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legendary
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January 31, 2024, 07:11:44 AM
When it comes to gambling, just like trading, there is no need to activate emotions as the game or the chart is inconsiderate towards your emotions but towards facts and certainties.

Emotions will only ensure you incur losses that you can't and won't be compensated for but on the reverse, it enriches the platform as your loss is their win.

Any gambler experiences emotions while gambling. Algorithm involved in the distribution of winnings is not related to your emotions so there is no point in hiding emotions when gambling. Winning in gambling depends on the luck of the gambler and his actions, not emotions. If you think that this is not true - you have a chance to check it yourself.

True, the fact is that most gamblers will always apply emotions especially when they are in a losing streak, it is true that emotions have absolutely nothing to do with victory or the fate of the gambler himself in his gambling involvement, emotions and victory are different and unrelated things. For the issue of winning of course as you said that only luck will be able to bring a person to a happy situation, nothing else and for the issue of emotions this is something that can make a person experience a bigger defeat because of decisions that are not based or considered with common sense so that in the end it makes the number of losses increase.

I think however what we are saying is a fact in the world of gambling about the role of emotions along with their causes, this is why every gambler really needs to apply good self-control when they are involved in betting because emotions will only make them worse.
legendary
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January 31, 2024, 06:05:32 AM
Being emotional in gambling and making decisions based on your emotions will always cause you to lose because gambling is something that allows you to win with proper control not emotionally. Although gambling is never a method of income that can be your focus, it is very important to be able to control your emotions when gambling, maintain personal discipline and perform risk management correctly.

Although our emotions cause us to make wrong decisions in every aspect of our lives, our emotions also cause us to make mistakes more easily in gambling. Therefore, one should always act dispassionately when gambling and should never become emotionally attached to a game, team or choice depending on the type of gambling preferred.

You can do a lot of stupid things with emotions, and it’s worth thinking about this in advance, if you know that you are prone to this, then you must have limits on the budget that you can spend per day in order to limit your ability to spend more and then regret it. Excessive emotionality can cause harm not only in gambling, but also in any area of our lives where important decisions need to be made, and this often concerns finances.
legendary
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January 31, 2024, 05:32:13 AM
When it comes to gambling, just like trading, there is no need to activate emotions as the game or the chart is inconsiderate towards your emotions but towards facts and certainties.

Emotions will only ensure you incur losses that you can't and won't be compensated for but on the reverse, it enriches the platform as your loss is their win.

Any gambler experiences emotions while gambling. Algorithm involved in the distribution of winnings is not related to your emotions so there is no point in hiding emotions when gambling. Winning in gambling depends on the luck of the gambler and his actions, not emotions. If you think that this is not true - you have a chance to check it yourself.
hero member
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January 31, 2024, 05:12:58 AM
Hahaha. This is very common amongst gamblers, especially gamblers who don’t have experience. I know the feeling very well because I have been there. When you lose $10, you put in a bet to win back what you lost and even extra so you’ll be ahead of the game, but that’s exactly when you continuously lose. Happened to me last year, I eventually had to make peace with my failure and accepted defeat. This is the reason why we need to have limits (rules and regulations) that will control what you do. If you already decided you can’t stake more than $10, that will always guide you to be in place.
Been there many times too. I keep learning but keep making the same mistake. I think it is the nature of us gamblers, hopefully not for most of us here. You gotta be a professional gambler in order for you to gamble emotionless, but how many of us here are professional? I don't even see even one poster that have claimed himself to be a professional gambler and have showed some proof on his claim.

@OP, just keep gambling and learn, do the process until you figure it out right in the end.

I don’t think you’ve been learning. Haha. You can’t make a mistake twice if you learn from the first mistake. By the second time, you should have known that this is how this happens. However, we are all humans and we have emotions which lets us fall easily, hoping that this time it’ll be better than the last. I don’t think it’s tied to being a professional gambler, I think that as long as you know to be disciplined and control your emotions, you can stop yourself from going further when needed to do so.

