire to be cured will perfectly show the very essence of such problematic players.
Someone pretends to be addicted while working on it, but someone really wants to return life and their original state. The one that was at the time BEFORE the game.

I think gambling is difficult to control the emotions of some people, even like crazy people who lose their souls if they become addicts who don't know how to stop. I even saw some people robbing their parents of their money to gamble. I'm sure they are not well educated and make gambling a way or shortcut to getting rich so they forget how to work. I think there is no one we can blame if we lose in this game, accepting to play means accepting our losses and wins. we reserve the right to leave the person or disqualify the person who blames others in playing.