If you happen to be an active trader or know people that trade actively, you will notice that traders do not easily give out money ( i.e lend out money) not because they don't have to give but because their capital is actively and most times always involved a trade.
Sorry but what cares us this ? Who is asking about traders to lend others? what's the point of explaining this? are you a Trader that had been asked to lent someone?
You have to understand as a friend to traders that even in times when big wins are celebrated, it is not still a time to ask them to help you with money for your needs with the thought that they are in profit, because if you do you will get yourself disappointed nine times in ten chances.
Is this about your friend? why not tell Him directly and not needed to tell us all here?
Work for your own money, nobody owes you anything.
Talk to your friend , we don't need to hear your sentiment and drama.