1: having expensive btc transaction fees makes me stronger to hold on to btc because I don't want to waste my money on expensive transaction fees.
Well, many see this as a problem while many see this as an opportunity for the holders to hold even more because of the expensive transaction fees.
However, I don't like the mindset where you will just only hold Bitcoin if the transaction fees are that high. I mean if you really want to hold Bitcoin, regardless of the transaction fees you will hold it. If you really want to sell your Bitcoin, then sell it if needed. Overall, regardless of the price of Bitcoin, I will not change my way of using BTC which is to spend regardless of the fees, and to hold it for long term.
2: my goal of investing in btc is for a long term investment so with expensive transaction fees
makes me stronger holding btc, because my goal is to invest in btc for the long term.
I just hope that you are stronger enough to hold your Bitcoin when the transaction fees of it goes down after a few months. Like you, many are holding Bitcoin for the long-term (including me), but like I said above, I will not change my way of using Bitcoin even though the fees are that high. It's good that you are buying Bitcoin for long term.
i want to hear your opinion,,,
and are you freaking out about the high btc transaction fees...?
but in my opinion if transacting btc it would be better to use a cheap transaction method.
I've seen this kind of scenario in 2017 where transaction fees of Bitcoin are very high. I was a newbie at that time, and I don't know what's happening, but looking at the fees at that time, I'm not surprised nor freaked out, and same here. At that time, I also saw the transaction fees going down after weeks and months, so I believe that it will happen again this time. They hype with regards to BRC-20 will go down as the days and weeks pass by. No need to freak out, and just focus on holding your Bitcoins.
If you really want to transfer coins, then like you said, I would suggest converting it into some trusted altcoins out there that has relatively lower transaction fees then transfer it.