Topic: Typical scenario when you are losing - page 3. (Read 1930 times)

Ultimately, it's the decision of the gambler to not give in to the temptation of being addicted to gambling. It feels good to win while you gamble, and it certainly feels great to have some money in your pocket after entertaining yourself, but you can't always have it all and at one point, you have to decide on whether or not you'll continue or not. There are tons of gamblers out there that do not think twice in going after the big jackpot even if it affects their financial state badly, and it's certainly something that one must avoid if they don't want to compound their burden to themselves.

I guess nobody is free from ever tilting or what about you guys? Tilting is definitely bad in gambling or in poker and the worst part about it is that sometimes you can of course also get lucky while being tilt. In poker this can be quite an extreme case when you know that you should fold a certain hand in a certain position, but you are like fuck it and go for it regardless and then out of a sudden you hit that set with a low pair or hit the stupid two pair against an AK hitting the ace in the middle. I have had quite some different situations and sometimes tilting even helped me to get back into the game, but the majority of the time it costs you money.

This is something that happens to every single person that has experimented an addiction, as despite the fact that they know that going back to their former addiction is something bad, they cannot help but to crave for those sensations again, now this is very problematic for those that are addicted to illegal drugs, but it should be many times worse for those that got addicted to something that is legal, as the source of their addiction is everywhere and every single day is a struggle for them.

It's business and for sure the design is to earn. Yup, sometimes the gambler may win some but that's not always going to happen
casino may allow you to win, but the time will come that it will be sucked away again from you.

You need to pay for your entertainment, but you need to balance. You should always be in control
and not let your emotions to dominate you, as most of the time when you are losing you wanted
to keep playing for more, adding more money and regret after you got emptied.

The ultimate aim of the creation of the gambling was to entertain the gamblers and to earn some small money for it.Because the gambling site owner spending some money to build the site and spending huge money for the marketing.The gambler may win the big money,if they had enough luck.The win or loss based on the good time of the gamblers,the healthy mind will enable you to make the quick decision in the gambling.The important factor in the gambling was taking the quick decision on the betting.The strategy will play the next role in the winning of the betting at the time of playing gambling.

Yes, when we win, our ego will increase and if we cannot suppress it, we will continue gambling and that's where our losses will increase. So we have to be able to control our increasing emotions. Stopping gambling and leaving the casino can reduce our emotions, especially if we can immediately rest or do other activities that divert thoughts about gambling and ego from continuing to gamble.

It is true that they say that the danger of starting to play again is with them all their lives. But they must have learned how to handle it well so they won't go back to gambling again. And when they can control themselves and have more activities, they are unlikely to return to gambling and as long as they can take care of themselves, it will be fine. And if necessary, they must be able to completely stay away from all things related to gambling, not even playing using a demo account. With the help of people around him who love him, he can help him stay away from gambling.

Having people that surrounds you to give you some warning and reminders will certainly help you out. It's like whenever you're itching and starts to crave to gamble, they are there to stop you.

But not at all times that they will be there and you still need to get on your own feet to avoid. It's hard to get rid of it but you have to overcome it not just with will power but also with acts.

As in do everything you can to avoid if you want to get rid of the addiction that's making you lose control of yourself and money.

Among the many interviews I have watched with gamblers who have recovered from addiction, there is a common feature - they say that the danger of starting to play again remains with them for life. It's like a stigma that always stays with you, and you can't get rid of it - you feel that you have to control yourself, and you need to avoid all kinds of gambling. In no case can you even play on a demo account, this is one of the rules of self-control. It is believed that a demo account is one step towards starting to play for real money again. Of course, it is much easier to control yourself if there are native people nearby.

Well, this has to do with something with your readiness and not just that you are tired and you will lose. This is no logic.

Yes. when you are fresh, you will think more before placing the bet, you will research more and therefore the chances of winning the bet will increase as compared to a situation where you are tired and just place the bet. Although there is no hard and fast rule, that you will win the bet only when you are fresh and energetic, you can still lose the bet in both situations.

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That's always the case and scenario for the most of us. We're too confident that we're not going to lose when we're winning and then the opposite comes to us. And when you finally realize it, it's too late.

Yup, we're careless when we're winning.

