Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 25. (Read 7608 times)

Sometimes, some people think that any habit is associated with the word already and difficult to rehabilitate for the tendency to stop. Even for the habit of watching a sensation movie or a food will become a favorite.

I'm talking about habbits, when doing with the brain and the possibilities that are liked more and more days will increase both portion, duration or variation depending on what habits are done.

I assume that the past 21 days is a start, and the next 21 days you can start organizing / reducing things that are less useful.

I have been a smoker since 2009, the first month I could stand it, but when there was a lot of supply I smoked more there I found it difficult to reduce the number of sticks yesterday.

Long story short, the more cigarettes I spend every day,

until 2018 I got sick with stomach acid, it made me deterrent and the doctor made me realize, the first 3 weeks I felt like a fever and chaos, but I was aware of the pain.

After a strong desire 1 month I did not smoke and it was effective until now.

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what I underline is when there is an opportunity with readiness for everything will change the mindset, and from there the beginning of the transformation to the phase you want including addiction or one's habits in passing the day. especially from the things you mentioned bro.

It's difficult when Someone is betting big and has a good streak , to tell him that at any time he should fold, because he won't, a person is excited when he hits the game and sees that his moves are also correct, but how to stop ? Sometimes you feel that you are going much more than the normal level that one does and well that Excites many and how do you stop there? It is very difficult, things usually happen very quickly and well , so at that moment it is not when you understand that the correct decision is not to buy , it is to continue , because the Profits have to be Lengthened and not Cut, just as it should be done in trading, of course that's a process, maybe that's better, but the good thing is that every time you do this Type of thing when you're in a situation, don't use the martingale strategy, because that's where it causes the biggest problems. losses, it is not good to do it, you must always be careful not to reach the point where you risk so much , this is one of the things that are aware of everything that a Player must Apply.

When a player knows that he is winning well, and has a Loss, he should not try to win the other, he should stop, and if he wants to continue betting it is best to start with the minimum bet, this way the adrenaline will go down because the best thing is that At those times it Doesn't matter to make very big bets and lose, these are the things that you should be very careful about,

Casinos are generally Quite deceptive in the sense that you can get Excited by playing and with your mind thinking that you can win the jackpot, sometimes your players get blinded and start playing on impulse to see if by that luck they manage to win. First of all, then things are not like that either, you have to be very careful, you are risking a lot, it's not just anything, for that reason every time we are faced with any of those situations, we must control ourselves and know how to play and knowing how to win , as well as if you lose , Leave it there so as not to lose more.

That's the point of doing self-reflection, especially after you've been gambling for some time. This is so that you can see the benefits of gambling and decide to keep or stop gambling. And if you don't find any benefits from gambling, you can decide to stop gambling. But if you find pleasure in gambling and can still control yourself, maybe you can still gamble but always control yourself in gambling so that you don't cross your limits. This will help you check whether you can still gamble while having fun or will just be greedy because you want more wins.

Yes, gambling is not an isolated activity in life, it is part of your habits and life and should be integrated into your lifestyle, the people you are with and you job or occupation if you have any. This context can be a help in putting gambling into perspective and use it properly and only while it is fun. Just remember, see around you and will get a better hold on your behavious.

Call yourself to order whenever you're gambling and having nothing to tell concerning your experience in what you do, have a time to run a check on the kind of gambling lifestyle you've had in couple of times, access yourself on a grade level to see if you're proud about what you're doing or not, also check if there's need for an improvement to be implemented, consider the benefits it has served you in many ways and that which you may have lost at the same cause and weigh them all together, if you think you're going too far already, then try to apply wisdom and gamble moderately.

Gamble is okay cause this is the tools when some people are too bored or unhappy they will gamble in order to prevent boredom or problems, which This is what I did when I don't have work then I'll spend  Little time in gambling to prevent boredom. But once a gambler got addicted that is not a good thing for me cause we are all know that once a man/woman got addicted they can't control themselves in terms of betting.

A gambling addict has very big negative side for every gambling activity and every gambling addict cannot have more consideration for every bet he makes thus triggering mistakes that will clearly occur.
But to give advice to gambler will be really difficult to accept because they may not all think that we have advised correctly and the majority of gamblers will only follow their own hearts and minds without caring about what has been suggested by the gambler others.
All of this is quite great because we know that the advice given is not necessarily acceptable but we still continue to give the best positive advice to every gambler to avoid mistakes that could make them worse off.

Can you stop gambling competently because no gambler really stops unless they have really had bad experience that they don't want to repeat.
I did some research on colleague who had gambling addiction problem and he found it difficult to stop even though he had lost money because there was always way to keep gambling at any time.

True, after a gambler wins I think he should take a break because sometimes a winning gambler loses all his money because he has no goals or he doesn't follow any rules and regulation. Gambler must set a goal in gambling otherwise he can lose all of their bankroll at one time even if he wins more. Gambling can be kept under control if a gambler can keep a regular budget in gambling. When a gambler can manage a regular budget, he will not panic to win at gambling. He does not have to ask anyone for a loan to manage his finances. When a gambler can control himself he can gamble free from gambling addiction. Gambling on a limited scale makes it possible to maintain everything nicely.

it is not happiness that brings gamblers to addiction instead that is Greediness mate,so it is truly impossible to distinguish the incoming addicted gambler not unless he is doing so much negativities .

e.g . 

he is borrowing so much money or he is stealing then that is a best indicator of being addicted.

but when there are no such thing then yes people can just enjoy their thing playing and nothing to worry about their gambling habit .

