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December 22, 2023, 02:52:17 AM
#22
The reason why some newbies don't give up easily in the forum, they feel people in the forum will laugh at them, not knowing that they are trying to correct he or she to learn more so that he or she will use the same knowledge to correct someone that will argue for such thing in the future. The reason why some senior members don't allow newbies to correct them in the forum, because they feel they know more than them, not knowing that sometimes students use to correct their lecturers in the classroom but that one doesn't mean the students know more than the lecturers in that particular course. Well, this is a good advice that will make many newbies to accept their mistakes and move on without trying to defend themselves in a wrong way.
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December 22, 2023, 02:13:26 AM
#21
No one is perfect and everyone will like to prove a point where they feel they’re knowledgeable about or thinks that they’re right in that aspect. The best of all is the one that listens to the criticism and do more research on what the other person is wronging him about, with that, he/she can then certain if their point is right or wrong.

There is nothing wrong if you are not agreeing with someone’s view, just be sure of your point and that you’re not misleading those coming to read your comments. Just know that sometimes, silence is the best teacher. There is a lot of things to learn in that. Always do your research before accepting or coming to a conclusion.
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December 21, 2023, 08:29:44 PM
#20
I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise.
This truth is beneficial for us to be obedient to any corrections they may try to give us. However, it is not a good idea to argue with them because some of us know that what they are trying to do is wrong and they want to argue that no one can correct them.

To honestly they didn't know that mistakes are opportunities for growth and learning therefore, let's be the kind of people who will accept corrections from others. We shouldn't take pride in our ability to correct others, in order for everyone to live in harmony, we must be able to live in harmony.
legendary
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December 21, 2023, 08:14:42 PM
#19
Everyone makes mistakes - nobody is perfect, so take anything someone tells you on here with a grain of salt. Do your research and double-check where they got their facts. Make sure that self-proclaimed expert is legitimate before believing everything they say.

I mean, we are all just people on here sharing ideas and trying to help each other out the best we can. But all of us make mistakes from time to time. Just keep an open, but skeptical mind with anything someone presents as the truth. Do your own digging and decide for yourself instead of just taking some random person's word for it. Even the experts on here can be wrong sometimes.
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December 21, 2023, 07:31:11 PM
#18
We are not all the same. We’ve got different minds and characters and we can’t always expect the next person to behave and think the way you do. That’s just the way it is.
We all have pride and egos within us and would argue rather blindly/ignorantly for what we believe to be true. No one knows it all and we all make mistakes every now and then. The best anyone can do is to have an open mind, try in learning new things and to be able to change your opinions on several things.

We should realize that we can be wrong sometimes and should be bold enough to admit it. Only then, would we have the desire to make changes and learn.

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December 21, 2023, 06:40:46 PM
#17
It applies to everyone. If you've been caught yourself and realized that you're wrong, it's not going to hurt you to apologize with your mistake.

And if someone is wrong, if they don't want to admit their fault, it's on them but it's like this. Always be the better person. Regardless of the arguments whether it's related to crypto, trading, Bitcoin, etc.

Just pay respect to everyone regardless of the ranks.
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December 21, 2023, 06:33:15 PM
#16
I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..

A good advice indeed for not just beginners here in this forum but to the general forum members who always think the are right even when they are wrong. Some members in this forum have that habit of arguing with other forum users even when they are wrong, instead of admitting and learn the right thing.

For Newbies, always stay focus to learn new things, focus on taking corrections and avoid arguments. Blind argument is not good, learn from even people that criticize you since your primary aim is learn.

Also ask questions when the need arise.
legendary
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December 21, 2023, 06:32:19 PM
#15
Newbies/beginners and senior colleagues too do make this mistake of arguing with people in conversations that are not worth arguing about. Instead of responding to some quote where you were corrected you can just learn and remain silent than make some blind arguments that can lead to more wilder conversation that will either be out of point from the actual discussion.
Most times I see people creating enemies for themselves because they want to prove a point that they know some bull shit.

