In some parts of the world, discrimination on such matters is ongoing. There are still some areas where a woman faces social harassment for not getting married even after the age of thirty. I think everyone has their own reasons for their life choices and their marital status is no exception. It's not fair to judge or shame someone for deciding not to get married, and it's certainly not polite to pry into someone's personal life. People should be free to make their own decisions about their relationships and their future without fear of judgment or ridicule from others. Respect for each individual's personal preferences and privacy should always be a priority.
It is not everyone that will get married but in some areas it is like a tradition that a woman must get married in her middle 20's , if at this age no husband she will start feeling society pressure from her family and and friends and this becomes very serious issue for the woman . In my country marriage is seen to be huge achievement for ladies and when a woman has no husband the society read so may meaning why the woman is still single. 
Topic: women goes through a lot when they don't get married (Read 196 times)
Marrying quickly is not an obligation because marriage is allowed if you are mature in thought and mature, I think age is just a number not about ability. If the tradition in some families is just to fight over inheritance and fear of not getting a share it's funny, unless the inheritance is from her husband.
How can you be harmonious and focus on getting through old age with time together, of course it will focus on money.
Not all marriages lead to violent or abusive situations, depending on mutual understanding, love and filling in the gaps, when it comes to the potential for discord even single people can experience if things get out of hand.
Marriage will indeed get what rights between women and men, build cooperation under one roof, and make a sense of security, comfort and control together. If the dispute is okay as long as it is still a reasonable condition, and does not drag on in anger, marriage brings together two people with different mindsets, different communication and different in feeling a condition.
If you are forced to marry because of inheritance it is not good, also if you are forced not to marry because it is already there will also be no point, the world is beautiful if you are with the right person and are loved.
How can you be harmonious and focus on getting through old age with time together, of course it will focus on money.
Not all marriages lead to violent or abusive situations, depending on mutual understanding, love and filling in the gaps, when it comes to the potential for discord even single people can experience if things get out of hand.
Marriage will indeed get what rights between women and men, build cooperation under one roof, and make a sense of security, comfort and control together. If the dispute is okay as long as it is still a reasonable condition, and does not drag on in anger, marriage brings together two people with different mindsets, different communication and different in feeling a condition.
If you are forced to marry because of inheritance it is not good, also if you are forced not to marry because it is already there will also be no point, the world is beautiful if you are with the right person and are loved.
Marriage is a loving relationship that everyone desires. Only a few people alive today will tell you that they are not interested in marriage, but the vast majority of them are already planning to marry. Marriage is not something that can be forced; both parties must agree that they want to be joined as one.
How people treat women and how marriage treats women varies depending on their society, family, culture, and religion. The majority of the factors that shape the marriage play a significant role in how the woman is treated at home. If all of these factors have failed the woman, only her husband's character can save her marriage. I oppose abusive or maltreatment in marriage.
How people treat women and how marriage treats women varies depending on their society, family, culture, and religion. The majority of the factors that shape the marriage play a significant role in how the woman is treated at home. If all of these factors have failed the woman, only her husband's character can save her marriage. I oppose abusive or maltreatment in marriage.
Op marriage is not do or die something even the Holy Bible said it in the book of 1 Corinthians 7:8-9.it says " if you can control yourself and feeling then don't marry as he is but you can't then you can get married to avoid fornication. And in the Holy Bible Genesis chapter 2:18, and that interpreted that women are to assist their husband in all ramifications of life. Marriage is very important in some families and traditions. In some traditions if a woman is of the age to get married and she has not married then it becomes a taboo. And also child bearing is an another one.
When a woman got married and she could not bear a child then the boys family would not take it likely with the woman. But in some tribes of the girl is 50+ years and not yet married, it is not their business. Everyone focus mind their business and do their things.
When a woman got married and she could not bear a child then the boys family would not take it likely with the woman. But in some tribes of the girl is 50+ years and not yet married, it is not their business. Everyone focus mind their business and do their things.
Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
It's up to the woman, the woman's choice whether to marry or not. I also see many women who choose their career first rather than getting married right away, there are also those who want to grow old single because they prioritize helping their family more than themselves. There are people like this and my aunt is one of them. It's also not easy to find someone to marry now.
Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
Are we still living in those kind of times where woman depends too much on man?I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
They are already fighting for gender equality so I think staying single or unmarried is also their choice, woman who could support their own doesn't need to put up or stay in an abusive partner, for me those who choose to stay are either martyr or couldn't provide for their own.
Because if they could and they know their worth they would get out of that relationship no matter what.
Nowadays, or at least in the Western World getting married is not longer something which is tightly tired to cultural aspects or obligations which a woman is supposed to fulfill. Actually, I have seen some news articles claiming unmarried young women are happier because they can pursue careers and do other things which they would otherwise not be able to, though the authentizity of that information is a subject of debate, because I am sure there will be group of people in the same western republics which wont agree on the positive effects some women could experiment on delaying their marriage.
