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legendary
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October 23, 2018, 03:27:18 AM
#50
Sometimes, it just only takes something to draw us back, as so many people know they are addicted, but their actions is just something they could not help, but having something to draw your attention to the negativity of what you are doing, and then not being able to access some funds will limit you by force and that is the idea, but really, you have to want it.
That is the real catch here. Without the real interest from the addicted gambler, no thing could bring differences with them. They must need the recovery from their heart not just in words for the sake of others compulsions. Most of the times, addicted gamblers do join into rehabilitation centers with no actual interest and then never finding any differences in their hunger to continue gambling.

In my view a new habit which should be chosen by the addicted gambler by his own interest and then the external help from friends and family may bring the desired results. OP's case must be good lesson from many fellow gamblers here but unfortunately we, the gamblers are not recalling these scenarios at the right/required timing. Forgetting most useful things at most wanted times, is major problems for most of the people across globe.
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October 23, 2018, 03:06:10 AM
#49
Yes, to give up the habits that probably stop them into addictive on that gambling and accept the reality that gambling won't help them anymore and need to stop.
They do know about the reality and they do realize that the addiction is destroying them. But they fail to take any action regarding it. Observing something and intervening into it are two different things. With time every gambler realizes that they are not going to be able to "beat the house" because nobody has done so without cheating. But to stop themselves from gambling is another question.

They helped me overcome my addiction and it is thanks  to my wife and my family.
Having someone watch over you is good to keep your habits under control. Thats why every man needs a woman to help them through life. Cheesy
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October 22, 2018, 01:09:02 AM
#48
Various ways for someone to overcome their addiction. Actually all depends on our intentions, you can limit the number of your bets every day. if the allotment of bets has expired, you should stop not forcing to play again because it will make your money run out.

Making limitations is the good way we can do to prevent from losing big money although it does not always work especially if we can win much money. But at least, we know when the time to quit playing gambling so we can leave the places. And with that app from the banks, I think it can help us not to spend much money, and besides that, we can learn about how to manage our time in gambling games so we can leave the game in the right time.
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October 21, 2018, 08:13:26 AM
#47
Various ways for someone to overcome their addiction. Actually all depends on our intentions, you can limit the number of your bets every day. if the allotment of bets has expired, you should stop not forcing to play again because it will make your money run out.
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October 21, 2018, 03:55:10 AM
#46
Acceptance is the first step to any cure of the problem. Till the time one do not start admitting the solutions will not be the boon for that person. Admitting also help the person to realize that some went wrong and need to work so that in order to come out of it and never repeat the same mistake again.

But only acceptance wont help. The person needs to be determined and willing to give up their habits for the better future - for themselves and their family future. Many gamblers do realize the effect that it has on them but few fail to take action. They go into a depressed state where they start doing things that normal humans are not expected to do.

Those who do change or start to change their habits are the ones who need help of such features. For them regular swaying of the mind away from the thoughts of gambling is necessary to break the vicious cycle.

If you know that you are addicted into gambling or anything, maybe on drugs or other things, you should really admit it to yourself since you will not have the will or the determination to push yourself out of that addiction. In the past, I am so close from being addicted into gambling, I am so lucky I have my wife watching over me, admits that I am using our money into gambling and will change for our children's future. They helped me overcome my addiction and it is thanks  to my wife and my family. It is not easy to stop your addiction, there will come a time that even if you are stopping yourself from gambling, you are more getting addicted to it.
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October 21, 2018, 03:47:36 AM
#45
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction

I agree. This is the reason why a lot of people are addicted to gambling and no one is stopping them making them more plunged through in to that addiction and people around them is not giving them some determination, some ray of light that can help them to save that one certain gambler. There are a lot of gambler out there that can't be stopped from gambling but we are mistaken that they can't stop, we can make them stop if we have the determination to do that so. That is also what they need to be given, determination to stop and not determination to gamble more.

In fact people will just learn when they already loss a lot and will realize that they turning to someone that they didn't know. Gambling addiction had ruined their lives and they'll wake up one morning even their love ones were gone. Only that person can change his attitude in life thus nobody can help him if he doesn't help his self the other way.
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October 21, 2018, 01:35:10 AM
#44
Acceptance is the first step to any cure of the problem. Till the time one do not start admitting the solutions will not be the boon for that person. Admitting also help the person to realize that some went wrong and need to work so that in order to come out of it and never repeat the same mistake again.
But only acceptance wont help. The person needs to be determined and willing to give up their habits for the better future - for themselves and their family future. Many gamblers do realize the effect that it has on them but few fail to take action. They go into a depressed state where they start doing things that normal humans are not expected to do.

Those who do change or start to change their habits are the ones who need help of such features. For them regular swaying of the mind away from the thoughts of gambling is necessary to break the vicious cycle.
Yes, to give up the habits that probably stop them into addictive on that gambling and accept the reality that gambling won't help them anymore and need to stop. And think that gambling may destroy their lives in the future if they continued chasing there lose in gambling.
Before you embrace gambling on your self just think it twice and putting limitation your self. Indeed I agree on this post.
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October 21, 2018, 12:56:37 AM
#43
Acceptance is the first step to any cure of the problem. Till the time one do not start admitting the solutions will not be the boon for that person. Admitting also help the person to realize that some went wrong and need to work so that in order to come out of it and never repeat the same mistake again.
But only acceptance wont help. The person needs to be determined and willing to give up their habits for the better future - for themselves and their family future. Many gamblers do realize the effect that it has on them but few fail to take action. They go into a depressed state where they start doing things that normal humans are not expected to do.