It would be much better to appreciate the account that corrected us.  We must be open-minded and welcome corrections instead of arguing supporting our wrong understanding.  This way we won't be embarrassing ourselves and avoid being labeled as stubborn/idiot.  

I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..

To do this kind of act need a humble and open mind.  I also seen several members of this forum trying to make their way out of the mistakes or misunderstandings they had just to justify they were correct instead of welcoming the correction of other people.  So yeah I support your idea of accepting and respecting, would be better if we appreciate people who are correcting us regardless of the tone of their statement.
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December 21, 2023, 05:47:56 PM
#14
Corrections are made to create a positive purpose, so you won't creating the same mistakes again. But if you are the type of person who will defend yourself and make argument, rather than simply accept the correction, then you should not be part of this forum. This forum promotes harmonious relationship between all members, so if you are not responsible to do your part, better leave the forum in silence.

My advice is just learn from every member in the forum and give respect regardless of the rank or position. One is not better than the other, as there's no competition inside the forum.
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December 21, 2023, 05:31:31 PM
#13
You know the old saying - "A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them."  Learning from mistakes is a huge part of growing as a person and professional.  It's real easy to get all defensive when someone calls you out, but it takes some maturity to take criticism and use it to get better. 

Like you said sometimes new folks and even experienced peeps fall into just arguing to argue.  That's a waste of time and leads to fights over nothing.  Instead of trying to be right about everything, we should keep an open mind to pick up new stuff from others.  We're here to learn from each other and share what we know, so we should focus on keeping a positive vibe for everyone.
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December 21, 2023, 05:24:53 PM
#12
Instead of responding to some quote where you were corrected you can just learn and remain silent than make some blind arguments

A legendary member on this forum actually told me something like this while I was also new here, and I can say that I actually had good guidance from topics that were created by other members too, just like this one. By the way, what would be the essence of arguing on a topic that the newbie or X member knows they are not knowledgeable enough about? When I started on the forum, there were different topics created every day here, and sometimes before I can provide a very reasoned answer to a question I am not familiar with, I will need to do some quick research. Sometimes I still end up providing a very inaccurate answer that I get corrected by another user, which in turn earns merit.

 Instead of arguing foolishly, it's just better to look and learn, or perhaps say thanks, or just take note and move on.

I hope that many people will read and learn from what you have said, although I don't frequently read such arguments  Undecided.
sr. member
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December 21, 2023, 05:23:17 PM
#11
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I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..



why should you think that a debate is useless, in fact a debate is proof that we have different thoughts and need agreement between many parties to determine this option is the best of the best. A debate is considered rubbish if one of the parties feels offended and uses expletives at members who have different opinions from them. In many topics that I pay attention to, there are some members who are a little annoying because of their opinions which they continue to force to be accepted by other people and to be honest, that is something that is actually not allowed.
BTT is also an open forum for the public, it is natural that there are many differences of opinion that arise here, those who are wise will definitely accept these differences while those who are childish will be offended by these differences.
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December 21, 2023, 04:12:29 PM
#10
Well, some forum members do make mistakes therefore another forum member can correct that person and didn't even see, check or even understand the point that the forum member is trying to tell. Some get affected and as you have said an argument but I wouldn't really call it argument as this forum allows people to express their idea, point or corrections and not about letting others know about you being knowledgeable or a least you know something. Others are just trying to make it complicated because if being a participant in a signature campaign.
legendary
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December 21, 2023, 04:03:35 PM
#9
I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..
Well if a nebwie got a point and a senior one argue with it some might butt in to check whether which one is correct and until one is proven right or wrong then thats the end of discussion. Anyone should accept it if his thoughts are corrected whether a beginner or an old member here. No one is perfect enough to excel at all topics unless youre a genius who dont make mistake at all.
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December 21, 2023, 03:56:48 PM
#8
Newbies/beginners and senior colleagues too do make this mistake of arguing with people in conversations that are not worth arguing about. Instead of responding to some quote where you were corrected you can just learn and remain silent than make some blind arguments that can lead to more wilder conversation that will either be out of point from the actual discussion.
Most times I see people creating enemies for themselves because they want to prove a point that they know some bull shit.
 

