Topic: Tips on How to respond to family financial needs - page 2. (Read 199 times)

I do not agree with this approach to family members, the truth needs to be clarified. Even if the family is rich/poor, the issue of material wealth should not be considered the thing that determines the consciousness of success. Of course, if the previous generation is the one who values ​​material things as a priority in society, it is easy to understand that they will stumble in the process of development if failure at work causes them much more pain.

With material things, we should only consider a small part of the perfect cognitive development of a person. I learned many things about them educating their children to express that all these possessions are worthy things that they have obtained after much effort, and those things will also be given away to unite everyone's happiness.

If you only evaluate material things, I think one day your children will also leave you from a material point of view, they may earn more money than you or be further away from the limits of restraint. There may be different perspectives and life situations, but in general, human moral values ​​need to be promoted rather than hiding the nature of material things.

this is sadly true and is still happening frequently until now parents passes their dreams onto their children in hopes that it is their children that will get them out of poverty however their children do not always break the cycle their children also end up being poor and now their children who were born poor, grew up poor will now have children while being poor thus the never ending cycle of poverty

Often times I have heard people Complain about their Families And different problems they are solving for them  either financially or otherwise . We are in a Society where some families see their children as a Financial institution,where every petty And major expeses are been left in the hands of their children And this nothwithstanding some families gave birth to so many children without any reasonable plans for their proper education rather they placed their hope on the first or second child to grow And take Care of the Rest And this task reduces the financial strength of that child .

However , here are some tips on How To effectively manage your family expenses And problems especially in a polygamous family:
1. DONT ALLOW THEM KNOW YOU  HAVE MONEY; most families once they see that you have started Progressing financially they will see you as a financial institution , they will bring all their Debt for you To pay, they will call you every minute for financial help , And So on . So the best way To follow them is To be on a low.
2.DONT SHOW THEM YOUR CAR OFTEN : people see Success as buying a Car , most individuals especially Family members Once they see you with a Car they will believe that you have made money And you will start receiving some series of calls from them  for help .
3. DONT ATTEND TO THEIR NEEDS ALL THE TIME :always try very hard not To respond To all their needs because the more you respond To their needs the more they come up with other issues And It will turn out be a continous thing , And the worst part of It is that even when you dont have they wont believe It because you always respond To them.