Their is a different between stinginess and being disciplined. Let's not ruin our everyday lives all in the name of being disciplined. Yes it's important to save and that's because no one coming to save you this has been the moto some people live by but don't forget that we rise by lifting others.
I am not saying you should go about throwing your funds to every and anyone while neglecting your financial investments but if you can come through for someone and uplift them the little you can then that's great don't forget the greatest investment is investing in Humans, but like every investment nothing is certain but I will feel better helping someone when i can.
Topic: Wetin u Dom carry ur stinginess achieve - page 2. (Read 321 times)
Diz one nor be stinginess o.
Dem nor dey wait for poor man for family meeting. I like as the guy do.
If him nor succeed for life nobody go look him side at all. I like as him do. Make him focus reach all him goal, anybody wey dey offended, him go apologize to them later. For now, the goal na to accumulate the bitcoins.
Wetin your guy do, na the same thing with the advice wey we dey see for social media, wey dem dey talk say, disappear for 6 months, no social media, no this or that.
My mentor tell me something wey I like, him talk say the goal na to comot for poverty and na wetin bitcoin go help us achieve.
Dem nor dey wait for poor man for family meeting. I like as the guy do.
If him nor succeed for life nobody go look him side at all. I like as him do. Make him focus reach all him goal, anybody wey dey offended, him go apologize to them later. For now, the goal na to accumulate the bitcoins.
Wetin your guy do, na the same thing with the advice wey we dey see for social media, wey dem dey talk say, disappear for 6 months, no social media, no this or that.
My mentor tell me something wey I like, him talk say the goal na to comot for poverty and na wetin bitcoin go help us achieve.
Others may see him as one who is stingy but sometimes you need not to please yourself or other people just to achieve that thing you want. People will criticise you but if you don't go that way you won't be able to achieve what you want. The truth is that whatever you do people will still criticise you, even if you are very generous in giving but if mistakenly the money is not coming like the way it used to come the people who benefited from your generosity will be the one to ask what did you do with your money when you had some money. If people can be discipline by not giving people money or spending unnecessary just to make financial achievements, then I must say there is nothing bad about it, I don't see such person as a stingy person because they are only doing what they can to help themselves.
If those responsibilities he denied just to reachehis target of acquiring a 1 bitcoin wasn't so serious leave it, it's not stinginess, he was just being to achieve his financial goal to set free from poverty because if he has been set on unnecessary giveaways at every single cough of his relatives he'd be criticized unconditionally when he gets real broke.
But if he had ignored some essential and necessary responsibilities then that's were he get it wrong because there certainty that can't be reverse even after acquiring the whole mined bitcoins.
But if he had ignored some essential and necessary responsibilities then that's were he get it wrong because there certainty that can't be reverse even after acquiring the whole mined bitcoins.
Last night I been dey get discussion with my friend online and our major discussion na on how him take acquire him BTC after him talk i come confirm say the guy really stingy but sometimes e dey help too.
Unto say the guy tell me say him forget any financial matter wey concern himself, family and friends say him set him goal say before that year go end even though him no achieve anything but him must get at least 1 BTC, though him tell me say the criticism and insults wey him pass through no be small but him still face him goal and him get am.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
Unto say the guy tell me say him forget any financial matter wey concern himself, family and friends say him set him goal say before that year go end even though him no achieve anything but him must get at least 1 BTC, though him tell me say the criticism and insults wey him pass through no be small but him still face him goal and him get am.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
Op decision comes with so many things, your friend was disciplined, I don't know how people may see it but the thing is he had a goal that he set and he went for it with all he got though h might have offended many person during the process but that's normal but what matters now is that he has achieved what he wants, so peoples opinions towards him presently doesn't matter, if he had given them all they ask for or even sacrificed for them without achieving this goal may be they would not regarded him but see where he is, as we all know the worth of what he has achieved, I think he made a right decision, if it's necessary he can apologize to his family as he may have offended during the time he was chasing this goal but tat's if they will listen to him and see reason why he has to do what he did, am very happy for him because not everybody can take up such decision without considering how the family will look at things since the see him as someone that can help them financially and his not showing up concern, in conclusion he tried, if he decide to tell his family what he has achieve so far with such attuatude, i think they will see reason with him.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
everyone is entitled to his decision and depending on the structure of his family, this decision might just be a way of staying discipline and avoiding any form of spending that is not realy worth it.apart from your immediate family who you are primarily responsible to meeting their needs, every other relative that comes up with his needs to you are just external responsibility that you can choose to cut off as long as it doesn't involve a life threatening challenge. if you are not selfish (which to me means being disciplined and not running away from your responsibility) you might find it difficult to meet most of your goals. as long as you have a plan you are hoping to achieve, you have to stay discipline to the extent that most of your needs are suspended till you have finally achieved what you are working for.
you first have to differentiate between what is your responsibillity and what you are just doing as a form of favour. your investment shoulf not stop you from taking care of your responsibillity but you can cut off those external dependant and it doesnt still mean that you are being stingy.
