Topic: women goes through a lot when they don't get married - page 2. (Read 245 times)

Every one of us both male and female play a vital role in society and as long as we keep educating and training ourselves to discover how to live a better life and increase the mortality rate,  many times such discrimination between women and men come along religion and ethnic line of thought and many of such are just fallacy of ideas that seek to satisfy some selfish desires and greed worst still religious that allow such line of thought.

Both males and females have the same capacity to perform at the same level of frequency both physically and mentally,  what matters is the level of training given to both,  there is a popular saying in my region and tribe that goes that (what a man can do,  a woman can do it better).

I don't want to believe that the above speech is just a statement that has no meaning for for that I will say that those who view women as inferior are doing so based on their lack of knowledge of the capability of women.

It's about the religion, culture, and tradition of the family. While that's a sad truth that in some parts of the world, women are inferior and men are given more privilege as if they're kings of their lives. That's why there are many women's advocacies fighting for women's empowerment. Whilst some see it as something vague and odd.

But if you go around and see the real-life situation of many women, you'll get to understand what these people are fighting for. Even with all of these advocacies, they can't cover all of the violence against women because many places are too remote and we don't even know what actually is being done against them. And if you're a women and you're being buttered by your husband, why stay? Because of love? Because of your children? Usually the answer is about the children as they don't want to see their child grow up having no father.

We must also dig deep from talking about what make some women finds themselves into such situations when they are due for marriage but no one is coming for them for a hand in marriage, many of these women have the way they have lived their own youthful adulescent stage when men are tripping for so many of them but yet they are not giving room for a stable relationship or get serious about life all because they think they were already on top of the world, forgetting that age tells on women.

In which part of the world is this still happening? Things have changed now, people now decide if they want to be married or stay single for the rest of their lives and there are no big issues about it. There were times when divorce used to seem like an abomination,  but now people even even celebrate being separated . All these cases have been made easy because the stereotypes have reduced and the stigma that comes with being unmarried or divorced too have reduced. All thanks to civilization that has made everyone believe in the equality of the man and the woman.  What The people are more concerned with is how to develop themselves and control scarce resources at their disposal.



Most women who remain in abusive marriages stay back because they have little or no means of  survival if they leave. This explains why the financially buoyant women who are in abusive marriages choose divorce faster without looking back.

My dear feminists, what's your answer to this?

Any feminist activists spoke about this?

This has changed drastically but we can't say it doesn't exist anymore but this is a modern era where people choose to live their life as they wish because they got the freedom to do it. Some cultures are against it because after 40 the person who doesn't have a companion will feel lonely that is why marriages were a big deal in the past but I guess it doesn't anymore.

We should really take care of them because they are weak in terms of their emotions and most of the time they are not physically strong too. Some other men are wasting their chance to take good care of their women while others are dreaming of having those girls to take care of. on the other hand, women who didn't get the opportunity to get married are the loneliest and often have high tempers because of their life experiences. nevertheless, men should consider not hurting them in any way shape, or form especially those who are close to them, and when they are hurt by their words, they should not act recklessly by using their fists but instead try to understand them and just leave for a while. those women when they have their period are sensitive, so it's upon us to understand them every time.

Women' are different from men. Men can get married anytime and still be very fertile but when a woman gets to some certain age it is very difficult for them to get pregnant to bear children,  at this time they are scared when they think how life will be for them knowing that it is a thing 50/50. When it comes to child bearing women has the major to play , the joy of every married woman is to be able to give birth to children,  and they feel worried the most when things are not working for them.

These days it’s normal & acceptable for women to choose not to get married. Marriage is a personal choice & everyone has the right to decide what is best for them. In today's society there is a growing recognition & acceptance of diverse lifestyles & relationship choices. Women are increasingly pursuing their own goals, careers & personal fulfillment which may or may not include marriage. It is important to respect & support individual choices & prioritise the happiness & well being of women regardless of their marital status.

The concept of equality in society will be further enhanced as people become more ethical. Gender discrimination to show competition is the way that society in general has always viewed women of all genders towards the back of the family. Coincidentally, I just re-watched the movie "Barbie 2023" which has many themes that I find quite interesting with content about equality. When we realize that we are the ones who make the decision without depending on prejudice factors but it does not mean opposing, I believe that life will have many values that bring happiness.

With the story of people who are old enough to get married but not yet married, I think it will become more and more popular as women increasingly demonstrate their autonomy. Of course, there are still cases like the OP mentioned, but in my opinion, if that individual does better and is more in harmony with personal decisions, then the crowd's judgment will no longer have much meaning, but is merely a challenge for that individual. Even though I'm a man, I can also feel the feeling of being asked frequently about marriage stories, and actually, I sympathize with those who are perpetuating that prejudice. I personally also thought maybe I was living a selfish life, but actually, when I learn about many different things in life, it helps me realize that selfishness is because people don't understand each other, so they impose prejudices within their scope of understanding.

Is marriage a do or die afair? Because most culture and ways of life has made it look like it. women to a man is not just a companion but also a helper. In some part of the world it's a very big deal if a woman is not married when she is up to marriageable age, women goes through a lot in that aspect when not married, she will be talk down on, direspected, she will receive all manner's of insult just because she is not married.

I knew of a woman that in her family it's only her that didn't got married, she is being treated badly  even her household members, they always try to mock her at every slit opportunity, because she is more than 50years of age now.

To me the most ugliest part of it is that in some part of the world,  women are not given part of their inheritance, it's only the male child, they believe that woman will get married and have a new home.

The most painful part of it is even the ones that got married and found their self in an abusive marriage, will find it difficult to walk away because she doesn't want to stay unmarried. Please let's all of protect our women, they also have the right to live.