I love to make transactions with XMR myself but I am not aware of any place I can pay with Moneros on stuff I need/want. I am not using drugs and not interested in child pornography.
Even bitcoins I am not using but simply storing for the future.
I am sure you will not make number of Monero transactions increase by huge % all alone. People will do it, the ones that will find Monero interesting or useful. It will happen over time slowly. In upcoming months years maybe even decades.
My point was direct solution on your problem. Let me repeat myself again. Only people using it more and transacting will move Moneros out of exchanges. By teh way. I dotn see any problem people holding wast amount of Moneros on exchanges. That makes Monero cheaper for everyone to buy and gives them more chances that someone hack those Moneros away from them. They will learn a valuable lesson this way.