On the other hand, I believe men in the West are easier stigmatized when comes to being unmarried, there are some negative stereotypes applied to them which are very difficult to get rid of in the short term, people may tag them as undesirable, etc.
Nonetheless, I have also learnt marriage is more a serious business in countries like Nigeria and Africa in general, where such step of life is tightly associated with the local culture and whatnot. In the end, it is about doing what ones feels more comfortable with and the pursue of happiness.
On the other hand, I believe men in the West are easier stigmatized when comes to being unmarried, there are some negative stereotypes applied to them which are very difficult to get rid of in the short term, people may tag them as undesirable, etc.
Nonetheless, I have also learnt marriage is more a serious business in countries like Nigeria and Africa in general, where such step of life is tightly associated with the local culture and whatnot. In the end, it is about doing what ones feels more comfortable with and the pursue of happiness.
In my opinion, a lot of single ladies just have this mindset of not getting married and that's their choice, have seen a lot of them and they're doing well without a partner, talking about kids they're many means of getting kids now but still it's not advisable. From my observation seeing this type of ladies now seems rare cause everyone wants to get married and that's just the best, fear of what the society will say is nobody business and if a lot of people will have this same mindset the women who suffer from domestic violence will choose to end the marriage but still they decide to endure and suffer just because of the society and the end result is death.
The issue with gender discrimination is very common and a lot of independent women manage to escape from gender discrimination but it's best if everyone will be treated rightly and just.
The issue with gender discrimination is very common and a lot of independent women manage to escape from gender discrimination but it's best if everyone will be treated rightly and just.
There's a need for encouraging one another in life, some people can be doing something that is not right and yet they may not know until someone take their notice of such thing then they make a new turn on it, marriage is by privilege and determination as well, if a woman is set in for that and alligned herself towards the way such man can come into her life and ask for her hand in marriage, then she may not experience any difficult time before getting settled maritally in her life.
Not every part of the world has the same culture, some don't ask for possession of assets while some are mandatory like in Africa the groom has to give a certain number of cattle to the family of the bride to get married. So getting married becomes a stressful event for most of men too still we don't really care about those men and we tag them as unsuccessful or losers.
I don't think all women are meant to get married, there are insufficient numbers of men in the society because many of the men are in the prison and some are working hard to get a better lifestyle for themselves in the future. We need to understand that women are fragile and they needed to be treated well in the society but majority of the girls especially the ones that have no respect would never even care about what the society is taking about them.
There's a need for encouraging one another in life, some people can be doing something that is not right and yet they may not know until someone take their notice of such thing then they make a new turn on it, marriage is by privilege and determination as well, if a woman is set in for that and alligned herself towards the way such man can come into her life and ask for her hand in marriage, then she may not experience any difficult time before getting settled maritally in her life.
Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
Women are an integral part of the family without women the life of man is unimaginable. Just as a banyan tree shelters people under its shade, a woman tries to keep everyone in the family with her affection and love. Yet people still mistreat women in society. In our country we still have this practice where women are not given the highest status in the family but men are given the highest status in all aspects.In fact, women have no value in a male-dominated society.I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
But the government of our country has taken initiative few years back to give equal rights to women and men.Even it is slowly being implemented maybe one day in the future it will be fully implemented.
In some parts of the world, discrimination on such matters is ongoing. There are still some areas where a woman faces social harassment for not getting married even after the age of thirty. I think everyone has their own reasons for their life choices and their marital status is no exception. It's not fair to judge or shame someone for deciding not to get married, and it's certainly not polite to pry into someone's personal life. People should be free to make their own decisions about their relationships and their future without fear of judgment or ridicule from others. Respect for each individual's personal preferences and privacy should always be a priority.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
This is indeed one of the ugliest injustice that is done to women in some parts of the world especially in Africa, to be precise this ugly tradition still happens in my tribe. Women are not given anything from their father's inheritance, infact they're not even recognized in the sharing formula, only the male children have the right to receive inheritance. It is believed that female children will get married and belong to another family, therefore her inheritance will be in her husband's family. It is an achaich tradition that should be abolished, although some educated people are now writing wills, to ensure that their female children gets shares of their inheritance.
Another ugly tradition is if a widow doesn't have children or she has but there's no male child, the late husband's family will collect all her late husband's properties. Unless the woman is educated and fights for her right in court, she'd lose everything and only survive at their mercy.
Any woman that is of marriageable age and is still single doesn't get the respects that she deserves, although this trend is gradually fading as women are being more financially independent now.
Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
In which part of the world is this still happening? Things have changed now, people now decide if they want to be married or stay single for the rest of their lives and there are no big issues about it. There were times when divorce used to seem like an abomination, but now people even even celebrate being separated . All these cases have been made easy because the stereotypes have reduced and the stigma that comes with being unmarried or divorced too have reduced. All thanks to civilization that has made everyone believe in the equality of the man and the woman. What The people are more concerned with is how to develop themselves and control scarce resources at their disposal.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
Most women who remain in abusive marriages stay back because they have little or no means of survival if they leave. This explains why the financially buoyant women who are in abusive marriages choose divorce faster without looking back.
