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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling

In other words, make gambling just for fun, fun here does not mean not losing money because it is impossible not to lose money in gambling, but if gamblers can consider this as fun then it will not damage their finances which is very likely to happen because they want to recover their losses because they cannot accept it, so accept defeat like we accept victory so that we can stop at any time.
Exactly, some gamblers are only after accepting victory and not losses. This is where they are getting it all wrong about the concept of gambling, because it's for both profit an d loss. Therefore, those that cannot accept defeat because it will make them feel that they are weak or losers will continue chasing their losses because they fail to understand that losses is inevitable in gambling.
Absolutely.
Actually those gamblers that focuses on winning only are the type of gamblers that gamble for profits, so it's very hard for them to accept their losses. However, when a gambler have wagered and lose, he or she is supposed to know that gamble is not a game that will provide steady winning for them. A gambler can only win when he's lucky and when you are not 100% lucky there's no amount of try or hard works that will ever make you win. So the important knowledge a gambler should have is to know that gamble is for fun and also know the specific amount that they can afford to risk.
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When a gambler loses a lot of money by gambling, he naturally gets depressed because of that money and may make many wrong decisions at that time. 

After losing a large amount of money, the gambler should be given more support at that time so that he does not make any wrong decisions. And to the gambler I would at least advise him to stay away from gambling for a few months. Although it is difficult to decide to stay away from gambling after losing a lot of money, it is something every gambler should do for their own good and for the safety of their money. However, most gamblers do not do this, instead, when they lose a large amount of money, they bet more money, only to find that they later lost the amount they gambled with. So no decision can be taken out of anger or out of one's own emotions, decisions like this will always backfire.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
I think that everything is determined by the bet size, if you can determine for yourself a bet that cannot affect you in case of loss, then you need to stick to it and never increase it. If you play for fun, then in this case I admit that the bet size that can be comfortable for the average player can be about $ 5. This is enough for playing for fun and I think that losing such a bet will not be a problem for anyone. And if you manage to win in gambling, then you can increase the bet, but this is all under your responsibility.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling

In other words, make gambling just for fun, fun here does not mean not losing money because it is impossible not to lose money in gambling, but if gamblers can consider this as fun then it will not damage their finances which is very likely to happen because they want to recover their losses because they cannot accept it, so accept defeat like we accept victory so that we can stop at any time.
Exactly, some gamblers are only after accepting victory and not losses. This is where they are getting it all wrong about the concept of gambling, because it's for both profit an d loss. Therefore, those that cannot accept defeat because it will make them feel that they are weak or losers will continue chasing their losses because they fail to understand that losses is inevitable in gambling.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling

In other words, make gambling just for fun, fun here does not mean not losing money because it is impossible not to lose money in gambling, but if gamblers can consider this as fun then it will not damage their finances which is very likely to happen because they want to recover their losses because they cannot accept it, so accept defeat like we accept victory so that we can stop at any time.
Yes, lose in gambling will be too big if we lose control so we must know that is the time to stop gambling. We must leaves the casino immediately and not look back because that can makes us want to keep playing gambling and spend more money. We don't want to see more losses so we will decide to stop gambling and distract our minds from thinking about gambling.

We must use gambling just for fun to avoids the big lose. If we can treat gambling as an entertainment, we know that we will not takes too long to stay in the casino. We realize that if we stay too long in the casino, we will tempt to keep playing gambling and that means, we will spends more money and that can cause us lose too big.
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You made a very important points and I think if followed will really help in making someone that lost big to be calm however your advise about telling someone If you are telling someone it should be someone that is also a gambler and you know has lost big too such a person will strengthen you more because he has been in that situation before and with his words and advice you will be able to come out of that pain.
Someone that has faced a challenge and came out of it is the best to meet when you are facing same challenge.
You are absolutely right and I agree wit you, it is commonly said that iron sharpeneth iron, this simply means that it take a strong person to make another potential strong person strong.

Telling a non gambler, or someone who haven't really seen or experienced a great losses about your great losses only leads to being judged most of the time, you begin to hear them throw blames at you, call you a big fool for making such a mistake, all this; instead of showing empathy and saying things to help alleviate the pain and regret that is already built up inside the you (the gambler).

So, what you said is very true, it is better to keep ones problem to one's self if there are no worthy persons around to share such issue with.
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I am very simple:

1.-Accept,
2.-Don't stress.
3.-Don't blame yourself, it is inevitable.
4.-Don't think about getting revenge on the casino.
5.-Don't gamble as soon as you lose, thinking that you will recover what you lost.

If we comply with the 1st it is enough for anything, some people just leave and try again, and that should not be done, because it is losing more money, we must accept what happens, and if we are responsible people we must have enough money in our pocket to meet the demands of our daily life.


