Topic: why are people suffering from jealousy ? - page 23. (Read 3034 times)

that depend on the person but me not to be said because the word of God you do not be jealous of everything they have

Because they just cannot get what they want, and think they should be the Alpha man.

because most of the people are not contented of what they have, and they are always lacking of self confidence that they are unique in their own way.

I believe that jealousy begins with insecurity. In every act of jealousness one of the partners or couples is insecure. It is like a vile poison that is eating up their beings. When it comes to other things it is always the concept of unfairness, on why some have more while some have less.

Incompetence, lack of confidence, low self esteem, inferiority complex, feeling threatened. Trust me. I've been struggling with that for my whole life. So, I'm quite sensitive with that issue and I can sense it even at the slightest clue. What I found amazing is it's not just me. Almost everybody have that issue. It's just some people can better cope with it, some good at pretending, and some people can really ignore with that feeling. Another difference between people is the things they are jealous about. So, basically it's normal. The harder you try to get rid of it, the more you are aware of yourself being jealous. The more you are aware of yourself being jealous, the more you feel sick of yourself and from there, it will reinforce your tendency to be jealous. It's better to be aware when you start feeling jealous and accept the fact that it's normal and then try to deal with the situations.

They suffer from it as they want to be the first ones, to get the best things, to be loved with the most beautiful men and women, but they cannot achieve these goals.

Just stay happy with people and things you have.

each one of us has his own dreams and we try all the time to make them come true but when it doesn't work we start being jealous of others because they on the way to reach theirs or already reached them , we hust need to believe in ourselves and work as hard as we can

I think what they envy is what the others got out of their success ,
Some of us got jealous because of the things that we couldn't get.

One point in time, I felt jealousy when I saw my classmates and friends finished their studies and have a degree.  Having a degree means having a good job and having a good job means high salary.  Because of that jealousy I tried to deactivate my facebook and never use social media again.  It is quite effective.  After awhile I turn it on and just unfollowed them.  

Reading and referring to my experience, jealousy is a result of the guilt or things that we have not accomplished.  To think that other people are better than us and that when they are better than us they will looked down to us.  Which is happening for sometime but not all the time.  Just be contented on what we are.

Some people even think jealousy is a healthy thing, because it means that you care. You know that you are in love, it is said, when you feel tremendous pangs of jealousy about that special love that you share being shared with somebody else. Without jealousy and other associated negative involuntary emotions, the relationship might as well end, it is said, because then you have no more passionate divine spark. If you don’t ever get jealous, it must mean that you can turn your emotions on and off at a whim, and thus no more organic drive exists to feel.
 
People get jealous when they feel that someone else has something that should be theirs. People who are jealous often blame others around them rather than recognizing the emotion that is making them feel hurt. Find the specific source of the person's jealousy.

Jealousy is a form of anger caused by the fear of loss. Controlling jealousy is very similar to controlling anger. When you feel increasingly jealous, the first thing to do is to calm down. Take a deep breath. try to relax and then pay attention to the environmental situation.
Approach the situation that is facing calmly but firmly. Avoid blaming others and asking him to account for his behavior that has made you jealous. look for a real solution not just to wreak your hurt feelings. Try to stay focused on the real problem .

Jealousy is in the nature of man. It just depends on how an individual will approach this feeling. Most people took the negative approach which leads them to an ill decision. But if you used that feeling in order to grow wouldnt it be much better.Use it to fuel you from getting better at life and nothing being a crab.

I think everything goes from childhood, there is the answer

Do you know why London is rich ?..
Do you think because they was good inventors?..

Lets get to the truth..

The kings lived in London and would spread the wealth they robbed from the north of Britain and from Ireland plus the slaves the captured from the north and the rest of the country and made them fight for the kings basically bullied into killing for the king because if you never you got killed on the spot..

Now all i hear on here is about you make a good living by being educated ..
Now being educated is a good thing BUT if you look at the real rich people i would say that most done some sort of crime to get really rich in the first place ..

NO YOU SAY..Ok lets look at some PROOF of rich CRIMES..

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You see i am JEALOUS of people killing for a living ..^^^^^^^^

I thinks we could stop it from going worse because everyone wants to be rich ^^^^^^

You see how people become RICH ..Education would you say?

Some people suffer from this kind of behavior  because they  dont have  a self esteem  they are insecure of others achievement

jealousy is made by God it is the reason why we have a goal. Jealousy is the one that's why the life is too complicated. jealousy is the reason why people want to be rich and also it is the one that can cause some bad thing that will do. jealousy is the twin of challenge for me, because no challenge if no jealousy.

Jealousy is natural to us man in this world , but most people are envious. If the person is with something that is to precious to him or her , the other person also wants that kind of things , then there goes the jealousy. Sometimes too much jealousy of a person results in a bad behaviour , it can be deadly sometimes.

For those familar with the Catholic faith, Envy is one of the seven deadly sins, these seven sins are the root to all other sins. Envy/Jealousy is a strong feeling of discontent, and resentful longing for the possessions of another, be it a physical, material thing, or a quality the person possess, such as luck, love, etc.
  The opposite of Envy is Kindness, and it is one of the 7 virtues. People are envious because of their ego, which is apart of there animal, or carnal desire. What seperates humans from animal intelligence, is the ability to rise above our animal nature which is trapped within 7 folds of sin. In order to do so, one must acquire the attributes of virtue, which are 7 in total. These 7 sins are also the root of evil in the heart of men.

Here is a map key

    Virtues:      V.S.        Sins

1:  chasity        |             lust
2:  temperance|           gluttony
3:  charity.        |             greed
4: diligence.     |            sloth
5: patience.     |             wrath
6: humilty.       |               pride
7: kindness.    |              envy

"Dantes Inferno" incorporates these qualities into a epic, like "Homers Odyssey"

Jealousy stem from a person's insecurity. Basically you are jealous (in a relationship) because there is an actual threat that you might lose your loved one. You are jealous (about material things) because you know in yourself that you can't have what they have. If you believe that you won't lose something or you can have what other people have then there is no reason to be jealous

There are people who get a flue, and people who get a jealousy. I guess it must be a virus, I also saw that it can be infective...