I guess it's easier said than that. Not everything in life can be easy to learn, especially in gambling where we invest a lot of emotions on what we are doing. We tend to be unrealistic sometimes and we want to deal with the challenge. Personally, I gamble a lot, makes mistake a lot of times but I'm proud to say that somehow I learn something, as long as I'm not bankrupt yet and gambling hasn't impacted my life so much, I think I'm still good to continue what I'm doing.
hero member
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January 31, 2024, 04:47:44 AM
Hahaha. This is very common amongst gamblers, especially gamblers who don’t have experience. I know the feeling very well because I have been there. When you lose $10, you put in a bet to win back what you lost and even extra so you’ll be ahead of the game, but that’s exactly when you continuously lose. Happened to me last year, I eventually had to make peace with my failure and accepted defeat. This is the reason why we need to have limits (rules and regulations) that will control what you do. If you already decided you can’t stake more than $10, that will always guide you to be in place.
Been there many times too. I keep learning but keep making the same mistake. I think it is the nature of us gamblers, hopefully not for most of us here. You gotta be a professional gambler in order for you to gamble emotionless, but how many of us here are professional? I don't even see even one poster that have claimed himself to be a professional gambler and have showed some proof on his claim.

@OP, just keep gambling and learn, do the process until you figure it out right in the end.

I don’t think you’ve been learning. Haha. You can’t make a mistake twice if you learn from the first mistake. By the second time, you should have known that this is how this happens. However, we are all humans and we have emotions which lets us fall easily, hoping that this time it’ll be better than the last. I don’t think it’s tied to being a professional gambler, I think that as long as you know to be disciplined and control your emotions, you can stop yourself from going further when needed to do so.

It may be true that he has learned before but he is still stuck in the same hole with the same mistake, and I think the fault lies in the lack of assertiveness that he applies to self-control along with some boundaries that he has made, he already knows that there are indications that can make him make the same mistake if he takes or does it but the problem is that he is too weak and cannot apply assertiveness to his self-control so in the end he goes back to something that looks tempting because when you are running a session there will be a lot of temptations that enter the mind which in fact is not easy to ignore.

However, humans are creatures that never escape the name of mistakes but if for example you too often do the same thing or the same mistake then maybe I will say that you are not a serious person in terms of learning for a development that leads to a better change. On the other hand, professionals will usually prioritize risk management over focusing on winning opportunities, they have high flying hours which means they already know the various situations that are there so that with that they really understand the dangers of the risks involved in gambling which ultimately makes them prioritize risk management such as applying self-control, limits and discipline because with that, they will be able to avoid greater risks.
sr. member
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January 30, 2024, 06:29:49 PM
Hahaha. This is very common amongst gamblers, especially gamblers who don’t have experience. I know the feeling very well because I have been there. When you lose $10, you put in a bet to win back what you lost and even extra so you’ll be ahead of the game, but that’s exactly when you continuously lose. Happened to me last year, I eventually had to make peace with my failure and accepted defeat. This is the reason why we need to have limits (rules and regulations) that will control what you do. If you already decided you can’t stake more than $10, that will always guide you to be in place.
Been there many times too. I keep learning but keep making the same mistake. I think it is the nature of us gamblers, hopefully not for most of us here. You gotta be a professional gambler in order for you to gamble emotionless, but how many of us here are professional? I don't even see even one poster that have claimed himself to be a professional gambler and have showed some proof on his claim.

@OP, just keep gambling and learn, do the process until you figure it out right in the end.

I don’t think you’ve been learning. Haha. You can’t make a mistake twice if you learn from the first mistake. By the second time, you should have known that this is how this happens. However, we are all humans and we have emotions which lets us fall easily, hoping that this time it’ll be better than the last. I don’t think it’s tied to being a professional gambler, I think that as long as you know to be disciplined and control your emotions, you can stop yourself from going further when needed to do so.
sr. member
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January 30, 2024, 06:19:31 PM
I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

This is not about gambling alone. There is nothing palatable been a loser, if you also lost money and that amount is very dear to you that you can't let's go, it will hurt you badly. However, as a human that you are, I want to believe there is limit to what you can lose, let's say amount that you can dash a begger and you don't even know or feel that you given to someone, that's the kind of amount you are meant for gambling because when you give that out to people or for anything that worth it or not worth it, you wouldn't feel any regret about it.

In addition, if you are new to it, you will likely feel this but without time you are going to overcome it and will not feel anything about it again especially when you win like 500x of what you have been playing, you wouldn't even feel remorse about the amount you played with but even if you win more than such amount, don't change your initial bankroll, stick to the initial plans.
sr. member
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January 30, 2024, 06:12:25 PM
When it comes to gambling, just like trading, there is no need to activate emotions as the game or the chart is inconsiderate towards your emotions but towards facts and certainties.

