At first glance it doesn’t sound bad to tell other people that you own Bitcoin, but there are some details to keep in mind:
Telling all of your friends might not be a good idea
I'm even nervous about telling my wife. Since there is dilemma. Eventually the prefix "ex" can be added to wife ... but then again, anything can happen, so many people are passing away unexpectedly... I don't want to have that happen and my Bitcoins to disappear with me. Looking for the middle ground, but didn't find yet, sighing.
(NOTE: Yes, I realize that I am reviving an "old" topic, but the topic does still seem relevant to BTC HODLers - and likely is not easily resolved through a lot of different opinions on the matter and even changing circumstances that individual BTC HODLers might experience - including changed perceptions of the value and/or importance of their BTC stash due to changes in the BTC price since the last post in this thread - we are around 4x or more increased BTC prices since the middle of 2020, no?)I have some agreement with you in that, you do not really want to create incentives with anyone whether it be a wife or otherwise that you are worth more dead than alive, and it is a bit sad to be in a close (intimate) relationship with another person in which you cannot feel sufficiently comfortable that she might want to kill you in order to be able to live in a way that she perceives to be better.
Personalities are going to differ - that's for sure, and there are some people who are completely trustworthy because they have in-built limitations, and other people might either NOT have such limitations or they might feel that some circumstances justify their behaviors to go beyond certain boundaries that others would not so easily cross.
So, yes there could be some financial vehicles that are available that do not reveal all of the details of what the wife would get if you were dead.. but still allow a way to pass the coins upon such death, were it to occur (hopefully by means that are not attributable to the conduct of the wife or any of her potential agents).
This thread is full of great comments. My spouse knows I have some coins but has no idea of how many. I have it setup where my BIP password is located in three parts. She will need to get all 3 and connect the password characters together in order to discover the 30-50 digits needed to open the wallet. I do this for security knowing that a stolen/hacked Trezor presents no threat and the 3 locations are miles apart. She has no interest, only she wants to know that they won't be lost if I die. I don't have to trust the holders of my password partials because they don't know each other, or what those digits are for. I am a lucky "old timer" in this game. KYC was never an issue back in the day. The SEED sits in my vault.
Some of this obscure description of your security is interesting, and sure I suppose there could be ways to accomplish what you are describing... including that some persons might be holding something that they realize to be important (so they will safeguard it), but they are not sure about such significance until such time that you were to pass and purportedly there would come available instructions in order that at least one person is going to know what the fuck is going on in order that the value is not lost forever because of security that might be too great... Hopefully, that is the case with you.
If you wanna be private than stay private, I'm talking about how people are so scared that everyone in the world is going to hurt them. This type of fear with terrorism is how the patriot act got passed which allowed government to do even more sketchy shit.
You are full of shit, Digitradez because you take your stupid-ass logic to extremes to make a point about something that was not even happening through the posts here in this thread.
Merely because members are talking about various ways to attempt to take precautions does not signify that they are either "overdoing it" or in a kind of "irrational panic state."
In other words, you are overly generalizing and thereby making disingenuine and nonsense points about folks supposedly being too scared or precautious because they are sharing ideas on a topic, you disingenuous dweeb.