Topic: When I'm emotional, I LOSS! - page 22. (Read 5876 times)

Playing gambling must use limitation so we can manage how much lost money that we can afford to lose in gambling. We will not playing gambling excessively because that can makes us lose more and more money especially if we chase the wins. We must remember that our money will not have to use for playing gambling but we must use that money for fills our daily life. That's why we must balance our money for many things in our life so we don't have to spends that money for playing gambling.

Winning in gambling is difficult because that will depends on our luck as we don't know when our luck will comes. If we still push ourselves to keeps playing gambling, that can makes us lose more money which is not recommended to do.  We must control ourselves especially our minds so we don't have to follow what our minds say.

That's normal to have that because that's happens to many people who see gambling can gives them the money if they wins. But they must realizes that gambling is not a place to make money and only playing gambling normally without using too much money. If our salary is small, we have a choice not to playing gambling or we can playing gambling but with limit money so we don't have to lose a lot.

That's why we must learns to have good control in gambling so we don't have to becomes emotional when playing gambling. We will knows how to manage our emotion because that will helps us to prevents the big lose. We have our life and we must take care of it and not waste our money for just playing gambling because we have other things that needs money. We must treat gambling as an entertainment.

Emotion is something that's intertwined with gambling and no matter how hard we tried to eradicate it in one way or another it will certainly be there, so emotion is a normal thing, though the only people who can hardly get affected by there emotions are those who has money because even if they lose while gambling they would always have things that can easily replace that money but for those that labour so hard to make that money will highly be very emotional, so actually I like your advice on this case because in as much the gamblers intentions is to make money but the moment they realized that there loses are much they can just take a break for a while before coming back.

I noticed this thing in myself: when I worked for a small salary in a hard job, I really wanted to place bets. This is probably because I wanted to win a big win and forget about this work forever, because other than the thought of getting up in the morning and staying there until late, I had no idea. This gave rise to internal anger in me and increased excitement; I wanted to change everything, but did not know how to do it. So, my biggest losses were at that time, because I saw no other way out and tried to make money on gambling, but as we know it is very difficult. But the main thing here is that after I changed my job for a better one, I stopped feeling angry and went to play without emotions, and in the end I realized that I needed gambling for entertainment, and not for making money. Now I play completely without emotion, the very philosophy of my attitude towards the game has changed.

In general, I want to say sometimes you need to figure out your life, work and other things, and this will completely change our attitude towards the game.

This is why it would really be that important that you should really be that making use of the amount on which that you can afford to lose or something which is really that intended for buying up needs or your priorities in life, because on the time or moment that you do have this kind of consideration or making out such act then you would really be that impulsive on the time or moment that you would be able to encounter loses.
On the moment thatyou would really be dealing up with gambling then only spend on which the amount you can afford to lose so that on the moment that you do lose then you wont be finding yourself to be that impulsive.
On the time that your emotion and your mind is really that being stressed then you will really be making up decisions on which it shouldnt really be supposed to be done on this way.

Emotional or not, winning chance isnt something that a guaranteed thing. The only difference on here is that on the time or moment that you do play gambling with having that entertainment and leisure seeking
concern then you wont really be that much worry about on the results on which your game could give or happen.

This is why it is important that we only deposit the money we may want to use during that session and nothing more, and if a person wants to go even further than that, then they need to make access to their coins not as immediate as just opening their wallet and make a transaction.

Because in this way a person can take a few minutes to think about what they are doing, and very often this is more than enough to recognize the mistake they are making and avoid making another deposit that could make them to lose even more money.

Thanks for mentioning it, I will definitely take a look when I will have some free time!
That's so true, as with negative emotions piling up, it's harder to make the right decisions. You do everything out of spite or out of the negative emotion that takes control of you, so you should always play when your inner self is ready for it (that is, to win!).

It's hurt when we lose especially if that money is from our salary. We know that so we must realizes that gambling is not for us and we needs to search for other ways to have fun. If we still playing gambling while we know that we can't enjoy the gambling games, that will gives us a depress because of the losing of the money. We will not feels satisfying from playing gambling especially when we lose and that can attract us to spends more money.

