It's this entitlement mentality that's destroying a lot of youths who believe that someone somewhere owns them help. They think because someone earns more than them or is rich by their estimation they should become parasitic to. If it were that easy, shouldn't they too be making their own money and helping others too? Until people realize that the streets are tough and that no one owns anyone anything, they will awaken from their slumbers.
The funny part is that even if u introduce them to what you are doing, instead of them to focus and do what you are doing they will come with the mindset of competiting with you. instead of training them self on how to grow in wisdom and understanding of how the forum works. They will start asking you how to get merit and grow in rank and even asking you to give them merit or asking you on how they can be like you. Instead of thinking on how to make quality post and grow, they will be monitoring How you get merit or where you make post that receive merits.
When ever you are being introduced to a platform and you come with the mindset of competition, you will never grow because your comment will always be complain or commenting out of point. Each person has his grace on life and you can never be someone's else just try to be you. Because your real you might even grow more than who introduced you. Everybody must not be the same.
For example many people that entered this forum at the same year, some are legendary while some are hero members and some are senior members while some are still full members and some gave up to another thing because they think they are not fit for the job. You can only grow the moment you chose to make use of your time very well And decide to focus otherwise you'll be jumping from one thing to the other. That's why it's good never to give up easily in what you do because consistency in the wright track is the key factor of success.