Topic: When I'm emotional, I LOSS! - page 26. (Read 5876 times)

Irresponsible gambling is not common to starters. It is even old gamblers who display reckless gambling. Gamblers who have had a long history of gambling or who have developed gambling habits earlier in life may be more prone to continuing or escalating their gambling behaviour as they gamble. These entrenched patterns of behaviour can contribute to the development of a gambling addiction. Sometimes, old gamblers may fall victim to the gambler’s fallacy, which is the mistaken belief that past outcomes can influence future results in games of chance. This fallacy can lead them to chase losses or believe that they are due for a win, fueling further gambling behaviour.

Most starters are scared of using huge money to gamble because of fear that they can lose it and sometimes when these starters have continued loss they can easily stop since they have not been caught in the gambling fantasy. Without a deep understanding of how gambling works, a starter may not feel as comfortable or confident in engaging in prolonged gambling sessions that could lead to addiction. This is different from an old gambler who may possess personality traits that make him more inclined to take risks and seek out thrilling experiences. These traits can make him more susceptible to developing an addiction to the excitement and uncertainty that gambling provides.

Hehehe, that happens often. When we Win Big, it means We have to be prepared to experience a Big Loss and it could even take away all the Big Wins we have gotten. Most gamblers won't be able to see their Big losses so they will just mourn their big losses but it doesn't seem like that will stop them from continuing to gamble. Even if they lose, I'm just saying that they will probably continue to gamble and deposit more money. That's why You really have to Take Care of yourself so that you don't become emotional when you play gambling because that will make you eager to continue playing. That is really not good for you, no i am saying like that, because you can lose a lot of money.

We already realize that it is a Bad Habit and we should be able to avoid it and will only use money that we can afford to lose. Yeah, Maybe we need to learn, But it's still worth doing so that we won't experience bad things like losing more money. Don't just want to chase Big Wins, but think about what you will get if you use a lot of money to gamble. You must be able to control your emotions so your emotions don't become Escalate.

You must be the exception to this rule, as being emotionally driven when betting and staying within the budget is far from the norm. To the OP asking for advice I would tell him to stop betting. If he has such problems controlling himself and keeps losing he's not going to discover a trick that will allow him to bet a little and still control himself. His case is either continue in the same vein, probably getting worse and losing too much over time, or quit for good. I'm clear about which I would choose, also bearing in mind that it's not going to be an easy thing to do.

Yes, you are right and actually being able to enjoy gambling with joy is not about winning but how we can feel adrenaline and also satisfaction with the results of gambling whether it is winning or losing.
If you only gamble to get pleasure from winning, it will be more difficult for every gambler and it will be very rare for them to enjoy every bet because of course they will only lose, not win.
Important point in gambling so that we can really get pleasure is when we gamble with money that we have been determined to lose and we can feel how to play like when we were little playing with friends and feel the excitement.

That way, when we lose, we will not experience an emotional increase and of course there will be no mindset of trying to recover from defeat by risking what should not be risked.
There will only be losses that occur and in the end emotions will increase to the point where you forget or lose awareness of how to take good care of yourself and limit the use of money in gambling.
Eventually losses get bigger and we lose much more money than what we set at the beginning when depositing money into the gambling site.

No, those who win will also become gambling addicts when they have the wrong approach and ambition in gambling.
But it is true that gamblers who lose will have greater chance of being in condition like this more quickly.

On the time that you would really be having that kind of win on your gambling activity then you would be somehow having that kind of boost up on which you would really be having those impressions that you
can actually do it and could really be able to make huge money in gambling on which you dont even think about the risk that do involved on it. Getting emotional when at loss? Its normal
since we dont really like on losing money and as a human then those reactions are normal since its money and we dont like on losing it and we would really be thriving our very best on acquiring or reaching out
those winning conditions which we know that it is really that hard in gambling.

