Topic: The madness of gambling addicts. - page 10. (Read 15689 times)

So you are implying you were able to quit gambling by your own and also by trading advices from people of this forum? If that is the case, I must say it gives me the impression you actually were not that much trapped within addiction, you were fortunate, though.
I have that impression, since I have read many times about very unhinged gambling addicted people who were so blinded by gambling, to the point they were willing to commit crimes, deceive their own family and even steal from their friends, all of it for the sake of having another chance and try to get their money back.

I am curious about your story, how often did you use to gamble and what kind of games you used to engage with during that period of time when you considered yourself to be suffering from addiction? It were purely sport betting or you prefered to wager on casino games like dices and Plinko?

Actually, everything will be safe if you don't play it excessively, basically this doesn't only apply to gambling, for example, when we eat enough our body will be healthy, but if we overdo it it will damage our body in the end, the same is true with any gambling that is excessive. the end result will never be good, for example like gambling addiction where the disease is very difficult to cure and there are lots of gambling addicts that can be seen around us and very few are cured of gambling addiction itself because the side effects are very dangerous.

The point is that if we gamble appropriately and consider gambling as just entertainment, it will not make us addicted to gambling, let alone make us crazy because we want to continue gambling, but it is true that a beginner must be aware of this, that there is a risk that lurks at any time and they become addicted to gambling. because most beginners don't understand how to control themselves well, therefore it is not surprising that beginners are more easily addicted to gambling than experienced players because experienced people have learned a lot and know how to control themselves.

Gambling addiction is one thing that one battles with throughout his life.It is a problem that you really need to deal with and it will not to wreck your life, else,it is the bissetting sin that one finds it difficult to avoid.
The first time I knew about gambling,I didn't know it has side effects,but when I get to know about the side effects,which is addiction,I had already gotten addicted,and at that stage,I was feeling sorry for myself because I know how strong it has held me.It was like a bondage that I keep myself in,but thanks to this forum,their advice gave me strength to be able to stay without gambling.

It is interrelated in my opinion, those who are crazy because of gambling are indeed the goal is victory or even they think they can succeed by just gambling so they gamble inappropriately because it is the wrong thinking that leads them to big losses. I think those who are crazy about gambling maybe it's because they want to succeed financially but don't want to put in the effort so they look for shortcuts by gambling, even though gambling is not entirely going to make them successful, let alone for success, even small wins are difficult to get let alone with big wins that can make them rich in money.

If we really like gambling, we should be able to have a balance with what we want and what we have, like we like gambling and with the money we have, we should be able to balance our finances with our fondness for gambling, gambling with the money we can afford by not forcing ourselves to continue gambling, even though the reason for gambling is just for fun but obviously not gambling excessively like forcing ourselves.

I once came across such kinds of people and they even bragged about their milestones some of their stories are alarming because when they rob a home without anyone inside, they get everything they can from the appliances to the foods in the refs and sometimes they even use the comfort room to relieve themselves. Their reasons why they are doing these things are all related, whether they're addicted to drugs or they badly need to finance their gambling activities or to pay some huge debts which we all know doesn't really make sense at all. Those who can't stop themselves when they feel nothing is going to benefit them from their habits are those who usually fall for this kind of thing especially those who don't take advice from anyone at all.

With those who cannot stop gambling in my opinion it is because they want to satisfy their curiosity, so that even though they experience losses they still continue to gamble to be able to get a win, instead of wanting to get a win but it only makes them even more miserable by wanting to chase losses that should not be done but they still do this dangerous action. even when they run out of money to gamble they can do things that should not be, such as stealing other people's money to return to gambling.
The impetus for the thought that makes them take dangerous actions is winning is none other than one of them because of their thoughts that think they can make the defeat they get turned into victory. But of course, victory cannot be obtained easily, the fact is that gambling will only end in defeat is a big possibility that is certain to happen, it is very rare for gamblers to easily win with the gambling they do.

Thank you. The thing is that @FortuneFollower suggested providing "entertainment options" like gambling in poorer neighborhoods, and my reply was to that suggestion. I think overall it will do no good to poor people. I'm not trying to say that gambling is for rich people only, but it's definitely a bad idea, trying to "entertain" poor uneducated people with gambling. That would create even more cases with crazy acts of gambling addicts like in the OP. I hope you agree with that too.

the thing with success definitions is interesting
my success definition doesn't have a lot to do with money, money is inside the equation but I put success way more related to free time, being able to choose what to do with your time and the people you want to spend time with

a bit like "full bank account, empty schedule" + happy and fit.

Of course, because they will do anything for pleasure and personal satisfaction, they don't care about the people who have been robbed because certain conditions caused by chronic gambling addiction really affect their thought patterns and feelings to become more uncontrollable.
There are quite lot of cases where gambling addicts have lost their source of income so what they do to make money is only criminal means.
This is very unfortunate incident and the worst thing is that the consequences can make everyone mindset and perspective towards gambling addicts much worse, they will think that gambling addicts are criminals.