Those who do change or start to change their habits are the ones who need help of such features. For them regular swaying of the mind away from the thoughts of gambling is necessary to break the vicious cycle.
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October 21, 2018, 12:07:50 AM
#42
One of the ways to fight gambling addiction is admitting that there is a problem for a start. Its until when that happen no matter the method recommended, it will still not be effective. The app only came in handy when the individual concerned is already making frantic effort to quit and when there is a relapse, it came as a way to ensure that control is there to exercise some restraint. With constant conscious effort to quit gambling, it will surely materialise.

Acceptance is the first step to any cure of the problem. Till the time one do not start admitting the solutions will not be the boon for that person. Admitting also help the person to realize that some went wrong and need to work so that in order to come out of it and never repeat the same mistake again.


I agree. Acceptance if the first step of getting out of addiction and even problems in your life. Admitting the fact that you did a lot of mistakes and being addicted to gambling is the worst of them all.

Let the people that care for you knows that you are having a problem, they are the first ones you should talk too. After that, people would be having a time talking to you, consoling you what to do and what can be done to your addiction. If that is still worst, you need a professional to cure your addiction. Addiction is a mental disorder, it is really needed to be treated.
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October 20, 2018, 11:45:13 PM
#41
One of the ways to fight gambling addiction is admitting that there is a problem for a start. Its until when that happen no matter the method recommended, it will still not be effective. The app only came in handy when the individual concerned is already making frantic effort to quit and when there is a relapse, it came as a way to ensure that control is there to exercise some restraint. With constant conscious effort to quit gambling, it will surely materialise.

Acceptance is the first step to any cure of the problem. Till the time one do not start admitting the solutions will not be the boon for that person. Admitting also help the person to realize that some went wrong and need to work so that in order to come out of it and never repeat the same mistake again.
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October 20, 2018, 10:57:52 PM
#40
One of the ways to fight gambling addiction is admitting that there is a problem for a start. Its until when that happen no matter the method recommended, it will still not be effective. The app only came in handy when the individual concerned is already making frantic effort to quit and when there is a relapse, it came as a way to ensure that control is there to exercise some restraint. With constant conscious effort to quit gambling, it will surely materialise.
I think when that certain person learns what he is currently going through and starts accepting who he is and what he has done, that's definitely a good start for him. Just like you said, when a person admits, it will truly change the way he sees the world, it's a different lens now. I don't think that is not going to be effective, but it would counteract the easy way to get money, so at least you have a security barrier and remind you that you are stopping a bad habit from forming anymore. It's easy to say but hard to do, that's what everyone is saying, and until you show them how you do it, then other people will be amazed and admire you for that.
legendary
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October 20, 2018, 02:59:28 AM
#39
The easiest way to stop someone from gambling is to block his account. Of course not all of us keep everything on a bank account. Many people have cash and in my case there's more cash. Cutting the money flow won't help much if the the gambler doesn't want to change. He'll use all his cash, go to his boss and request to be paid in cash from now on, he'll sell his car, take a loan. He'll do anything to get more money just like drug addicts are ready to prostitute themselves to get high.
That is like trying to stamp on the will of the person. It is a free world and everyone is free to choose what they want to do which is even why the app the OP mentioned was not even imposed on anyone; you just have to make that decision to choose to want it.

Sometimes, it just only takes something to draw us back, as so many people know they are addicted, but their actions is just something they could not help, but having something to draw your attention to the negativity of what you are doing, and then not being able to access some funds will limit you by force and that is the idea, but really, you have to want it.
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October 19, 2018, 08:40:13 AM
#38
One of the ways to fight gambling addiction is admitting that there is a problem for a start. Its until when that happen no matter the method recommended, it will still not be effective. The app only came in handy when the individual concerned is already making frantic effort to quit and when there is a relapse, it came as a way to ensure that control is there to exercise some restraint. With constant conscious effort to quit gambling, it will surely materialise.
legendary
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October 19, 2018, 04:25:21 AM
#37
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction

I agree. This is the reason why a lot of people are addicted to gambling and no one is stopping them making them more plunged through in to that addiction and people around them is not giving them some determination, some ray of light that can help them to save that one certain gambler. There are a lot of gambler out there that can't be stopped from gambling but we are mistaken that they can't stop, we can make them stop if we have the determination to do that so. That is also what they need to be given, determination to stop and not determination to gamble more.
Strong determination is one thing that matters a lot when it comes to quitting any form of addiction. Even after some people end up getting sober for a while, the chances of still getting to go back and give it a try will always be there, be it, gambling, meth, alcohol, hard drugs, and name them.

