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August 20, 2023, 05:08:48 PM
#93
Scenario when I lose in gambling
  • Waking up early morning to play gambling without eating any breakfast
  • Gambling late night while I feel already sleepy
If the first thing you do when you wake up, is gambling, then it's not a joke, it means you are addicted. When I wake up early and skip breakfast, I do that when I'm obsessed to do something and I'm often obsessed with work that captivates my mind. It's especially worse if you gamble late at night when you want to sleep and then wake up early in the morning to continue your gambling session as soon as possible.

I’m not addicted at all and in my defense, I’m just continuing my gambling session that I left during the night when I become drowsy when playing. I think my feeling is more on excited rather than addicted that makes me gamble on this hour. This is a continuation of losing after winning big part.  Cheesy

As long as you still have the tabs of your gambling activity and be able to identify your mistakes, I think you are all good.  I believe this defense is not just denial stance Smiley.  We have been discussing gambling and gambling addictions, I believe you have all the knowledge to resist gambling addiction.

I'm not typically doing it but I just always remember all the scenarios that makes me loss repeating it twice or more before I notice the losing pattern with the given condition.

It is a good thing to know all the reasons why a gambler lost his session.  This means the gambler is still in track of his activities and this action will greatly help a gambler to create anti-losing activities and be able to minimize both the wasted time and bankroll due to the error done by the gambler.
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August 20, 2023, 05:07:11 PM
#92
Gambling late night possibly with alcoholic drink is definitely one of the biggest and important things that should be avoided. I can understand how regular work (dangerous problem) can be directly delayed to someday else to weekday. I think such gambling can be only be making a mess of me so. I should be able to say "no" to myself. I think gambling/life balance should always be on life part. To not experience same scenarios with other gamblers I would rather try to avoid losing. Cutting costs directly, going some other investment methods.
Taking a break from gambling is the better and most effective approach to letting go or avoidance of excessive gambling, shifting your attention to other profitable things as you said is most appropriate when trying to cut loose or reduce your gambling habit.
Many gamblers have slid into more dangerous situations such as addictions trying to cash up with losses,  even if you win you still need to fix a limit because both trends can lead to the same outcome which is possible addictions.

Unfortunately, this is not true to most regular patrons as they tend to continue to play even if they are beyond with their limits.
I believe, this depends on how determined you are in following what you swear to do when you are in front of your games.
Most gamblers won't stick to their plans especially if their games are getting exciting, they forgot what they pledged before the game.
However, on my side, I always remind myself what will be at stake if I go beyond about my allocated expenditures in gambling,
like I can't pay for this specific bill if I lose this much, so that's a motivation for me not to spend outside my boundaries.
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August 20, 2023, 04:26:01 PM
#91
Gambling late night possibly with alcoholic drink is definitely one of the biggest and important things that should be avoided. I can understand how regular work (dangerous problem) can be directly delayed to someday else to weekday. I think such gambling can be only be making a mess of me so. I should be able to say "no" to myself. I think gambling/life balance should always be on life part. To not experience same scenarios with other gamblers I would rather try to avoid losing. Cutting costs directly, going some other investment methods.
Taking a break from gambling is the better and most effective approach to letting go or avoidance of excessive gambling, shifting your attention to other profitable things as you said is most appropriate when trying to cut loose or reduce your gambling habit.
Many gamblers have slid into more dangerous situations such as addictions trying to cash up with losses,  even if you win you still need to fix a limit because both trends can lead to the same outcome which is possible addictions.
legendary
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August 20, 2023, 03:37:38 PM
#90
Gambling late night possibly with alcoholic drink is definitely one of the biggest and important things that should be avoided. I can understand how regular work (dangerous problem) can be directly delayed to someday else to weekday. I think such gambling can be only be making a mess of me so. I should be able to say "no" to myself. I think gambling/life balance should always be on life part. To not experience same scenarios with other gamblers I would rather try to avoid losing. Cutting cost directly, going some other investment methods.
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August 20, 2023, 01:00:31 PM
#89

  • When I already on adrenaline mode after losing more than 50% of my bankroll and start chasing losses using huge bets.


