10 reasons to keep your virginity before marriage
1. Sacral
"Thou shalt not commit adultery" (Ex.20: 14). If God so commanded, then what is there to think about? He created man, that means, he knew how a man will be better. And He left His commandments as the rules of the road on the road to simple human happiness.
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2. "The flesh is one"
The Lord said: "... therefore a man leaves a father and a mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become two with one flesh" (Matthew 19: 5), which means a sacred and psychophysical unity of lovers. Some theologians believe that, most likely, this commandment can be fulfilled in the spouses who are the first from each other. A simple example is Scotch tape. If you connect two strips - it is almost impossible to break them. If it does, the second time will be weaker, in the third - almost no glue. And in a relationship. The first tear is hard, every subsequent is easier.
Note MC. The family is the unity of two people, the wandering people, destroy this unity (instead of the union of the two with the husband and wife, all their mistresses and mistresses will be connected), at the same time, the unity with God is destroyed:
"Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ?" "Shall I take the members from Christ to make them members of a harlot?" Nor do they know that the one who mates with a harlot becomes one with her, for it is said: "Two will be one flesh . " (1 Corinthians 6: 15-16).
3. Biological
And although telegony is a pseudoscientific doctrine, it is worthwhile to think about who should give themselves for the first time - to anyone you meet or a person with whom you will live life and give birth to children. But what exactly is proved that with each subsequent sexual partner, the lady loses her female health. The fact is that the whole female system is long and painstakingly adjusted to one man. And if the second, the third? It's not that until the STD (look healthy!), Before immunological infertility is within reach.
4. For the benefit of children
No matter how well it began to be conceived in a fit of passion and love, it is better to be born and born in the stable marriage line. The question is not in health, but that children in general were!
It's no secret that many children in the womb are killed because their mothers are not married. Often a man, when his woman conceives, sends her to an abortion, and if she keeps a child - throws it. What, is not it? The reverse cases are much less frequent in percentage terms. So: no sex - no unwanted children. And the first pregnancy, ending with abortion, is known to result in infertility in 30% of cases.
***5. Gender-conflict
From the experience of our moms. If the husband is your first man, he will be able to accuse you of everything from a bad housewife to a fool for long and happy years of marriage. And only one can not. This is already something! You can carry your self-esteem with your head held high.
6. Statistical
Recently, the Americans conducted a study, and it turned out that women who preserved virginity before the wedding have a chance to save the family in 80% of cases. If they had one sexual partner before the wedding, even if it was a future husband - the probability of the strength of their union drops sharply to 55%. It is indicative.
7. Logical
What is valuable is virginity - not that it is a proof of the ability to remain faithful. His future spouse, even the unknown. Well, purely out of respect for him. As a gift.
8. Pragmatic
If you start living with a man "without this vulgar stamp in your passport," nothing will force him to go and place this stamp.
What for? He has everything: both a woman and freedom and no obligations. Do not like it - do not hold. We all heard the saying - "walk with some, marry others." Who likes what?
9. The Heroic
Men are hunters. An easily taken woman is not valued at all, since it depreciates our hero and his efforts. Once men crave feats, so let them fight for their maiden - and if not with the dragon, so with the behemoth of their lust. In the end, everything is won - both man and woman (and desire), but already on the matrimonial bed. And this is another story.
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10. Exclusive
"I value myself so much, my soul, my body, that I can wait for that person, for whom I will not be one among many, but the most unique and unique"