That's like an ego setter as well for we think that we'll never lose or it's okay to lose because we've won already. But we're too vulnerable with our emotions when we're like that.

But most gamblers experience the same thing as what I said before and maybe some can manage control and even stop at any time when they feel the chance of winning is getting smaller but there are only a few gamblers who are able to do this because gamblers from the start have aimed to generate winnings or find additional sources of income.

I agree that everyone has self-control but most cannot maintain or apply self-control well and that is the biggest problem that has happened to all gamblers in the world of gambling.
Practicing self-control looks like it is easy to do and can always be prioritized by everyone but it will feel difficult if you try it especially when there is the temptation of betting opportunities and in the condition of having more money to bet.

Of the many gamblers that exist they have different characteristics and also the goals of gambling even in their behavior they also have quite a lot of differences so whether whatever is done in a more positive or negative form it is difficult to direct it as we want or suggest because they have a way of thinking that cannot be parallel to ours.
Maybe they have limits or self-control that they can apply but they can't do this perfectly straight away and learning to control themselves is very difficult in fact gamblers rarely have positive thinking and can consider all their gambling actions.

Honestly, nothing major happens to me when I lose. Sometimes I gamble for a very long time between my wins and it could happen, I am fine with that. Because I managed to realize long time ago that it is not really about making a profit when gambling but more about how much fun I am having and if I am having fun that should be enough and I would not need to do anything else. I get that life is not that simple and we are not doing something that would be big enough without a loss.

So, I end up accepting my faith when I lose, and if I lose too much then I stop gambling and just do not gamble. I limit my losses anyway so I can't lose more than that amount and that means I am going to have a limit to my loss anyway.

I also feel that when I win, I have tried not to care about it many times. Unfortunately, I still have to practice a lot to control myself when I win so I won't be tempted to continue other gambling games. And that also happened when I lost because, with that defeat, I was prompted to continue gambling to recover the loss.

So, whatever situation we get, winning or losing, we might be tempted to continue gambling because that is a normal thing that can happen to every gambler. And that's why we have to be able to control ourselves and only learning can help us avoid the desire to continue gambling.

smiling while reading your post, as I also have this kind of mentality when playing, instead of quitting while still in positive that kind of thinking that maybe I'll try for one last time to add some more with my earnings.

Then you know mostly things will start the other way, you lose, then you will try to bet again till you notice
that you are already empty and there's nothing in your wallet anymore, and then it's just regret and nothing
else..

The last one.

It's like when I am already winning and I think that I can win some more so I play and look for more other games to bet with. It's hard to control that moment when you're winning.

I think that's even harder when you're on that part than when you're losing because that's the drive for you to stop. Unlike when you're winning, you just can't stop because you're thinking more positive.

The real victory in gambling is when we are able to control ourselves over the gambling activities we do.
If we already have the intention to change our mindset about gambling and try to reorganize our gambling activities then this is not something that is difficult to do. What is difficult is not the beginning, but what is difficult is consistency with the rules that we have created ourselves to limit gambling activities and limit the money for betting.

Learning how to deal with a scenario in which you are losing money is important, as this is the most common scenario a gambler is going to face while they entertain themselves with gambling.

This can be difficult at first, as due to their inexperience gamblers let their emotions to take control of them and make all kind of wild bets trying to recover the money they have lost, however it is important to not let our feelings to rule over us, as in this way you will realize those mistakes way earlier and not suffer major losses because of them, and finally you will learn to enjoy gambling even when you are down and your luck has not been the best during your session.

not only in gambling but in all aspects of life which is why prevention is better than cure. Having self-discipline will prevent you from becoming addicted as you will be cautious about what you are doing. Just keep in mind that bad things will happen to you and your family.
 
We all know that it is easy to say that you will not be addicted to gambling but as long as you are limiting your screen time, your budget, and also the frequency at which you gamble you won't be getting addicted to it.

If that happens and they cannot stop, then the losses they suffer will be even greater. Most likely they will become gambling addicts and increase their bets continuously in the hope that one win will return their money. They will continue gambling until they go bankrupt. I think if emotions take over then losses will come because common sense no longer functions well

I always thought that gambling was a game of luck, precision and emotional control. If we can't control all that then there is just a waste of money. Gambling is no longer a fun activity, but adds stress