This is the first time I have heard of brain surgery to change person thinking pattern, basically person thinking pattern will be related to suggestions and behavior.
If gambling addict can be completely kept away from gambling activities and instill mindset with certain beliefs plus encouragement to carry out various other positive activities, it can help change the mindset of gambling addict.
But all this takes time and cannot be done in short time.

Money in a way is an indicator of success, at least it is proof that people find what you are doing as valuable so they are willing to pay for it.

There might be other things that are extremely interesting, but maybe they are not valued by society. That's possible.

In the end as usual a balance is probably the best way of dealing with this.

Majority wont really be that stopping but instead they would really be continuing on the things that they've been dealing off with. Gamblers would really be that usually be tending to make out that kind of
approach on trying out to make that kind of chasing up their loses and thats why on the time that they've seen that they do still have that money they would really be definitely be tending to
continue on what they are doing because they do have that kind of mindset that they could really be able to make themselves that recover on what they do have lost and at the same time they are
really that wishing that they could really make out some nasty win which it would really be resulting for them to be able to make themselves to have that good winning.

I think we take "making money" too much as a signal of success when this is not always true
one can make money in several different ways and a person who makes a lot of money without morality doesn't deserve a label of sucess
of course the final judge is always time and we have no way to bribe our pillows...
sometimes I wonder if I believe in karma as a wishful thinking thing or as truth... let it be

It is very true, because when things have to be approached from the most common point of view, they have to happen in proportion so that we generate our money/fun/enjoyment or not, if we maintain that balance I think things are fine. , but the moment things get out of control is when we have to evaluate what is happening, because basically when we generate some money in some way, very few people repeat it, they simply leave it there so that it generates more money and they have options to be better, but that ends up wearing down, and when enjoyment turns into pressure, stress, then other consequences come and the biggest one is addiction and that is what affects us and our family, sometimes the environment. environment, and that is damage that occurs and is very harmful, that is what must be avoided.

it's interesting how sometimes we can be fooled by reality
if we choose to ignore things instead of looking at what we have at our hands and deciding with it
I understand it happening though I still think it is quite crazy
the way is learning to be better than yesterday...

I think that those who are addicted to chronic gambling turn into psychopaths, they start robbing, stealing, manipulating, they really can't feel the pain of the person who is the victim

I once read in an article, several rich families in a country advised their families who were addicted to gambling to undergo brain surgery, the aim was to change their behavior to become empathetic again like other normal humans

When people become addicted to gambling, they no longer think about themselves because they will only think about gambling. Losing money will just be normal for them, and they don't consider it something big.
Those who are addicted to gambling may start to annoy other people by starting to lose their temper, changing habits and making people around them wonder. It is difficult to pull them out of gambling because they have become addicted to gambling.
That's why when playing gambling, we have to be able to control ourselves well so we don't experience these problems.

This is just like the people that enjoy bungee jumping and other extreme activities, as on the surface it may not make much sense for people to risk their lives and their health when they seem to gain nothing from the activity.

However for those people it is completely worth it, as what they are after is the adrenaline rush they may get and that makes them to feel alive, so I really think that many of those that become addicted gamblers have a similar way to think about gambling, and that is what ends up getting them into so much trouble.

You have said that if we want to get a bigger win then the level of risk that we have to take must also be high and you have also said the right thing that most likely a gambler will only experience a greater amount of loss, so this is the reason why gambling should not be used as a place to earn, or that means don't put hopes on winning because overall when you take more risks or gamble too often then most likely these actions will only make you experience a greater amount of loss than getting a win.

Actually if we think using common sense then of course the better choice is not to make gambling as anything even if for example you come with the intention of having fun because it is still ultimately like the idea of losing your money intentionally, and if there are other activities that can also be fun without the risk of losing money then why don't you choose it? This is suspicious, but yes, everyone has their own choices and maybe I would just suggest that when you make gambling a pleasure activity for example then you must really apply caution and high vigilance because it is very possible that at some point you experience a change in mindset that leads to impulsive gambling due to not being able to resist all the temptations that look tempting which in the end turns out to be the result that does not match the expectations that make you emotional and make decisions that lead to impulsive gambling. On the other hand you have a pretty good prioritization where you prepare yourself for the possibility of losing before you start gambling, and this is a smart idea to strengthen self-acceptance when it turns out that we lose so as not to get too emotional.

some people will enjoy the thrill of making and losing money more than other people
it varies
it's normal too that we have different preferences on what to do with our free time and with our money
no big deal with that

the problem is when our habits starts to interfere with living a good life and when we start to hurt others

If it is a fact, what happens is that the game should be seen as entertainment as something that should be available so that you can have a different time, we cannot say that it is only for enjoyment or only pleasure, the goal is to make money, but In the event that it is not fulfilled then we still have to accept it, when we start inventing to try to earn more money we can take many risks, among those risks is that of losing much more money, so these are the things that we must see, first, see how much money we are willing to spend in the casino, for me that is a priority before playing, second, if we do everything possible to win and it is not achieved, we have to assume that it was lost and another day we have to keep trying, but seeing it as income cannot happen because it is simply irresponsible thinking.