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You made a very important points and I think if followed will really help in making someone that lost big to be calm however your advise about telling someone If you are telling someone it should be someone that is also a gambler and you know has lost big too such a person will strengthen you more because he has been in that situation before and with his words and advice you will be able to come out of that pain.
Someone that has faced a challenge and came out of it is the best to meet when you are facing same challenge.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
I disagree because there are still gamblers out there that love gambling, but they still feel a bit of an upset because they lost money in gambling.

Maybe the difference between a gambling lover and not is that those gambling lovers already know what to do when they lose or win in gambling so they might feel a bit of an upset, but it's just temporary and as time pass by, they will just move on. Those who aren't gambling lovers will feel upset and might make unnecessary decisions after losing money. I agree with what you said though that gambling has more disadvantages than advantages (just based on my experience) and if you go and gamble, set your mind to a point where you will feel okay if you lose your money so that you might feel upset, but not for a long time.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
There's no certainty in gambling. If you're lucky, you'll win, if not, you'll lose. But never expect that gambling can bring you substantial profits consistently because the casino will definitely be against on it. Instead, play for fun and entertainment, making profits will only be a bonus if you're that lucky. That's the best way so you won't be disappointed with whatever the result of your betting.
When we do speak about gambling then results will never be known and it it will never be, the wrong thing about other people is that they do become that desperate because of the wrong hopes that they do have towards gambling. The bad thing about is that on the moment that they do become that experiencing up some winning then they do become greedy and on the moment that they do lose up money then this is the time that they do really that chasing up that loses on which this will really be resulting for them to lose even more. When you are losing then always better to consider on stopping than on depositing even more. People do mess up their lives because of such bad situation.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling

In other words, make gambling just for fun, fun here does not mean not losing money because it is impossible not to lose money in gambling, but if gamblers can consider this as fun then it will not damage their finances which is very likely to happen because they want to recover their losses because they cannot accept it, so accept defeat like we accept victory so that we can stop at any time.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
There's no certainty in gambling. If you're lucky, you'll win, if not, you'll lose. But never expect that gambling can bring you substantial profits consistently because the casino will definitely be against on it. Instead, play for fun and entertainment, making profits will only be a bonus if you're that lucky. That's the best way so you won't be disappointed with whatever the result of your betting.
Never ever expect that in gambling. That's correct.

I think many gamblers now have that kind of expectation because they are shown that they can win big in their initial bets. That's a trap. Just think about it, why are there so many gambling sites being created right now? That just means the business is good in gambling and all they have to do is invest some money in making a gambler win on his initial bets and then they will start losing once they continue playing.
We should be wise on making decisions in gambling, after a win we could always walk out because there's nothing they can do about it unless they will keep us due to lack of wagering requirement.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
There's no certainty in gambling. If you're lucky, you'll win, if not, you'll lose. But never expect that gambling can bring you substantial profits consistently because the casino will definitely be against on it. Instead, play for fun and entertainment, making profits will only be a bonus if you're that lucky. That's the best way so you won't be disappointed with whatever the result of your betting.
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It is people who is not a lover of gambling that will be upset whenever they lose in gambling and you should know that the gambling has advantages and they disadvantages and the disadvantages in gambling is higher than the advantages so I want us to understand such thing knowing that in gambling you can make money and they also in that money you can lose so when you lose in gambling you don't need to think otherwise and you don't need to regret participating in gambling knowing that it is a game of opportunity and we cannot be opportune to win gambling frequently so when you lose continue to attempt one day you might win on the recover everything that you have lost in gambling
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Take a break.
This is very important. He should even quit gambling for many months or for like a year. He should start to gamble again, but with little amount of money. The money should not be more than 1% of his weekly income. If he sees himself still addicted, he should stop gambling again. This was how I overcame gambling addiction. He should not see gambling as a means of making money will help in stoping gambling addiction.
Actually, willpower is the biggest thing. If you do not have willpower, then you cannot get out of any addiction by doing anything. You had enough willpower, due to which you were able to overcome the addiction to gambling very easily. But yes, if someone keeps thinking about that loss after a big loss and keeps participating in one gambling game after another, then he may be addicted to gambling. He should definitely take a rest after a big loss. If necessary, he should refrain from gambling for some time and even then, if he wants to participate in gambling, he should participate in gambling with a very small amount of money just for entertainment, but I think it is better for him not to participate in gambling at that time. He should focus on religious work and play games with friends in the field for entertainment.

I think it's because they actually lack the will powers thats why its called an addiction moreover i believe only a few percentage of gamblers actually save themselves from the problems they face with gambling.  Addiction is better delt with when you have other things that fills up that space and for many gambling is what keeps them driving which if you are that type then it would be definitely hard for you to keep up or stop yourself.
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Take a break.
This is very important. He should even quit gambling for many months or for like a year. He should start to gamble again, but with little amount of money. The money should not be more than 1% of his weekly income. If he sees himself still addicted, he should stop gambling again. This was how I overcame gambling addiction. He should not see gambling as a means of making money will help in stoping gambling addiction.