Getting emotionally impulsive? You would really be finding up yourself on such big trouble on the time that you would be making having no control towards your financial spending.
This is where gamblers do usually mess up and its a never ending type of problem or simply the cycle.

You know what after win big and then slap by huge loss I tend to go all in or double it like you have said earlier I don't know why it just automatically happened to me. hahahhahaha when I lose it all I just inhale exhale and tried to calm down and close the site, but when I win after do all in I just inhale exhale close the site and laugh a little bit.

Tho it is a bad habit but as long you stay inline with your budget you probably fine doing it.

If I am to suggest a solution, I'll say you try your best to disconnect from the gambling and stay away from gambling with what you can't afford to part ways with. This is the very fundamental cause of attaching emotions to gambling.

Disconnecting your emotions will help you make rational decisions and help you maintain a healthy balance psychologically

It's just in human nature to be greedy whenever it involves money, but the difference here is that some have learned to control theirs Therefore, op you work on yourself by applying self-discipline, and stick to a betting budget, don't risk way more than you bear to lose, going above limits will bring about emotion, and don't bet randomly that is any amount that you want to use even when you lose, before you start state how much you would like to risk each time you bet because this will help put you on check.

Accepting defeat is one of the hardest challenges in gambling. Sometimes coming to terms with victory is no easier either. It is difficult to give any advice on how to control your emotions in gambling. I’ll tell you this: this is an individual path and there is no specific formula. I believe that if a person has a problem with gambling, then he needs to stop gambling. It's like quitting smoking, you either smoke or you don't, a little won't work

Those set of gamblers that have such mindset have hard alot of bad experience alot of loses compared to their earlier loses,  and for that it is not advisable to chance the losses in an attempt to recover what you have already lost.

This type of pattern of play has affected many gamblers and even it has forced some to slide into a worse situation aside from the losses.

The majority of those who became gambling addicts were people who lost and tried to recover from their losses and were unable to.

and I think like that, they already know very well what the impacts and risks of irresponsible gambling are, it's just that they are too engrossed in the gambling they do, so this makes them ignore all the risks and negative impacts that exist in gambling. And let alone beginners, for those who have been gambling for a long time, sometimes their emotions are still not well controlled so they behave carelessly which only results in losses.


inability to accept the final result of a gamble or a bet he placed. This can really make them gamble longer and make endless bets, and worse still, when the person runs out of budget for betting, instead of ending his gambling, he instead takes out loans or sells his personal items in order to continue betting in the hope of that losses will soon be recovered. However, instead of getting a big win that could recover his losses, the opposite happened, where this would only deepen the losses he experienced.

The gambler who playing the gambling with their money never like to loss their money in gambling site.This was the reason for the gambler to play more game after the loss in the gambling site,the loss can’t be repeated to the gambler who play the skills gained gambling site.Because the skills plays the huge role in the gambling industry,the luck may favour the person at the rare time,but the gambling sites skills was essential one for each gambler.The less experience gamblers will take some time to understand their game in the gambling site.But the experienced gamblers use to play the gambling with more skills in the same gambling site for longer periods.

The inability of gamblers to control their emotions in the game is something that usually happens to gamblers who have just started gambling. High curiosity about luck makes gamblers carry out more and more gambling activities.
what is happening is irresponsible gambling. I think this is almost the same as what novice gamblers experience. they don't have good control over their emotions when playing.
I have confidence that those who gamble understand the risks of gambling. they can win or lose. However, not all gamblers understand responsible gambling.

A lot of gamblers have experienced the same thing. When a gambler experiences losses while gambling, they may become eager to recover their losses quickly. They may start placing larger bets than usual, hoping to win big and make up for their previous losses. This type of behavior can lead to negative consequences such as accruing a large debt, selling off assets, or even engaging in illegal activities to obtain money for gambling.