Emotions will only ensure you incur losses that you can't and won't be compensated for but on the reverse, it enriches the platform as your loss is their win.
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January 30, 2024, 06:06:32 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's really hard to gamble when you can't control your emotions, that happened to me too but all I really did was control my emotions little by little. You need to give yourself a budget and that budget should be your only goal to lose or grow once you do this maybe you will lose the habit of chasing your losses because those losses are budgeted right? Don't be greedy, take that away from you. Because most greedy people really run out of money, you will run out of money quickly if you are too greedy so you should control yourself about that. And I think this one will help you too, don't gamble every day.
legendary
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January 30, 2024, 05:36:22 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's more on self-control, even if others are already at least in the positive side, meaning that they are winning, still they are going to double their bet no matter what. In your case, perhaps it's greedy, but you want to chase your losses and you don't want to accept defeat that's why you double your bet and in the end, losing it and then the cycle continues.

So you have to practice what others have said, self-control, learn to stop when you are on top, or quit and think that it's not your lucky day. And then relax, take gambling away from your mind and maybe comeback and try your luck.
hero member
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January 30, 2024, 05:32:19 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?
You will continue to lose as long as you are being too emotional with gambling. It has happened to me before so I know what I'm saying. I have done various funny stuffs such as even playing with anger after a supposed sure game cut my bet. There was a time it happened to me and out of anger, I decided to play with all the money I had in my account and I still lost it. Emotions and gambling should never go together because gambling is designed to mess with your emotion but the moment you are able to handle this, then the job is already done as you will enjoy winning gamble with ease while losses will be welcomed and accepted as part of the process.


I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
To overcome this, always set aside the maximum you can lose before you stop gambling for the day. You must also develop the discipline to actually stop when you hit this amount. That way the feeling of hurt at the end of the day will be less.
legendary
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January 30, 2024, 05:09:44 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

You need to change your mindset to the fact that gambling can be a form of entertainment.  What I mean by that is that people pay hundreds of dollars to see a live sport or concert that ends in 2 hours.  You don't get upset that you "lost" all that money.  If you are enjoying yourself gambling than its the cost of entertaining yourself.  Obviously there needs to be some personal guidelines set.
hero member
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January 30, 2024, 04:55:32 PM
Being emotional in gambling and making decisions based on your emotions will always cause you to lose because gambling is something that allows you to win with proper control not emotionally. Although gambling is never a method of income that can be your focus, it is very important to be able to control your emotions when gambling, maintain personal discipline and perform risk management correctly.

Although our emotions cause us to make wrong decisions in every aspect of our lives, our emotions also cause us to make mistakes more easily in gambling. Therefore, one should always act dispassionately when gambling and should never become emotionally attached to a game, team or choice depending on the type of gambling preferred.
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January 30, 2024, 04:51:49 PM
Chasing your losses is the reason why you lost more money than what you may have felt comfortable losing
I agree, when you are chasing your losses you definitely going to be emotional because you are not seeing the result that you want to have.

but make no mistake if you had gambled that money at some point you would have lost it as that is the nature of the games
Each time we gamble, just think of the money that we have bet as something as good and gone forever and that's gambling is.

overcoming this problem is possible, just stop doing it
But it is hard when someone's emotional like OP that he can't stop doing it and he's becoming more eager to chase and recover those losses but yes, that's one step that he needs to do and that's to stop.
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January 30, 2024, 04:51:01 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?
being emotional is normal, but allowing it to influence your gambling habits is the least thing you'd ever wanna dream of... That's actually the beginning of failure; when you FAIL to admit that you ain't on the right path and that you need to adjust, you've actually FAILED collectively.

it's actually unbearable to wager and lose continuously without any wins..." I'm not gonna lie, several people have been through that on my watch,.. there's never been a time it ends well". If you lose too much -- much more beyond your budget, please exit.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰
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January 30, 2024, 04:48:58 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

it was at the very beginning of the journey, as soon as I got acquainted with gambling, especially with Dice, I wanted to win back what I had lost, the martingale system and all that kind of stuff. Only after playing a lot of games did I realize that over the long haul, the casino will always be in profit, but not the player.
The player himself can lucky in an exceptional random game and there are no systems for winning, after this knowledge was obtained there was no longer a desire to win back or anger at the game, I paid for my experience in this way (how many doge were lost, it’s sad Grin) for this reason I play exclusively on the amount that I am mentally prepared to lose so as not to feel guilty for losing and I treat this as entertainment and not a way to quickly double my balance.
hero member
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January 30, 2024, 04:02:20 PM
That's a battle you will need to fight with your willpower and patience. People who have a lot of patience and self-control tend to be safe from such emotional rides because they are always calm and collected and they know what steps they need to take in every situation. Whether they are winning or losing, they know when they need to stop and when it's time for them to take a step back.