Taking a break gives you time to get yourself together and pick up the pieces of the damages done or caused by gambling. Taking a break can actually save you from a lot of potential problems, instead of chasing your losses after losing take a break temporarily or permanently. This would give you the time you need to strategize. Gambling with not more than 1 percent of your income too isn't a bad idea, this is actually risk management and it would help you to reduce your losses. People put in to much hope in gambling that's why they stake irresponsibly.
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You are actually right mate. This is where most gamblers do miss it and eventually end up becoming broke. Gambling is risky we know, as it's a game of luck but don't let it become a game of losing strick. When you encounter major losses, you try your best to close for the day. Don t go on revenging as this will only lead to even !ore loss. In times like this, I guess this is where you have to follow your gambling plans and strategy to manage your risk. Don't over gamble, once you make loss, take some time off and give it a break this way you will be able to minimize your risk.

I agree with what you say, whenever you start losing is better to call it a day. Let me ask, if you do gamble you must have encounter this, haven't you for ones when gambling and losing you try to go or stop gambling and you hear one crazy voice telling you that you should try this last time that you will win, like do you know if this is the one you'd win and recover you loss? Haven't heard that voice telling you things like that before?
Is never easy to stop gambling except you have someone who doesn't know how to gamble by your side to drag you out when things are getting out of hand, that can help you if you're not strong headed. I also don't think having a gambling plan do help like you said, but sometimes we can go against our plans or strategies just because we are desperate to get back our money.
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Take a break.
This is very important. He should even quit gambling for many months or for like a year. He should start to gamble again, but with little amount of money. The money should not be more than 1% of his weekly income. If he sees himself still addicted, he should stop gambling again. This was how I overcame gambling addiction. He should not see gambling as a means of making money will help in stoping gambling addiction.
Actually, willpower is the biggest thing. If you do not have willpower, then you cannot get out of any addiction by doing anything. You had enough willpower, due to which you were able to overcome the addiction to gambling very easily. But yes, if someone keeps thinking about that loss after a big loss and keeps participating in one gambling game after another, then he may be addicted to gambling. He should definitely take a rest after a big loss. If necessary, he should refrain from gambling for some time and even then, if he wants to participate in gambling, he should participate in gambling with a very small amount of money just for entertainment, but I think it is better for him not to participate in gambling at that time. He should focus on religious work and play games with friends in the field for entertainment.
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You are right, whatever the situation whether winning or losing then it is better to stop with the aim of calming down. Also, don't forget to do research first so that we don't have the wrong mindset in responding to gambling.

Refreshing your session either you are in the winning side or in the losing will keeps you away from exceeding to your set limitation, as long as you are capable to control your emotion you have a good glimpse of preventing yourself getting addicted, it's always your choice and your own will that's why most of those who got addicted are people who unable to think clearly those who intend to win more but unfortunately they end up losing as they can't control their own greed.
It all comes back to how we manage our emotions and the responsibility we have in gambling because in the end it all comes back to that regardless of whether we are winning or losing everything will be the same where self-control becomes an important factor to have in the end.

Sometimes this becomes a crucial situation because in the end before stopping there is always a conflict within ourselves especially when we are winning a lot or losing a lot which is because when we lose we will definitely not feel satisfied when stopping and when we win with a large amount we always assume that there will be another bigger win waiting so in the end there is always a conflict with this. But this is precisely what should be underlined that greed will not have a good impact especially in gambling, so when our control weakens as much as possible we must make some differentiators so that we stay awake from activities that are beyond expectations and so that we remain in healthy gambling where we can take a responsible attitude in it.


Thats right,  deciding is tough when you are engaged too much, both sides have impact with how you decide either you are in the winning side or in the losing side you always have that reason to continue and seek to paly more, though if you managed to limit yourself and control every emotions that you have chances that you may able to cope up and make yourself free from stress as you can make a full stop without hesitation, each individual have their own interpretation and understanding regarding to how they'll going react in each situation that they're facing.
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Personally, we don’t need those five steps. The simplest thing we can do is accept and move on—period.

Why do so many of us struggle to handle losses? It’s because we expect too much and are always focused on winning. But if we change our mindset from simply enjoying ourselves to gambling, no matter what the outcome is, we can handle it without any negativity.

Unfortunately, the real thing is that most people, especially beginners, don’t fully understand what this is all about. That is why my advice to anyone wanting to try gambling is to learn and educate yourself first. That way, you won’t end up with regrets later.
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