If you can control your emotion and know that gambling is just part of your life and you don't need to use it too often, you will not spends your spare time to playing gambling instead will use other things to enjoy your time. It's normal if you becomes emotionally if you lose your money in gambling but you can prevents the lose not becomes bigger by always limiting your money that you use for playing gambling. You must become wise to use your money to playing gambling so your sadness will not be big when you see your losses.

Those who feel pain when they lose or are struggling with this because they see gambling as a place to get rich quickly, not a place for entertainment. I believe that if you use the money you are willing to lose to gamble, you will never fall into that situation. But the sad thing is that not too many people consider gambling as entertainment, most people always want to win and make money, so it will be very difficult to escape that vicious cycle until they lose all their money.

Self-control seems very easy, but doing it is not easy. Once we lose money, we will forget all our previous plans and our minds only hope to get that money back. That's why I suggest that we should only use the money we can lose to gamble instead of thinking that we will control ourselves when the game has started.

You are not alone in this, most gamblers are also struggling with this, it's hurts when you lose especially when you worked hard to get that money, it almost feels like your setting those money on fire or throwing it out of the window..But you took the risk that's why it's a gamble, when you start feeling emotional due to losses try as much as possible to quit for that day or for a long time, because decisions made under the influence of emotions are most likely irrational, you would forget about everything else except chasing what you have lost till everything you've worked hard to get is gone..self control is key

Yes right, we could have our emotions and that's fine, but we need to realize that we are going to end up with a much better result if we want to, and we need to keep working harder. I do understand that we are not going to be all that happy about losing of course, but we need to just realize that it is going to end up with getting much better result eventually.

I hope that we could just consider losses are quite normal and not something that will get bigger in the end. I hope that things could get slower and just people could realize it is not end of the world to lose. The biggest problem is that when someone loses, there are some people who chase that loss and lose even more, people should not do that at all, it's very bad.

If someone says that he can control his emotions in gambling then he is wrong because gambling is totally based on emotions and people are gambling just because of his emotions which force him to start gambling. If someone loses in gambling then due to his emotions he desires to recover that money but when someone wins then these emotions start to force him to play more to win more.

Nobody can control his emotions but if someone accepts the fact that win and loss are unpredictable and apply these strategies then they can overcome the chances of their loss. One should not use so much money that he becomes unable to recover it back and with the desire of recovering he loses another percentage of money too. If you lose your money then forget about it and don't try to chase your loss because it sometimes becomes dangerous and a gambler often loses more money as a result of chasing their loss.

You can't blame them, most people are sore losers and they want their money back, I don't know if you've got that instinct but most of those gamblers have that and that's why they chase their losses, it's a really weird for some of us to do that and to see it being done by others but in such a situation where you want to gamble for the profit, that's the thing that you will definitely do. Everyone can get emotional when you're gambling, I mean who wouldn't be mad when the losing streak is at an all time high, I don't think that you would be able to contain that and you'd be better off releasing that instead of just bottling it up. If you really can't afford to not control your emotion and you really want to chase those losses, you would probably benefit with strategizing how you approach your next games because if you just do it the same as last time, you're just throwing away your money, find other games that would have a better chances of you making some more money.

It needs awareness to realizes our emotions becomes higher because after we lose some money, it is difficult to stay calm in gambling. We can attract to continue playing gambling because at that time, our emotion becomes higher and if we can't control ourselves, we can forget our limitations and will use more money to playing gambling.
That is why we must learn more about self control and practices many times so we can manage our emotion not to becomes high. When you lose streak, you must realizes that you needs to takas a break for a while to reduce the tention. Maybe drink water can calm down your minds so you can thinks clear about what happens to you.
You don't have to chase your lose because that can cause you lose more money and you will hard to accept your lose. You must manage your emotion so your emotion will not increase and you can thinks what you should do the next.

gambling is very closely related to loss, therefore if gambling is done when our emotional state is not good then what will happen is an action that carries a big risk without considering it first and of course such actions will only lead us to big losses. Apart from that, the decisions made should be considered first because remembering that gambling can cause those who do it to experience big losses if they cannot control themselves, including emotions that cannot be controlled.

the points you convey are indeed true, and I think that those who experience large losses are because they have gambled excessively, such as betting beyond their limits, but of course this also happens because they want to recover the losses that have occurred through gambling. what he did. and indeed losing money in gambling cannot be avoided unless we don't gamble at all and winning in gambling cannot be guaranteed accurately.

