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newbie
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July 27, 2013, 12:17:32 PM
#29
And fourth, get a girlfriend. Too many people nowadays wait too long before they do so. Humans are happier when paired with other humans; this has been the case since we evolved. Careers shouldn't take precedence over family. Having a girlfriend also has the benefit of dispelling suspicion in other men.

This is awesome advice! +100000000!
hero member
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July 27, 2013, 09:49:08 AM
#28
First, cool down. You're fessing over what's really a non-issue. Most death threats are unfounded. Let him have some time to cool down, and then maybe you can work it out.

Second, report it to the police. Death threats are often serious crimes, and the police will deal with it. You're better off just ignoring things after that.

Third, don't just ignore the posts about getting more exercise. If you can, do. A more well-toned body has many benefits: higher metabolism, lower heart rates, and some studies even show that muscle mass correlates with happiness. Don't body-build to fight people, but do body-build to improve your health.

And fourth, get a girlfriend. Too many people nowadays wait too long before they do so. Humans are happier when paired with other humans; this has been the case since we evolved. Careers shouldn't take precedence over family. Having a girlfriend also has the benefit of dispelling suspicion in other men.

Training + girlfriend.

+1000 !!!

I would also like to add that, you don't have to 'bodybuild', but just focus on compound lifts (deadlift, squats, bench press, rows, chins, dips), eat well, and do some cardio - walks, jogging etc. It's a great lifestyle! You will feel better about yourself, you will become a mountain of a man!
donator
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Gerald Davis
July 26, 2013, 11:12:58 PM
#27
Really dree12?  A discussion?  Do you see the quote I responded to?  For fuck sake.  Nothing was being discussed when someone advises me to "stay happy, locked and loaded".   I mean the irony is you actually (indirectly) quoted it.  

Anyways to the OP sorry for derailing your thread.  I will delete all the posts.  The original one was intended as a piece of advice take it or leave it but obviously (not by the OP but others) that is simply verboten because it involves the private ownership of firearms (something which I guess only the state should have the right to).
legendary
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July 26, 2013, 11:05:02 PM
#26
First, cool down. You're fessing over what's really a non-issue. Most death threats are unfounded. Let him have some time to cool down, and then maybe you can work it out.

Second, report it to the police. Death threats are often serious crimes, and the police will deal with it. You're better off just ignoring things after that.

Third, don't just ignore the posts about getting more exercise. If you can, do. A more well-toned body has many benefits: higher metabolism, lower heart rates, and some studies even show that muscle mass correlates with happiness. Don't body-build to fight people, but do body-build to improve your health.

And fourth, get a girlfriend. Too many people nowadays wait too long before they do so. Humans are happier when paired with other humans; this has been the case since we evolved. Careers shouldn't take precedence over family. Having a girlfriend also has the benefit of dispelling suspicion in other men.
newbie
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July 26, 2013, 05:27:31 PM
#25
dogs that bark do not bite. From his reaction i think he is more afraid from you as you are from him

This is true. They're empty threats. But I'd take a screenshot of the message for "future reference".
legendary
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legendary
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July 26, 2013, 12:44:50 PM
#23

If you live in a country which has criminally deprived you of the human right of self defense ... well I am sorry.

Guns make very stupid pathetic little people disproportionately powerful and dangerous. I prefer a fistfight over a gun fight any day of the week and I'm not particularly large (a big disadvantage in fist fights).

I'm not saying that it should be banned btw (that is against my morals) I'm just not particularly thrilled with their existence. In my country far less than 1% of the population owns a gun.
hero member
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July 26, 2013, 12:10:25 PM
#22
Yup - the only way Americans seem to actually be able to communicate at all.

Yes, it's very sad.

Killing someone should be the absolute and last resort. Far too often, killing is done without a good reason. And killing is a non-reversible solution, and nothing to celebrate or aim for.

Having a weapon surely could be a good measure in terms of self defense, but regular exercise, and building some muscles will make you have better self esteem, and make you an overall stronger person, both in mind and body, so for the health benefits, it's advisable to exercise with weights.
legendary
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July 26, 2013, 11:11:58 AM
#21
Actually, I kind of do live in such a country. An assailant/thief could be robbing my house or endangering me, but if I shot him and killed him in self-defense, I will go to jail, even if it's a year or two.

In the US you can shoot someone in self-defense (after being beaten mercilessly) and almost go to jail and have people protesting and rioting because you were not prosecuted (Zimmerman case.)  We are not too far off from not being allowed to kill anyone I guess.
legendary
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Reverse engineer from time to time
July 26, 2013, 10:42:42 AM
#20
Actually, I kind of do live in such a country. An assailant/thief could be robbing my house or endangering me, but if I shot him and killed him in self-defense, I will go to jail, even if it's a year or two.
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July 26, 2013, 09:20:48 AM
#19
Funny story:

Once I walked on the street of a major capital of an European City. And in front of me, a lady walked with the most gorgeous ass I've ever seen. It was tight fitting jeans, she was slim and beautiful. I was in the right mood, so I walked right up to her and said:

"You have the most beautiful behind I've ever seen in my entire life, could I have your number, so we could meet up some day?"

Perhaps a weird thing to say, but at least I was dead honest. (lol)

She smiled, and was obviously flattered, and she gave me her number, and said she'd like to meet me sometime.

