Why does that responsibility land only on the woman? Why do men get to fuck about and when conception is the result tell women what they can and can't do with their bodies?
Nowhere did I say woman has the only responsibility. Both hold equal responsibility, but in todays law the woman is the only one who can make a life and death decision on allowing the life to gestate or murdering that life.
It almost sounds like you guys are advocating for controlling sex to make it only exist for the purpose of procreation, not recreation. I mean, condoms break, contraseption sometimes fails, and girls sometimes lie about being on the pill. What if the father does not want a baby, and doesn't want to, or can't, support it financially? (Let me guess, "he should've been more responsible and not stuck 'it's where it didñ't belong?")
That is what sex is. The mechanism for the creation of life. Sure its great for recreational activity between comitted individuals, but that does not negate the fact that sex is the way you create human life. With such awesome power comes responsibility.
If you have a problem with it, do not have sex outside of a relationship in which you want to create said life.
It's your choice no matter how you look on it socially.
Again, with such awesome power, and choice, comes responsibility.
You act like humans have absolutely no control over their sexual desires.
You can, by choice, masturbate or take a cold shower much more responsibly, efficiently, and conveniently than having sex with a woman if its just about recreation