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December 07, 2017, 05:49:10 PM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?

A life full of discontent is an unhappy one. Unhappy people fail to appreciate what they have around them and more often than not, these people are most likely to be materialistic. They genuinely think that money and material things can give them happiness. Well, it sure can but if you are not content with what you have, you will never be satisfied and ultimately happy. For me, happiness can only be achieved if you learn to love yourself, life and to be content with what you have around you. If you have done all of that, there will never be a sad day for the rest of your life.
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December 07, 2017, 04:41:48 PM
i really believe in one principle about happiness.  i think for one to be happy you have to create happiness or in other words, make other people happy.
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December 06, 2017, 08:47:00 PM
I think people are unhappy because they have not discovered who they are and what they want. To be happy, you should be able to know yourself and know what you want.  When you don't know yourself, you turn to do other things other people do to be happy but it will never make you happy. Self discovery is key.
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December 06, 2017, 08:17:21 PM
Happiness is earned. I know that from experience. But I find some people with the least amount to give, give the most. And even if they don't have a whole lot, they truly know what its like to be rich.


-Possession make you rich.I don't have that type of richness. my richness is life, forever.-
Bob Marley
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December 06, 2017, 08:11:06 PM
When people are unhappy, it’s much more difficult to be around them, let alone work with them. Unhappiness drives people away, creating a vicious cycle that holds you back from achieving everything that you’re capable of.Unhappiness can catch you by surprise. So much of your happiness is determined by your habits (in thought and deed) that you have to monitor them closely to make certain that they don’t drag you down into the abyss.Some habits lead to unhappiness more than others do. You should be especially wary of the ten habits that follow as they are the worst offenders. Watch yourself carefully to make certain that these habits are not your own.
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December 06, 2017, 05:56:35 PM
Most people are unhappy because they choose to place their happiness on temporary things. Hence, when that thing is gone, then also goes their happiness. As what C.S. Lewis once said, "Do not place your happiness on something that you might lose".

That's kind a tricky, the only constant in this world is its inconstancy. Everything may be lost.
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December 06, 2017, 05:45:39 PM
Most people are unhappy because they choose to place their happiness on temporary things. Hence, when that thing is gone, then also goes their happiness. As what C.S. Lewis once said, "Do not place your happiness on something that you might lose".
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December 06, 2017, 05:17:07 PM
You know, life is already perfect. Without us knowing, people who have a desire that makes their lives seem less. The dominant cause of unhappiness comes from oneself. While the factors from outside only strengthen the factor from within. most people are more letting the mind rule our everyday behavior, but our minds only judge black and white, or wrong and true. This is where the conscience becomes important to be heard .
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December 06, 2017, 04:01:07 PM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?
I think the main reason why the people unhappy is when our expectation doesn't match reality. When you have the huge gap between what you expected and how thing really works most people just become unhappy.
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December 06, 2017, 10:37:40 AM
peoples are greedy that's why they are unhappy.Human want more and more.They are not satisfied with anything.
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December 06, 2017, 09:50:37 AM
There are 7 main reasons:
1.Worrying
2.Giving Up Control
3.Holding a Grudge
4.Having One Set of Rules
5.Comparing to Other People
6.Making Life Harder Than It Has to Be
7.Being Pessimistic
This is my own opinion  Wink
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December 06, 2017, 09:48:11 AM

it is all about expectations.
if you have got unrealistic expectations you most likely will not be happy.

you're healthy / employed / in a loving relationship? - stop for a minute and appreciate what you have.
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December 06, 2017, 09:42:08 AM
People are unhappy because they are not contented on all the things that they have . And maybe because they feel unloved and useless even if they have many possessions in life. Mostly, people who are unhappy are those who did not make God as the center of their lives. Money is the only thing that matters to them.
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December 06, 2017, 08:53:21 AM
Welcome to Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
It turns out that when you no longer have needs your life will basically becomes empty, without a goal or objective, so you get to stack new needs, like bullshit activism or endless greed in order to provide you some meaning to life.
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December 06, 2017, 08:50:12 AM
Because of unhappy thoughts. Everything begins with thoughts.
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December 06, 2017, 08:48:52 AM
happiness is a choice, somehow lack of contentment in life. we are not contented in small things we have and sometimes we are expecting more than we have. but if you are contented and know how to appreciate small or big things maybe you fulfill and feel the happiness.
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December 06, 2017, 08:41:55 AM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?

Every person is unique in their own way. There are a lot of people who are rich that can buy anything they want, people who are popular and with great power,  people who made a lot of achievements and make the people believe that they are happy but deep in their hearts at the end of the day when loneliness felt, they are unhappy. On the other hand, there are people who are less fortunate, people who need to struggle everyday just to live not for his ownself but also for their loved ones, people whom you see living in the streets not
knowing where they will spend the night to rest and sleep but when you talk to them they are thankful for their lives everyday and at the end of the day you will see the smile on their faces. So, why are people unhappy? The answer is contentment. Each person is unique, especially on how they see life in their own perspective. If every person knows how to be contented with what they have, they will learn how to appreciate things like on how to love and be loved by others. Contentment is a big factor that each peson should have and put into practice so that people will see life easier and make them happy.
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December 06, 2017, 08:35:49 AM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?


The way I see it, is the reason why there are so many unhappy people in the world because all are clinged to some version of what if...
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December 06, 2017, 08:29:44 AM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?
Most people are said to be unhappy one of them is because they do not have much wealth. Because their opinion of money is part of material happiness.
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December 06, 2017, 08:24:43 AM
Did you ever thought why many people are not happy even they have many possessions in life?  Did you ever thought the reason behind those agonies even if they tried to be happy but it wont last that long?  Physically,  they showed to the whole world that they are strong,  they enjoy their lives to the fullest.  But at end of the day,  loneliness attacks.  Did you ever thought why people are unhappy?
sometimes people are unhappy because they not fullfil what they want to do, or maybe people are unhappy because their lives are not aligned with their values.
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