It's true that independence is essential. The basis for personal development is this. And certainly, it's vital to reach out, but shouldn't our primary goal be to take on obstacles directly? It's a long-standing custom to gamble, nevertheless. Yes, there are those who have struck it lucky. But comprehending its nuances isn't the essence of gambling, is it?

Insight, strategy, and discipline are more important in gambling than pure luck. Do we then automatically go to others for help when we find ourselves in a tight spot? Instead, especially when we have the potential, should we try to find our own path first? Certainly something to think about. The crux of the matter is in testing our limits while also understanding when to accept assistance

The inability of an addict to quite is the major reason why we always advice people never to get addicted to anything in the first place and the only way to avoid addiction os to totally avoid the elements or substance that can you addicted in the first place this is so because,  thinking that you can manage yourself to stay above addiction my become a big trap that will get you helplessly addicted.

For me the only way to avoid such a scenario is to quit competently because anything less than that,  it means you are possibly going back to your addiction in a short while.

It is important we try as much as helping ourselves than relaxing at the same time seeking for help. We need to make sure that we plan ourselves for a trial time which can come anytime we don't expect. Gambling had been some that at been in existence for long and there had been people that had really survived in the industry breaking records of making huge profits from a single bet. It is very important that we challenge ourselves and do things without relying on people too much.

It is normal that when we have problem, we need to meet people so we can get help from them but it will not make sense when we are too relax to try as much to help ourselves when we have that privilege. Gambling need good understanding of how things works so that it will aid us to make reasonable profits.

What paxmao said is true, do you know that you can't seat one place and get favour from someone or you can be relaxed and being favoured, seek from people that you know that's better than you, those people are the people who help you, if only they want to render help on you, some people whom being adamant always missed opportunity but when you don't know anything your opportunity is to ask questions and seek for help and you most get a solution to it.

Which is why it would really be that so important that you should really be that minding about the risks on the time  that you do really that tending to play gambling because we know that risks of addiction is really that possible because not all people would really be having the control or setting out moderation because on the time  that you would really be tolerating such thing and then ignore out on the spending that you are making then sooner or later you would really be finding out yourself on having that financial problem on which it is really that something that would most people would commonly be able to encounter on which having those huge problems and this is where self realization would kick in and would really be having those kind of thoughts and murmuring that they shouldnt have done that while its still early.
Well its already late but there's always those moments on which you could really be able to recover it up so it would really be that depending on you.

This is true, when we start something without a budget or plans, this tends to get us to do things with no rules, in addition to that, we should always put ourselves on the check, and draw lines to be able to identify when we are moving out of the boundary,  just as you have mentioned, taking a break is one key thing to achieving this and in putting yourself on the check.

It makes a lot of to talk to someone when we think we no longer can control some situation we find ourselves in, that person you talk to could be your savior.

A Lot of times the problem of addictions and.other gambling diseases are as a result of unregulated  gambling habits and this is why most of the time those that go over the board are all those who fall under this categories and at the same being unable to pull one self back when it become obvious that the gambler is going overly too much.
Sometimes what i do is to have a general timetable that applies to my gambling life each day and thay is what guide my activities all the year round and this way i don't have any point stresing my self to pull back once my time is reach i take a bow, regardless of the position i am, this have helped me a lot of time and also made me more flexible with gambling.

What can limit your gambling status is when you are engaged in any function either work or creative work it will reduce your ambition with gambling, gambling is good when you have calculations of gambling within your hands and whenever you gamble you will know a particular amount you are supposed to spend in gambling within a week or a month, it will be better than spending in gambling without direction, some people used their savings to spend in gambling so its not to use your savings in gambling having monthly map out for gambling is good and it will save you time

I'll start by reducing my gambling time, and also reduced the amount of money I keep aside for gambling. I'll try to discipline myself to stay on budget therefore making it impossible for me to use money that wasn't meant for gambling to gamble. I'll also look for other activities that'll occupied my day and if I was gambling because of money, I'll look for a job that can give me money always through salary. It won't be an easy thing to do but because I know the benefits I'll try to quit.

I'll also involved my loved ones as their motivation will be needed to fully quit. I think why most individual get addicted to gamble is because they're depending on gambling for their income therefore if they can get something to do that pays them always, they will stop depending on gambling for money to feed. This is what I'll do if I wanted to quit.

It's better to use other ways to make money, which might be more promising than gambling. We can also prevent the risk of gambling addiction if we use other methods so that we don't experience gambling addiction problems.

People who are addicted to gambling will change their lives from what was previously good to bad because they are not aware of their gambling addiction. They also don't see what has happened to them because they are covered by the desire to gamble.

We can only try to limit the use of money for gambling. That's because we have to be responsible for what will happen to us and if we lose money in gambling, we won't be able to meet our daily needs. We have used all the money for gambling so our lives have become a mess.

By the way, regarding the question of stopping playing on a certain day and postponing the next game for one or even several days, there is a very simple and understandable mechanism to make this easy and relaxed.  

If you are losing, then you can convince yourself that today is just not your winning day.  And you need to stop playing because failures will definitely continue... simply because today is not your day.  And convince yourself that, for example, in a day there will finally be a happy day and you need to start the next game only when it comes.  And this is all, of course, a bit of mysticism and self-hypnosis, but I believe that the method still works.
 And I think we have all encountered such a happy day, and of course we have all also encountered an unlucky day for the game.