Personally, I use Trust wallet and I am satisfied with it, both in terms of use and security. Remember that the security of the wallet depends mainly on the users themselves. Double protections like 2FA are certainly useful, but the most important thing is to be careful and self-aware about the safety of users. We are never allowed to share our private keys or seed with anyone, and we should not install any applications or plugins whose origin we are not sure of. You have to be very careful what websites and applications we give access to our wallet. If something looks too good, it's probably a scam.
Yes, that's right, how secure is the wallet that we hold, if we can't take care of it properly, it will make us lose. It depends on the wallet holder himself, how he takes care of it. For example, if we have a safe wallet, if we are careless, it will be lost, and this is where a narrative will be created that will corner the wallet, when in fact we ourselves are in the wrong.
I'm also a Trust Wallet user, so far nothing I don't want, and I hope it doesn't happen to me. As you said, we have to be more selective in everything, especially when there is a wallet that is very important to us.