Topic: VIRGINITY before getting married (Read 2131 times)
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Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
virginity was old cultural belief of a woman's purity of sins. But because of diversity these beliefs slowly dies away. Virginity does not make less of a woman.
Although preserving virginty to your future husband/ wife is now rarely practised, some think that marriage would not be less but will be a little sweeter if it happened.
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
Personally i don't encourage virginity before marriage because, there are a lot of things people dont know about themselves sexually before they get married and that can and will lead to a breakup in marriage..
I have had experienced where, the partner may not like longer sex and foreplays, or some don't like oral sex and that is what the partner wants more, so if you dont know these things before marriage, you might end up have a cheating partner, I think its best to know all these things and accept them before marriage, then you know what you are already getting into.
Of course .Virginity is still important before getting married because when you give yourself to the person you love it means you love him very much and move forward that for being your wife to him. Respect is important for couples
Virginity is a pride to a lady and even to her parents, Is very good for a lady to keep her virginity till he r weeding night because her husband will give her full respect and regard for her. As for me i will urge young ladies to keep their virginity until their wedding night.
I am from an Asian country and you are in a way big trouble if you loose your virginity before the marriage. there are even rituals to find the pureness of the bride at the wedding night which conducted by mother of the groom!
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
In 21st century, virginity is not important nowadays. Millenials today are very greed about that thing.
As long as you love your partner it don't really need.
totally depends on how you were brought up.
on your culture, religion, system of values.
for me either way, being or not being a virgin, would not discourage me from marrying the right person.
As long as both couple love each other I know that there is no hindrance of marrying iether virgin or not virgin. For me virginity is not important, love and understannding is the key to a harmunious relationship.
Well , Of course this is very important , This is the best Gift you give to you husband in your honeymoon night 
This is the prove that you care your self and you sealed your virginity until the day it give to your husband .
This is the prove that you care your self and you sealed your virginity until the day it give to your husband .
Absolute rubbish. If I am the husband and I need to chose between a virgin girl with bad attitude and a good-natured girl who is not a virgin, then I'd chose the second option. Virginity is no longer important in today's world.
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
Well , Of course this is very important , This is the best Gift you give to you husband in your honeymoon night
This is the prove that you care your self and you sealed your virginity until the day it give to your husband .
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
Depends on the culture, but here is my take on it
Do you test drive a car before you buy it? yes.
same thing with marriage
gotta have sex with your partner before marriage so you can figure out if you're compatible in bed
lets say you both stay virgins, but after your marriage you realize she's a dead fish and that you like be rough... you're gunna run into some problems there.
Test Drive.
These days everyone is modernized and so they all are involved in an intimate relation once before marriage. it doesnt matter
For me it is still important. It's like that one gift you could give your husband/wife that you cannot give to anyone. It's so special for newly weds because you get to learn and experience it together.
I can only agree with you on that, but this premarital sex is mostly about fun. I can't see people developing serious relationships <18y. So basically it's just sex, not "making love" to someone.I think premarital sex you are talking about just for fun are those bad guys who doesn't know the word "responsibility', they only want sex and those girls are assuming that they were truthfully love by that guy but after falling to their agenda, guys are like bubbles and irresponsible. not all but randomly.
Virginity isn't necessary nowadays because sex is very important part of our life and it's can be the main factor after marriage to to break all relationships.
I believe, virginity must be kept until you marry. Purity/virginity is precious and ,I think, one of the best gift that you can give to your wife/husband. You preserved/protected it that long to assure its wholeness before you completely give it to him that time. And was it not best to know that your significant other is ONLY YOURS since then and up to the coming days? I think, nothing can equal the feeling of giving yourself-whole to your partner on the right time. Love will burst. The long wait is over and everything was worth it.
For nows generation virginity is not important. Millenials today are very agressive about that kind of thingy.
It may be important earlier but nowadays money and beauty is all the thing we need to get married 
Many a times the virginity loss depends on situations and so they had nothing to do with it
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
nowadays finding a virgin girl whose age is even 20 is very difficult. every man would be suprised a lot when he meets a virgin woman and of course, it is no just a suprise, it is something great, because a girl was untoched, you truly know that she is absolutely yours, thats is very important
I think yes because its the sign of purity isn't it??? what do you think?
No. It is not a sign of purity. If a girl is pure, then she will behave kindly with the other people and she will be faithful to her husband once she is married. You can't label someone as "impure" just because they had sex with someone whom they love.
In short, if she did it before marriage/contract, it's fine, but if she do it after the wedding, then it is adultery.
In this our era, virginity is not really considered before marriage. Even though it's a good gift a wife can give to her husband, it's not very necessary. The most important thing is the couple love each other and want to spend their days together
Correct. In short your past should not be the concern of the husband.
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