What I have to say is that this attitude is the one that can lead you into further failure and then get you straight into depression. I try to avoid my adrenaline to pump higher in such state of losses and what I do as a panacea is to stay away for sometime incase I want to return to it same day but the best is to cool off from it for at least 24 hours between the time and by that time I should be fine with my senses working rightly. To be in a haste chasing back losses is surely a way to lose more money from your bankroll.
There is actually one that I do in terms of placing large bets but with a different purpose. Maybe someone will place a big bet because they want to return the amount they lost, but I do it when I'm bored with the game I've been doing for hours for example, but my money has not decreased and not increased, have you ever experienced the same thing?
I usually place high bets with the intention of depleting my balance. Lol
I know it's wrong, but I do it occasionally. In fact, instead of losing my balance, I occasionally get a big win. Indeed, luck cannot be predicted when it will come.
Is there anyone who does the same thing as me when they are bored? Lol
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August 20, 2023, 12:40:20 PM
#88

  • When I already on adrenaline mode after losing more than 50% of my bankroll and start chasing losses using huge bets.


What I have to say is that this attitude is the one that can lead you into further failure and then get you straight into depression. I try to avoid my adrenaline to pump higher in such state of losses and what I do as a panacea is to stay away for sometime incase I want to return to it same day but the best is to cool off from it for at least 24 hours between the time and by that time I should be fine with my senses working rightly. To be in a haste chasing back losses is surely a way to lose more money from your bankroll.
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August 20, 2023, 12:27:25 PM
#87
Most often when you are losing, you'd be eager to get back with how much you have lost. In order to get that back again, a player would be needing to gamble but if that's not your day you'd just make the losses bigger. This instance simply shows how emotions could take over your cool as a gambler. Losing is indeed expected but since no one wants to, then frustrations would happen or take place, which could also be a root of addiction. But to some, they do manage to not be frustrated and to still have hopes for a better betting outcome the next day. And some are even playing with other gambling games to losen their emotion and frustrations.

I actually call this the "cycle of gambling" where a gambler would have to gamble again to recover his losses, thereby losing more in the process.

This kind of cycle is somehow difficult to break. When a person loses in a gambling activity, the initial reaction is to quickly recover the losses through gambling again. Very rarely do you encounter a person who stops gambling after they incurred a loss. Majority of the people I know (including me) suffer from this kind reaction.

Personally, I mostly rely my gambling sprees in a coin flip. Before I gamble, I used to toss a coin and vote whether I should gamble or not; though regardless of the answer, I still gamble. But if it lands on tails (tails = NO) and I still continue my gambling activities, mostly I incur more losses than wins.
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August 20, 2023, 12:26:15 PM
#86
I’m still tracking all my human error that keeps me giving a regular losses when I’m on this condition. Do you have something like this?


Mine is when I feel depressed, when I feel depressed it flows to my game I am not relaxed and very tense whenever I face the dashboard feeling depressed, my depression is enhanced because of this and I just found this out lately so I make it a point to only when I feel relax or excited but never when I feel depressed.

It's important that you know yourself, what makes you lose, and how you address your losses, if gambling makes you feel depressed or angry then it's not worth playing, a gambling platform is an entertainment portal if you are not having fun then you're just wasting your money.  
Of course, a gambling platform is an entertainment portal. One should not seek entertainment when other things need attention.
 While gambling one should take notice of their emotional state. it is more of making good timed decision than anything else. A mind that is troubled or body that is troubled would find it hard to make a good decision or place a good bet that would be rewarding.

Am not much of a gambler, but I have my moments and I know am going to lose when I become agitated or impatient for the results. I  have  also known some pro gamblers from back in my neighborhood. If there's one thing I can say to express my observation about why they keep winning more than losing, it is, they derive joy from gambling and you can clearly see how cheerful their faces lit up when they talk about it too.


Well you said a limit - a limit that gamblers should have, they not only have to think about it but they have to have it all when they want to gamble. As we know gambling affects people mentally and psychologically, so when they gamble it is very vulnerable that they will be able to lose their minds. That's right, if we are experiencing something that is not good or our mind is chaotic due to whatever it is, we should not allow ourselves to enter gambling, because it is like you sacrifice yourself to become bait for wild animals. Which means that most cases of those who end up losing a lot of money there are because they gamble based on lust and greed, never enough with what they have earned and always want more than that.
On the other hand, to be honest, I don't really believe that there are some of them who are pros at gambling, in the sense that they always win. Let's review that in gambling none of them can increase their chances of winning by anything, when they play then everything will go back to the beginning which is the answer is if you are unlucky then you will lose, I am a gambler and as far as I know none of them have such great chances in gambling. I'm sure that your friends are getting lucky so they are very cheerful.
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August 20, 2023, 10:56:56 AM
#85
I’m still tracking all my human error that keeps me giving a regular losses when I’m on this condition. Do you have something like this?