I believe every single gambler faces this situation and has this thing in them, however, a lot of gamblers manage to control their emotions and don't let them get control over them because when that happens, you lose the ability to think critically and you will make decisions that aren't good for you.
Emotional control is indeed a serious problem for gamblers.
in my opinion only wise gamblers can control their emotions when playing. not to mention the lure of other gamblers who influence us to continue playing even though we have won or even when we lose.
I myself have been like that. If you have lost, your fellow gamblers are even encouraged by fellow gamblers to continue playing and double their bets so that they can return their previous losses.

In some cases, that's not right, but sometimes the chances of choosing who is next to us is not there. The obligation of taking decision is still fully possessed by the gamblers. Nobody is to be blamed, although the suggestion of players around him can change his mind to wager more. And the gambler is sure it'll injure him on the last lap. Who then is to answer for the mistake of chasing for losses? The gambler. Players need to retain their emotional strength, not to get anxious about a gambling outcome. Emotional instability affects the player and make him listen to the statement of others. Laughing or smiling over the free tips from close by people, shows that the gambler is only there for fun. Not being disturbed, as a way of trying to please the players around him. Although experts expect that a gambler obey their contributions in the casino, yet the player holds the final conclusion. The money is his, and playing smart with it, should be the person's promise to himself and family.
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January 30, 2024, 03:28:34 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
Chasing your losses is the reason why you lost more money than what you may have felt comfortable losing, but make no mistake if you had gambled that money at some point you would have lost it as that is the nature of the games, overcoming this problem is possible, just stop doing it, set a limit to how much money you are willing to lose and once that limit is reached immediately close the gambling app or website and do not comeback no matter what, at the beginning it will be difficult, but once you do this a few times, you can say you have overcome your problem.
hero member
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January 30, 2024, 03:25:55 PM
It is important for us to be able to control our emotions well and maintain a good playing rhythm. because however, when talking about gambling, this activity must be played calmly, because if not... often this behavior leads us to impulsive behavior which can lead to mistakes in making betting decisions, which can result in significant losses. large enough. By gambling calmly, this can help us make better betting decisions.

When gambling, we really have to be able to know when to start gambling and when to end it. And when you have doubts about continuing the game, it would be better if you immediately stop the activity and rest for a moment to just calm your mind and emotions. And remember to bet within normal limits and use money you are prepared to lose. because by doing this, it can help you control your gambling activities and reduce feelings of deep regret, which could make you disappointed with the final results of the bets you made previously. where this feeling of disappointment can affect you and can make you more emotional about the gambling or bets you make.
legendary
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January 30, 2024, 03:24:28 PM
That's a battle you will need to fight with your willpower and patience. People who have a lot of patience and self-control tend to be safe from such emotional rides because they are always calm and collected and they know what steps they need to take in every situation. Whether they are winning or losing, they know when they need to stop and when it's time for them to take a step back.

I believe every single gambler faces this situation and has this thing in them, however, a lot of gamblers manage to control their emotions and don't let them get control over them because when that happens, you lose the ability to think critically and you will make decisions that aren't good for you.
You wont really be able to move forward if you wont really be able to have those kind of realizations on which this is something that you would really be needing up on. If you do fail then expect that
situation would really just come over again and again on which this is something typical for most people for it to happen. This is why it would really be always important that you should really be having that
intellectual kind of control + emotions on which it would really be something that would really be able to resolve out such impulsiveness towards gambling on which we know that its never been good
if you do let it loose or something that cant be controlled.

Self realizations on what gambling is would also help on which it wont really be that making you that too emotional just because you've been aware or simply wary on
what are those probabilities that could really happen along the way.If you are someone whose really that gambling for fun then you wont really be ending up like this
one.
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