The decision legit abeg because if no be say him take that decision serious in for know fit achieved this thing wey him get like this, so sometimes one need to over look some family stuff and focus on your goal because if you continue to dey look after families and friends issues person no go fit achieve anything for this life. And the worst thing be say even if you still bring out your mind to help them after you don spend your money finish on dem na that time Dem go start to dey criticize you say you no fit use your money do better thing. So however I think e dey very necessary for us to invest on ourself first before thinking of families and friends.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
Family is still good but friends should work for money on their own also. But about family, we can not blame anyone unless we know how their family is. Probably his family may be financially okay and not need his help unless he just wants to contribute. I believe the family that he is referring to is not his wife and children. 
People set goals and stage different ways on how to achieve it, for some people they could set strict measures in the process of meeting their target goal and such strictness could be described or called all sorts of names by those around who gets to be affected by the measures. But nonetheless, in my bid to accumulate bitcoin in which way I decide to expedite it's success I won't have to do it in a way that I will have to neglect my family and loved ones because they come first before bitcoin. They rallying around me for one or two needs won't be anything to stop me from achieving my accumulation at some point.
Personally I love the spirit of discipline in him but when it comes to financial assistance to my family I can't say no when I have not because I'm not financially disciplined but the fact that I wouldn't want to lose a life in the process to trying to achieve something I can achieve later in life.
One thing is certain, your friend after all the stinginess can loss all that bitcoin probably in one minute of mistake but family can never leave him when such predicament befalls him, this is just an example of how kindness matters.
It's a good thing to set goals and achieve them but it's more worse to achieve a temporary goal and loss a permanent thing (life or anything that that is not recoverable).
One thing is certain, your friend after all the stinginess can loss all that bitcoin probably in one minute of mistake but family can never leave him when such predicament befalls him, this is just an example of how kindness matters.
It's a good thing to set goals and achieve them but it's more worse to achieve a temporary goal and loss a permanent thing (life or anything that that is not recoverable).
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
Is not everything in life that is called stinginess; that is why many people fail to understand. But in simple terms, stinginess is a process where you are already financially stable, but you decide to hide your money, preventing yourself or any of your family members from having access to it.
But in this situation your friend is not yet financially stable, and he is doing his best to have a bright future. One thing you need to know about financial freedom or having wealth is that you can never achieve that unless you make a sacrifice. And this sacrifice is all about going into suffering and keeping the needs of yourself, family members, and also friends aside so that you will be able to achieve your goals, which, after you have succeeded, you can go back and take care of. Moreover, this process will still help you to identify who truly cares for you among your friends and family.
There are levels to which someone can discipline themselves just to achieve greatness; some are worth it, while some are not. I can deny myself luxury to make sure that I can save for the future (delay gratification), but I can't deny myself good food, good health, and supporting my family with what they need in life just because I want to acquire bitcoin. I will do what I can and leave the rest.
Congratulations to him! If he's able to save up and achieve his goal, he should keep it up. Now he can focus on settling things that matter, which he has put off over time to reach that level. If there is anything I can do to improve my accumulation speed, it is to make bitcoin accumulation part of my needs and not just my wants.
Congratulations to him! If he's able to save up and achieve his goal, he should keep it up. Now he can focus on settling things that matter, which he has put off over time to reach that level. If there is anything I can do to improve my accumulation speed, it is to make bitcoin accumulation part of my needs and not just my wants.
Last night I been dey get discussion with my friend online and our major discussion na on how him take acquire him BTC after him talk i come confirm say the guy really stingy but sometimes e dey help too.
Unto say the guy tell me say him forget any financial matter wey concern himself, family and friends say him set him goal say before that year go end even though him no achieve anything but him must get at least 1 BTC, though him tell me say the criticism and insults wey him pass through no be small but him still face him goal and him get am.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
Unto say the guy tell me say him forget any financial matter wey concern himself, family and friends say him set him goal say before that year go end even though him no achieve anything but him must get at least 1 BTC, though him tell me say the criticism and insults wey him pass through no be small but him still face him goal and him get am.
So how u rate this matter. Him try or e no good say him leave him family and friends financially to acquire BTC.
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