Mine is when I feel depressed, when I feel depressed it flows to my game I am not relaxed and very tense whenever I face the dashboard feeling depressed, my depression is enhanced because of this and I just found this out lately so I make it a point to only when I feel relax or excited but never when I feel depressed.

It's important that you know yourself, what makes you lose, and how you address your losses, if gambling makes you feel depressed or angry then it's not worth playing, a gambling platform is an entertainment portal if you are not having fun then you're just wasting your money.  
Of course, a gambling platform is an entertainment portal. One should not seek entertainment when other things need attention.
 While gambling one should take notice of their emotional state. it is more of making good timed decision than anything else. A mind that is troubled or body that is troubled would find it hard to make a good decision or place a good bet that would be rewarding.

Am not much of a gambler, but I have my moments and I know am going to lose when I become agitated or impatient for the results. I  have  also known some pro gamblers from back in my neighborhood. If there's one thing I can say to express my observation about why they keep winning more than losing, it is, they derive joy from gambling and you can clearly see how cheerful their faces lit up when they talk about it too.

legendary
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August 20, 2023, 10:19:56 AM
#84
As a gambler that had many losses and wins, ups and downs I can say that i also lived most of these scenarios you mentioned and most of them happens because of chasing your loses or greed to win more which leads 99% of the times to bad losses. Gambling also tired or sleepy makes you take the wrong decisions just as being on drugs or alcohol you won't feel anything until losing huge amounts of money or when you sober up.
I totally agree with that. I also have a lot of ups and downs and there was even a time that I almost went to zero just a week ago but the RTP suddenly came out and I got a good winning streak in one of my favorite casino games.
Now, it had been two weeks with my balance just playing around back and forth. I think the only bonus that I am getting is the increase in wagering amount which could help me climb the VIP ranks.
But, if ever I hit my winning amount limit then I will really withdraw it all without any regrets. Up until now I am still trying to reach it although whenever I am near the number I want, it seems like the system knows I will exit so another losing streak will come.  Grin
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August 20, 2023, 10:11:57 AM
#83
Scenario when I lose in gambling
  • Waking up early morning to play gambling without eating any breakfast
  • Gambling late night while I feel already sleepy
If the first thing you do when you wake up, is gambling, then it's not a joke, it means you are addicted. When I wake up early and skip breakfast, I do that when I'm obsessed to do something and I'm often obsessed with work that captivates my mind. It's especially worse if you gamble late at night when you want to sleep and then wake up early in the morning to continue your gambling session as soon as possible.

I’m not addicted at all and in my defense, I’m just continuing my gambling session that I left during the night when I become drowsy when playing. I think my feeling is more on excited rather than addicted that makes me gamble on this hour. This is a continuation of losing after winning big part.  Cheesy

I'm not typically doing it but I just always remember all the scenarios that makes me loss repeating it twice or more before I notice the losing pattern with the given condition.
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August 20, 2023, 09:59:29 AM
#82
There two scenarios that I can relate with you is the first one , gambling late in the night while feeling sleepy and the second one is chasing the loss. I guess these two are common scenario among all gamblers. I also think gambling late in the night doesn't turns well for me, not sure if others agree with me. The only problem is that late night is the time when I am free and no one is bothering me. The level of concentration at that time is poor and recently I have been trying to avoid that time. Trying to find another time throughout the day when I can sit and enjoy for an hour or so.

The other scenarios that you listed are not of a casual gambler like me. Therefore cannot relate them with me, for example skipping breakfast is something I can't do.
Gambling is risky, that should sound a bell to our ears, gamblers are ready to take risks inother to grab every single profits that comes across their path. We find ourselves with in crucial circumstances that will either make us comfortable or uncomfortable. Typical scenario when one is losing, ofcourse its not something to bother about if we're on the good track of the system. Gambling late at night doesn't push me, wha6 exactly will I be doing with the time during the day. Night is meant for us to rest, and not stressing. If one decides to be awaken during  night, it's personal decision of the gambler and not anyone.
Risk? It permeates everything and influences every choice we make, from the development of humanity to the volatile realm of cryptocurrencies. You discuss gambling as if it were a singular, abnormal behaviour. But isnt life itself ultimately the biggest gamble?

You're not feeling the late-night gambling? I dont give a damn. The greater picture is what you're missing here: day or night, every choice we make, every wager or investment, all of it is motivated by our innate urge to acquire more, advance, and rule. It is a part of our DNA.