I would hazard a guess that its either or both the middle east, pakistan and India
(to be general)
I suspect that these societies still largely practice organised or arranged marriages.
In my country too women are free to choose who and when to marry, whether to
have a religious or civil marriage or decide no to at all, thats freedom end equality.
Marrying in order to have children, honestly the world needs less people, not more so I
dont care if people marry and dont have children or dont marry at all.
I am totally against religion anyway and totally for the abolition of some rules imposed
on people based on societal customs like marrying before or at an "optimal" child bearing age.
Anyone who is treating a woman that is not married badly in words or actions, has hatred for that woman in person and not because she is not married. Women can choose how they want to live their lives, either to get married or not. I have seen a lady that didn't get married because she feels that she don't need a man and wants to stay focus on her goal in life, saying that a marriage will be a distraction to her.
The only women that I will feel for are those that really wanted to get married but couldn't get married because of some challenges, still such people shouldn't be abused with that or treated badly because it might lead them to depression. It is good to value women the way that they are either single or married, because they need to be shown care.
If it is the property inheritance, l will blame the father for not writing a will and include the female children in the will. An educated man will always write a will on how his property will be shared and it stands as long as there is a lawyer involved.
The only women that I will feel for are those that really wanted to get married but couldn't get married because of some challenges, still such people shouldn't be abused with that or treated badly because it might lead them to depression. It is good to value women the way that they are either single or married, because they need to be shown care.
If it is the property inheritance, l will blame the father for not writing a will and include the female children in the will. An educated man will always write a will on how his property will be shared and it stands as long as there is a lawyer involved.
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I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.
That is the challenge of not getting married for a woman most times especially if she doesn't know her right and doesn't have worth or have not created value on herself. A woman that is independent and has a good source of living doesn't face such kind of treatment and that is changing also because the women folk are becoming wiser with feminism and gender equality advocacy. So many women are lawyers, doctors, nurses, engineers etc, so they can feed themselves even without men unlike in the past that they solely depended on men for survival.
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To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world, women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.
Even in those part of the world, things have changed and the women challenge certain segregation and disenfranchisement up to supreme court and get positive judgement that are changing the narratives.
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The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.
That was in the past as things have changed. Some women preach adoption alot especially those women from abusive homes, those that their fathers were abusive to them and their mothers. These women these days prefer not to stay under a man as husband that they are married to but prefer to cohabit and procreate after which they are at liberty to walk away. Some go straight for adoption if they have proved to have resources to take care of the child. So many things are changing and have changed even in Africa and other less technologically developed countinents.
I think the mentality concerning marriage is now completely different back from the days where marraiage is highly valued and currently where getting married is not even a priority anymore.
Now a man and woman can decide to come together and make babies, it's kind of a contract between them. The man pays for the woman to give birth to children after the deal is done they go separate ways.
Marriage is now and option, not necessarily for every woman as some choose to be single but have children which is not identified as marriage.
Now a man and woman can decide to come together and make babies, it's kind of a contract between them. The man pays for the woman to give birth to children after the deal is done they go separate ways.
Marriage is now and option, not necessarily for every woman as some choose to be single but have children which is not identified as marriage.
this came from the old ideology that women’s only purpose in life was to get married and produce offsprings which is very outdated women should be allowed to explore career options and they should not be limited to specific paths in life just based on their gender
many people view women as the carriers of children which is why they think it’s always a waste or a regret if a woman chooses not to get married or have children meanwhile if it was their male counterparts that are yet not married they would have been thought of as players and are cool and would not be as disrespected as women
not only unmarried women gets disrespected but also divorcees it is more often that the women in a broken marriage are blamed for not being able to keep a household together
i hope that we let women of today’s time choose whatever they want to do with their lives
many people view women as the carriers of children which is why they think it’s always a waste or a regret if a woman chooses not to get married or have children meanwhile if it was their male counterparts that are yet not married they would have been thought of as players and are cool and would not be as disrespected as women
not only unmarried women gets disrespected but also divorcees it is more often that the women in a broken marriage are blamed for not being able to keep a household together
i hope that we let women of today’s time choose whatever they want to do with their lives
The moral way out for women especially older ones who don't want to be married or can't get married is to break free from the world & its system and join the Right System... Once they do this they can now focus on serving their CREATOR unmarried (and as virgins) especially via spreading the gospel and converting souls to the system. They will also inherit all creations and have power over them... so, there will be no need to bother about inheritance anymore. They could also have their own home and probably have members, especially children to live with them and they will become their adopted mothers.
But if they want to marry(and it's willed for them to marry) but nobody wants them or they can't find the right man, they would eventually find men who love them or the right men they love in this System.
But if they want to marry(and it's willed for them to marry) but nobody wants them or they can't find the right man, they would eventually find men who love them or the right men they love in this System.
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