Just a friendly advise..


Your advice is valid, but you have to take into account an important factor. Many (if not most) participants in the discussions are participants in signature campaigns that pay for posting, so it will help them to create posts and engage in discussions, no matter how futile it may seem to you. Drama and stirring up trouble is one of the techniques that many people use to find what to write. Unfortunately, this is a fact that is not hidden from experienced members and can also be easily noticed in the “Reputation” board where you may find members intervening in problems that have nothing to do with them, and not only to give an objective opinion, but also attacking others based on ideological differences or misconceptions.
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December 21, 2023, 03:31:58 PM
#7
I have noticed when corrected by older member, some newbies simply take the corrections and move on, others feel their ego bruised and tend to respond defensively, they play victim and try to make it a personal attack on their person. They can’t take criticism from senior members. I will give the same advice someone gave me when I first came here…’grow thicker skin’.
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December 21, 2023, 02:40:53 PM
#6
I've observed a little mistakes that newbies like me usually make during conversations here in the forum. I have made this mistake here before, I suppose it was my first thread I created in this forum where I was arguing about some rubbish I thought I knew about.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..
Yes, you do have a point in this very piece of advice you just gave, because though reputation is one thing people admire both here and off this forum, but most times many people fail to misunderstand the difference while trying to "Prove a point" and when starting an "Arguement", because just as "Proving a point" do requires fact & offers possible solutions to issues discussed, on the other hand, argument are non-factual statements, prone to bring disrespect, red tags here on the forum.

But yet, that you are trying to proof a point to doesn't mean you shouldn't know when to put an end to it, because most people are not always worth wasting your time to prove a point for.
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December 21, 2023, 02:37:10 PM
#5
I will advise my fellow beginners to respect some correction and not make arguments just to prove yourself knowledged. instead of arguing you can just learn without quoting them back and blabbing rubbish. even till now some senior colleagues are still arguing with themselves because they feel they have the knowledge which someone is try to inculcate in them.

Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

Just a friendly advise..


The reason why people argue blindly is because they are ignorant. If they know more they would accept corrections and move on. There is no need to argue without knowledge because it is just a waste of time. However, we are in a forum where we are free to make our points based on our level of intelligence, so we are free to engage in healthy discussions. Sometimes healthy arguments lead to brainstorming which could lead to the discovery of new ideas and information. But if you observe that the member you are interacting with lacks knowledge in the area of discussion and is not willing to learn, I think the best option will be to ignore or abandon the discussion.

In this regard, we have two categories of people that make posts and argue about it, but first of all, I wouldn't want us to call it argue because the forum allows for having discussions and not argument, but under these two categories of people we have that make posts, some knows about what they are saying and were being right, so they can afford the time to argue with you down the line in their discussion on that particular thread.
There are no restrictions to the kind of discussion we can have in the forum. The discussion could be argumentative or others but we should argue respectfully and civilly. There is no need for insults or the use of vulgar words.
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December 21, 2023, 01:57:31 PM
#4
I don't think your were wrong, it's quite okay to argue about what you believe is right, you can't know it all that's why we keep learning everyday. I have engaged in a Crypto-currency discussion argument where I ended up being the one that was wrong but by speaking up on my thoughts I was able to understand more about the topic.
As a newbie question everything, have something to say, that's why you need to build your own knowledge a bit by doing your own research but one thing I would advice is that you always be open to learning.
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December 21, 2023, 01:46:40 PM
#3
Don't make a fool of yourself trying to prove a point for some nonsense reputation that nobody gives a fuck about.

In this regard, we have two categories of people that make posts and argue about it, but first of all, I wouldn't want us to call it argue because the forum allows for having discussions and not argument, but under these two categories of people we have that make posts, some knows about what they are saying and were being right, so they can afford the time to argue with you down the line in their discussion on that particular thread.

Some don't Know about the discussion and instead of accepting being corrected, they will try and lobby around the corner to have some trash to say about, know this that once it's something that deals with crowd or a number of people, you can't do without having things like this, just have to accept people the way they are.
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