Then we exchanged a few sms'es for a few days, and all was swell - but then all of a sudden, I got a message from another number, saying something to the extent of: "Who are you, why are you messaging my girlfriend?".

It turns out that she had a boyfriend (which she never told me about), and he happened to read the messages between me and her on her phone. I didn't respond to his message. Later on I asked her about it on sms, and she apologized for him finding out, and that we needed to be careful and she could only respond when he wasn't around. She'd still like to meet me, but she needed to be careful because of the boyfriend.

Christ!

Then later I received a call from him. He said to me: Why are you texting my girlfriend, and who the hell are you? Where do you live? I want to come and talk to you!

He sounded quite agressive, and although his origin is not relevant for the story, I knew his kind - and didn't want to get much involved. I just told him I won't contact his gf again, and then texted her and said the same, and that was the end of the story.

The desire to tap her ass, was less than the desire to avoid violent conflict. He also said he would find my address (based on the phone number) and come to my house. Luckily my phone number was registered to an adress where I didn't live, so that treat wasn't something I was really afraid of.


Another story:

I was out once and met a girl, we had a good time at a night club, and I got her number, or so I thought. Anyway, the next day I sat on the bus, going to school or work (don't remember). I started to text her, and sent her several messages sounding something like:

"Hi babe, thanks for yesterday, it was great to be with you, and you're so sweet - and you were an excellent kisser"

"Call me as soon as you can, I want to meet you again soon, to be close to you!"

"You know you're the sexiest girl I know"

Probably a bit over the hill to send such messages already the next day, but I couldn't hold back at the time. Now, that kind of attention would probably scare her away anyway (because I acted like a psycho texting her numerous times), but to my big surprise, the phone suddenly called.

My heart jumped! She calls me already? That's super great! Remember I was sitting in the bus, and there was a lot of people around. So akwardly I picked up the phone and said: "Hello?"

A raging male voice in the other end said he was 100% uninterested in my nightly adventures, and whatever sweet names I wanted to call that girl, and whatever business she and me had together, he was completely uninterested, if I didn't stop right away to text him about my nightly romance, he would call the cops on me.

It was kind of embarassing, because he talked (screamed) so loudly that many passengers around me heard what he said, and started to chuckle. I just mumbled: Yes, I'm sorry - and sorry - will not text you again, it's a mistake and so on.

Turns out she'd given me a random number the night before. And this random number lead to that guy. And he probably got a lot of romantic messages while starting his day. I bet he was happy about that..
legendary
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July 26, 2013, 03:44:12 AM
#18
November I said show them your bitcoin wallet XD
But yes avoid jealous husbands with fire for all we know shes already cheating on someone and that's why the husband is raging defensive
legendary
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July 26, 2013, 03:39:05 AM
#17
My advice would be to just stay clear and forget about that woman. When a woman engages in a relationship with a psychopath or an unstable adult, that also speaks mountains about her ability to read  people. No matter how much you'd fancy her, just avoid her, and by time you will fancy another woman. There's many women available.


I can only fully underwrite this.


ya.ya.yo!
legendary
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July 25, 2013, 10:00:50 AM
#16
My advice would be to just stay clear and forget about that woman. When a woman engages in a relationship with a psychopath or an unstable adult, that also speaks mountains about her ability to read  people. No matter how much you'd fancy her, just avoid her, and by time you will fancy another woman. There's many women available.

I know you state you liked her before and not now, but the fact that you spoke to her, means you're still somewhat curious.

If you stay low, and forget about her, nothing will happen.


There's so many women in the world, and no woman is worth fighting over in my opinion.

Yes. This is good advice.

It seems some women are looking for "drama".  I can see your concern for her for sure.  It seems like this guy is a controlling jerk.  Also, I would be curious if the relationship started when she was a minor?  If she is as young as you say and is carrying his child?  But that said, I would just keep a distance.  One thing I have come to learn is that there are many people in the world with big problems and as much as I would like to help them I can only do so much.  It is often better just to avoid the situation otherwise we become tangled in the mess too.
hero member
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July 24, 2013, 08:14:46 AM
#15
My advice would be to just stay clear and forget about that woman. When a woman engages in a relationship with a psychopath or an unstable adult, that also speaks mountains about her ability to read  people. No matter how much you'd fancy her, just avoid her, and by time you will fancy another woman. There's many women available.

I know you state you liked her before and not now, but the fact that you spoke to her, means you're still somewhat curious.

If you stay low, and forget about her, nothing will happen.


There's so many women in the world, and no woman is worth fighting over in my opinion.
full member
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July 24, 2013, 04:31:28 AM
#14
you don't need strength to hit him hard in the private parts, right? Just attack first, GG WP.
legendary
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July 24, 2013, 02:37:32 AM
#13
Eat big, lift big. Get buff bro.
legendary
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Reverse engineer from time to time
July 23, 2013, 08:44:32 PM
#12
am pretty weak in terms of physical strength,

No worries, mate, we'll make a man out of anyone, son.

First things first, what's your current stats / training regime / nutrition plan.
Eat a lot, rest and sleep a lot, watch movies, gamble here and there, rinse and repeat.
hero member
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July 23, 2013, 06:27:35 PM
#11
am pretty weak in terms of physical strength,

No worries, mate, we'll make a man out of anyone, son.

First things first, what's your current stats / training regime / nutrition plan.
newbie
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July 23, 2013, 06:17:39 PM
#10
Doesn't seem like he's going to do anything, best to ignore him
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