It only take the idea of having something that would really put you in check and at the same time, you telling yourself enough is enough, is one thing that would always help you when it comes to curbing gambling addiction or any form of addiction at all.
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October 18, 2018, 06:56:46 AM
#36
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction

I agree. This is the reason why a lot of people are addicted to gambling and no one is stopping them making them more plunged through in to that addiction and people around them is not giving them some determination, some ray of light that can help them to save that one certain gambler. There are a lot of gambler out there that can't be stopped from gambling but we are mistaken that they can't stop, we can make them stop if we have the determination to do that so. That is also what they need to be given, determination to stop and not determination to gamble more.
legendary
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October 18, 2018, 06:13:24 AM
#35
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction, if a person who is seriously addicted to gambling does not even have a strong perseverance and determination to quit gambling, I believe this banking app would not be able to help much too. This story shows how scary it is when someone became seriously addicted to gambling, they could end up paying debts for their whole life due to their gambling addiction, and basically their life would be ruin if they are not able to step out from it.

I kinda agree with this, there definitely needs to be a strong will to quit their addiction, otherwise they'll just find other ways to get money.
When you're a real gambling addict, you need the help from your family/partner as well to help you manage your money.

An addict will do whatever he/she can to get more money. They'll lie, steal or find money somehow and this banking app wouldn't stop them if they really wanted to get their hands on money.
That said, I do think it can be a very helpful tool for someone who's determined to quit gambling.
Yeah, quitting gambling is actually not an easy task on its own for someone who is addicted, so we have to take that into consideration and to have gotten to that stage, one way or the other for the person, there must have been a moment that would have really taken them aback to check on their life and see that things are not actually going right and in this case, this guy mentioned the death of his mother was the major factor that even sprouted it in him.

However just like barcode said, it is still all about the strong determination and I agree with what you said that an addict will always go to any length to just want to satisfy that urge, which I believe even as much as this tool can be helpful, it would take the person to even be ready to want to help him or herself.

I kinda changed my mind on what I said earlier, thinking of a similar situation with an acquaintance of mine.

Some people can actually get rid of their addiction themselves, with the help of tools like the banking app OP mentioned.
I'd even say they would come out stronger than those who've relied on much outside help to get rid of their addiction.

I do think that even hardcore addicts can get so sick and tired of their addiction, that they manage to deal with it themselves.

Now, I am in no way saying that getting external help isn't the right move, just that it isn't the only option that works for some people.
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October 13, 2018, 02:14:08 PM
#34
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction, if a person who is seriously addicted to gambling does not even have a strong perseverance and determination to quit gambling, I believe this banking app would not be able to help much too. This story shows how scary it is when someone became seriously addicted to gambling, they could end up paying debts for their whole life due to their gambling addiction, and basically their life would be ruin if they are not able to step out from it.
Yes. From the look of things actually, you can only request for the application being used on your account if you really feel you want it and it is not like it is imposed on anyone, so in a way, that strong determination is something that would really come in handy to be able to want to quit.

The problem most of the time is people actually want to get help, but the fact that they are addicted and they cannot easily get something to hold them back most of the time when the addiction comes calling, is something that can be a whole lot challenging which is why I believe it is reasonable for a gambler to know he is already on a wrong path and then be willing to change as well.

Gambling addiction will surely blind us on telling that we are already on a wrong path and this is actually the hardest part quitting gambling addiction in a snap is possible but just only after when you experience terrible situation but why we would like to wait for that thing to happen if we can able to avoid it on earlier time.Its just really a matter of a certain person on how sensible he is when it comes to things.Self realizations and good observance on your own actions.
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October 13, 2018, 02:04:30 PM
#33
The easiest way to stop someone from gambling is to block his account. Of course not all of us keep everything on a bank account. Many people have cash and in my case there's more cash. Cutting the money flow won't help much if the the gambler doesn't want to change. He'll use all his cash, go to his boss and request to be paid in cash from now on, he'll sell his car, take a loan. He'll do anything to get more money just like drug addicts are ready to prostitute themselves to get high.
legendary
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October 13, 2018, 03:54:06 AM
#32
After reading this article, I would say the main character mentioned in this article does have strong determination to fight against his own gambling addiction, if a person who is seriously addicted to gambling does not even have a strong perseverance and determination to quit gambling, I believe this banking app would not be able to help much too. This story shows how scary it is when someone became seriously addicted to gambling, they could end up paying debts for their whole life due to their gambling addiction, and basically their life would be ruin if they are not able to step out from it.
Yes. From the look of things actually, you can only request for the application being used on your account if you really feel you want it and it is not like it is imposed on anyone, so in a way, that strong determination is something that would really come in handy to be able to want to quit.

The problem most of the time is people actually want to get help, but the fact that they are addicted and they cannot easily get something to hold them back most of the time when the addiction comes calling, is something that can be a whole lot challenging which is why I believe it is reasonable for a gambler to know he is already on a wrong path and then be willing to change as well.
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October 12, 2018, 08:29:50 AM
#31
Interesting article. This shows that gamblers can beat gambling addiction in different ways. The gambler on the article has removed his addiction into gambling thru an banking app.

For me, I think the best way to prevent gambling addiction is not to gamble itself. In that way, you can prevent being addicted into it Smiley/
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