Your argument that freedom is subjective is true and that may be the core of the misunderstanding between you and me and between AnCap and the rest of the world. Thanks for pointing that out.
However the issue remains that as much as I respect your opinion, allow you to live by it and would never dream of using force against you for acting upon your beliefs, you do not extend the same courtesy to me on so many levels.
I think there are more options how to deal with this reality than to just roll over and die.
1) Ignore the issue, accept reality.
"We can ignore reality, but we cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality."
2) Accept the issue, accept reality.
Look at it from a distance and accept that you have no stake in the outcome. http://youtu.be/i9CjBtv7j78?t=2m58s
Your "unconditional and non-judgemental acceptance" proposal falls in one of these categories. Actually most people I know in the end make the case that I should just accept it.
I have tried both approaches. They might have worked for me if I felt that the situation would actually improve slowly or at least remain bad at a constant level. Unfortunately that is not the case because "you" are giving away more and more of my subjective freedoms without my approval.
3) Rebel against it, try to change it.
I have been there, done that and am still doing it. What I clearly realize is that this will not change much, at least not in our or our children's lifetime.
4) Move away.
This is the last option I see and I am seriously investigating Libertarian/AnCap history, libertarian communes and other countries with less invasive governments.
I am absolutely and thoroughly convinced that the consequences of the current system are going to be devastating. If you know you are on a sinking ship, you try to tell as many people that want to listen. If they decide to ignore you or accept the fact that they are going down, fine, but don't blame me and the ones I love from getting into the lifeboat.