Maybe what you mean is "if I get emotional then my losses can be bigger", because for the problem of losing it is a sure thing in gambling but increasing the number of losses is the result that you will experience when you cannot control your emotions and I think the inability to accept the fact of losing especially in large numbers is the problem here. So the truth is that you really need to change and justify your understanding of gambling, you must re-understand and reaffirm to yourself that gambling is a winning and losing activity, in the sense that you will always find one of the two results at the end of your gambling session.

On the other hand everyone doesn't like losing, but the point is if you don't like losing then isn't the solution to not touch gambling at all? Of course, because after all gambling is always about taking risks, you can only win when you are really lucky and on the other hand everyone will never know when they can be lucky because luck is always unknowable when it comes and when it goes which means if at the end of the session you lose it means you are unlucky. So as I said above that gambling is a win and lose activity, don't just be ready to win because I will call you a loser, but it is mandatory for all gamblers to be able to accept the fact of losing, and if you are still unable to be a responsible gambler in the sense of being able to accept defeat then it is better not to touch gambling at all.

Even if you avoid it more, the risk always seems to have the same origin, many people think that the path of an experienced and wise gambler will be a lamp to help us illuminate the path a little but in reality, that path is endless and no gambler can afford to experience it all, if one person's light goes out, another person's light will continue and in such a cycle, there is no clear destination. Emotions are the body's cells and senses, responding to the contradictions that life offers, it's hard to experience a less rough road in this life

Experiencing both winning and losing streaks is just a natural cycle in gambling. You're spot on about the common pitfall of becoming too aggressive in trying to recover losses quickly. Instead of calmly assessing the situation and sticking to a sound strategy, many gamblers let emotions take over that leads to irrational decisions that exacerbate their financial losses. Your example of doubling bets in an attempt to recoup losses is a classic illustration of the dangers of undisciplined gambling behavior.

Proper bankroll management is crucial in mitigating the risks associated with gambling. This disciplined approach helps prevent impulsive decisions driven by emotions and allows for more rational decision-making, even during periods of adversity. Embracing discipline and adhering to proper bankroll management are essential components of responsible gambling. By doing so, individuals can navigate the inevitable ups and downs of gambling more effectively, ultimately enhancing their chances of long-term success and enjoyment in gambling.

Truth be told, no human is capable of controlling how they feel completely, they can only choose to make the right decision, is what I am doing the right thing to do? A smart person will surely end up with such question.

When someone rape a sister in your family, the feeling of killing the rapist will come to mind but its jungle justice if you give in to your feelings, automatically you yourself have become a killer, you will also have to face the law, but the right thing to do is to get them arrested and locked up.

You can get emotional when gambling, but don't do anything stupid, you don't know which decision will bring you the result you want, that's why you are emotional, what is the solution? Lower the money you are about to risk, your emotional could be on the risk you are about to take, it's like a caution sign.

Everyone probably has experienced a losing streak and a winning streak; it's a cycle that we should accept. The problem with most of us is that we lack discipline; we tend to be more aggressive to recover our losses faster. However, because of that careless strategy, it turns out we are losing more and more. In terms of probability, we might face a 50/50 or 48/52 situation, but we are not using it well because, when we lose our discipline, we forget to follow proper bankroll management.

Have you ever experienced being up in a session but, once you face a losing streak and feel down, you become aggressive and double your bets, ending up losing everything? That's us being undisciplined, and it's something we have to learn from and strive not to do again.

It's true. Experience is the best mentor of all.
I've lost a lot of times after a win and that's because of the emotional joy of feeling lucky which leads to being greedy. I won't deny it, because I think these kinds of things don't only happen to me. This is an incident where a gambler has a choice to get out or continue and I think most of the time "to continue" is what they pick.

The truth is I haven't had a chance for a continuous winning streak where you could say it does happen to a player. I can get like x500 but next to that will probably be a losing streak. There's just only one way to escape it and that is to cash it out. Enjoy the profits and go back another day, pray that the system resets and you can have the same result when you come back.