Choosing to stay up late to gamble now? That is all up to you. But to criticise others for it is absurd. Before making such rash decisions, explore your grasp of human nature more thoroughly.
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August 20, 2023, 09:46:23 AM
#81
As a gambler that had many losses and wins, ups and downs I can say that i also lived most of these scenarios you mentioned and most of them happens because of chasing your loses or greed to win more which leads 99% of the times to bad losses. Gambling also tired or sleepy makes you take the wrong decisions just as being on drugs or alcohol you won't feel anything until losing huge amounts of money or when you sober up.
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August 20, 2023, 09:19:54 AM
#80
I’m still tracking all my human error that keeps me giving a regular losses when I’m on this condition. Do you have something like this?


Mine is when I feel depressed, when I feel depressed it flows to my game I am not relaxed and very tense whenever I face the dashboard feeling depressed, my depression is enhanced because of this and I just found this out lately so I make it a point to only when I feel relax or excited but never when I feel depressed.

It's important that you know yourself, what makes you lose, and how you address your losses, if gambling makes you feel depressed or angry then it's not worth playing, a gambling platform is an entertainment portal if you are not having fun then you're just wasting your money.  
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August 20, 2023, 09:04:38 AM
#79
I noticed for myself that when someone is watching me, I'll be losing mostly if I say, Watch me gamble this game, as I think you'll be my lucky charm, but it turns out I lose what I've deposited on that. Also, when I insert it in my work schedule, like if I gamble on my break time or when there are no tasks, that is the time that bad luck strikes me. Though that is really something I noticed, as I am not a heavy gambler, there are really times when I'm in a comfortable place and time but still lose.
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August 20, 2023, 08:53:02 AM
#78
It doesn't looks good if you need to gamble late night and then waking up early morning to gamble without taking a breakfast because you will ruin your daily activity and probably you could sick due to not enough sleep, gastric acid etc.

For me usually I will not talk too much and my face will frowning for few hours or in a day, but after that I can easily forget it and everything will back to normal.
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August 20, 2023, 08:39:32 AM
#77
This is similar to what I experience as well before a lose

  • Terrible night rest.
  • Being bored and wanting to kill time by gambling.
  • Worrying about wanting to win a certain amount. Or playing with the mindset of winning a specific amount.
  • Gambling at noon time when my mind is not at rest.
  • For sports betting, betting under duress. Because my friends are betting on a game, I should just join them.
Since I noticed these precursors to losing in my gambling, to be honest I haven't been able to eliminate them completely but I have been able to bring them under control. Right now, I barely do group gambling. When it's not my time on the schedule to play at my online casino, I try not to.
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August 20, 2023, 08:31:44 AM
#76

I actually experienced most of these in my first years in gambling and I think we all run into these kinds of stuff at some point. But the one thing I will never do again is chase a big loss and then proceed to bet higher than usual which lead me to another major loss again. It was really frustrating and now I learned my lesson and will never repeat that practice again. Now, when I'm experiencing consecutive loss, I take a break without any second guessing. Which, I think, the result of my past experiences in gambling.

Something that adds up to what you'll going to regret when you suffer with a back-to-back loss with a huge amount of money, I'm sure not just you or many of us here suffer from that same kind of scenario and we wanted not to repeat that same mistake, with your understanding and your capabilities to adopt or adjust it's better to learn from what you experienced.

You can be better in terms of controlling yourself once you realize that there's more risk if you try to recover what you lose in a quick process.

Chances of yoloing will not go to help but to add frustrations and the cause is losing more from what you supposedly budget from that session.
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August 20, 2023, 08:31:42 AM
#75
When I lose in gambling, the general situation becomes very bad and the addiction of winning leads to more losses. That's why you have to change your thinking and if the possibility of loss is high, it's better to stop for now. Encourage them to feel free to talk about their feelings for release now, but let them do it when they're ready. Reassure them that they are not responsible. Try to keep them engaged in family activities try not to over involve them in helping to solve financial and other problems caused by gambling groups of people who are addicted to gambling or who have recovered from addiction. Where you can talk about your own problems or problems and find a way to solve them.
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August 20, 2023, 08:09:31 AM
#74
It is a known fact that casinos design games that are super addictive and that they designed it to gradually take back money that was won by the player. I tend to lose more money, when I am in a long losing streak and I think that I am owed a big win.... then I chase my losses and I lose even more.

The "brick n mortar" or land based casinos use cheap tactics like "free drinks" to trick people to lose more money. (sober people, make sober decisions) ..... they even remove all windows so that people forget about the time. (not seeing the day light change into night)  Tongue
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