Well i guess people always will get cautious when people in power decide to not fix something and instead try to force an alternative solutions on the people. I think it's pretty normal to react that way since such a behaviour normally means that something fishy is coming with it. That has not to be the fact but the reaction on such actions are still he same
Bitcoin does not scale well without a better infrastructure. Anyone with a proper IT background should know this by now. Who are you to decide what a 'primary' solution (in your case, block size) and what an 'alternative' solution is? There is nothing fishy coming with LN. The only 'fishy stuff' that could come, comes due to the delusion of knowledge and understanding of LN.
Well, this is the bitcoin community and bitcoiners normally share the vision of bitcoin becoming a worldwide currency. Now some people in power clam we have to leave bitcoin in order to use their system and deny the way to fix the real bitcoin. The reaction is awaitable for sure.
There is nobody 'in power'. The 'forkers' tend to use open source and multiple implementation as argument. Due to Bitcoin being trustless, open source and based on consensus there can be nobody 'in power'. They are just people that have stated how they feel about it. I might leave Bitcoin as well if a political fork becomes a reality.
The same way you have to buy into payment channels and bind your bitcoins in the system without being able to freely move them. That's the first hurdle to overcome when it comes to convince people of using it. In fact i think it will be pretty much impossible to move a considerable amount of people to move to ln.
'Buy into payment channels'?
Well, you can say that changetip is bitcoin too then. The bitcoins only are transferred offchain. And you don't see a difference why you would not trust changetip with your monthly earnings? Yes, ln is safer but still there is a group who demands you, no tries to force you to use their new system. They don't take out the artificial restriction that hinders the bitcoin network and present their own network as solution.
Changetip is very much Bitcoin (the currency). LN is similar to changetip, except that LN is not a single party that can run away with your money, or go bankrupt, or hold your coins hostage. After a certain time period you get your funds back.
You clearly don't get it:
Changetip own the private key with "your" money: not Bitcoin
Lightning Network doesn't hold your private key, you hold it: Bitcoin
Well, that's is one way of looking at it (still better than his). Apparently people think 'off-chain' implies 'not direct in relation to mainchain/Bitcoin'.