Worst idea in the last 24 hours. That is pretty amazing given the pretty much nonstop run of bad ideas. There will not and should not EVER be a forced upgrade option for Bitcoin. Not today, not tomorrow, not a century from now. Your idea would be a "kill bitcoin" button available to anyone with the resources (either financial or through use of force) to push it.
That's not quite right D&T because we already have a forced upgrade situation imminent!
http://blockorigin.pfoe.be/top.php
When the percentage at the bottom of that screen goes from 78% to 95% then 5% of the hashing power is forced to upgrade or cast adrift.
However, IMHO, this is the only way Bitcoin can progress from a crypto-experiment to a world-beating currency and payments system.
That's why I said "not quite right" rather than flatly refute. There are a lot of perspectives to the argument.
Of course I reject forced changes of software as you (and whitenight) describe.