He who fight and run away lives to fight another day, chasing losses or betting in terms of trying to win back your money can be very problematic and devastating, it can leads to gambling addiction, gambling should not be attached with emotions rather it should be seen as a fun play, this similar topic has been treated here often and it really worth it as a reminder to every gambler in the space However, there are various solutions to this kind of situation,

1. don't bet more than you budgeted

2. Always feel the need to take a break

3. Be on top of the game by not allowing the game to control you

4. Don't chase losses

5. Always know that lossing is inevitable so could always stay within your boundaries.

I think that to master this you need mental strength and obviously things have to go well when you have a lot in it, emotions are what work against us many times but we have to have that willpower to notice the difference in emotions and the fact of spending money, because emotions can come and go easily, you don't spend money to get excited, but if you lose money in the casino that is something more serious, so that is why it is difficult to control emotions when I play, and in my particular case How I find it difficult to do this because I prefer to control the money I spend and have the discipline to set limits on my money when it comes to gambling.

This is the worst stage of gambling addiction. When the person starts to sell off their property just to satisfy their gambling urge, they really need help because after they have sold all their own property, they can start stealing or selling what belongs to their relatives to gamble. I listened to a story from a friend, and he narrated how someone used his parents home for gambling, and the dad died out of depression of how he will stay homeless. I just feel bad when I see some gamblers lose their minds to gambling. 

Hahaha, emotionality is an innate attitude that is always possessed by everyone without exception, but the only difference is how each person limits and controls their own emotions because if there is no proper limitation or control, emotions will destroy everything.
It just that there are very few people who are able to restrain themselves and control every attitude that appears when they start gambling, most are still easily influenced and end up making various stupid decisions that are detrimental to themselves in the long run.
Losing and winning are not the main factors because what influences it is how the gamblers themselves start gambling with the right approach and attitude, I think those who have experienced destruction because of gambling can understand this.

I have known gambling for quite long time, I have experienced the bitterness and sweetness of gambling and various experiences have become the best teachers for learning how to respond to every condition that occurs.
Unfortunately, most gamblers take everything for granted, they cannot lower their ego and start to think properly.

It's a general thing, people don't get tired when they are wining but when they are losing. That's why it is good to control your habits in gambling sothat there wouldn't be a need to regret when you lose. There should be a balance inbetween wining and losing. Meaning your staking power should be equal wether your winning more or losing often, because most people tend to play with small amounts of money on a regular basis but when they start wining they start increasing there fund hoping to wing bigger, but when the game didn't work out as they planned they become worried and emotional.

Not only just with gambling but also in other things as well on which emotion control would really be something relevant or something that needs to be watched out specially in other things in life on where proper emotion management will really be that relevant or something that will really be needed. When you are that becoming impulsive then it would be tending for things to be ended to have those bad decisions on which it would come even more worst on the situation that you are into. You should really be mindful and be careful on the things that you are really that dealing. Dealing or engaging with gambling then this do accompanied with those loses and if you are someone who doesnt really like on experiencing loses then its not really that recommended for you to deal up with gambling in the first place.

Human beings are really that emotional when losing up money which is normal because we dont like on losing money and on the moment that i do happens then we would really be that impulsive on which it might be ending up on with those bad decisions basing up on the time that we are really that dealing up with this thing. When you are emotional on the moment that you do lose then better quit or stop gambling
because extreme stress and anxiety could really cause up some body problems or health issues on which its not really that worth on exchange on someones health just because of some leisure.
Gambling should really be that fun and not something that will really be stressful for you.