Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 3. (Read 7732 times)

If we take my path in gambling, it went like this: Poker (for a long time), then I tried casinos (this lasted a short period of time, I realized that I didn’t like it), and then sports betting. Now this is the only thing that interests me, so you and I are a little similar in this regard.

But I know that betting on sports also has a downside, and there, too, you can lose your temper after several unsuccessful predictions. And then, as in other gambling games, bet and try to win back, regardless of the result. Again, it all depends on the player's temperament. I am confident in myself that I will do such a thing, although you can never say the word never in gambling.

I think many of them known or have an idea on how much they're going to lose but they just turn their eyes blind when they're already losing.
Ego is hard to beat and recovering is much easier to think of than accepting the big losses that someone might have.
Those that can't track their losses or don't really track at all, many gamblers do that. They're having hard time in figuring out how much budget they will do to gamble.

Who will limit the gamblers to put limited funds in gambling? The gambling sites won't impose such restrictions on them. They will want that gamblers put as much money in gambling (and lose it too). The players themselves have to care about their money and limit their gambling activities. The ideal case should be that every gambler play with only that money which he can afford to lose. They should not bet with extra money other than the one they know can be lost, without causing them much financial loss.


We need to find discipline in gambling before it is too late and we lose all our hard earned money in gambling. The experienced gamblers know the important of risk management and they gamble with discipline and restrict themselves from extra gamble.
If you think that we will win no matter how big risk we take, then we are wrong and soon we will realize our mistake when we face the loss in gambling.

Sometimes it is a matter of maturity, when we are in a casino and we need to make other moves, we are looking to win money, and we need or have the great desire to have more money, if we win more than 100usd, when we bet 10usd sometimes we think that we can win at least a few 200usd and we do everything possible to make things go to that amount, and that I think is the only thing that makes us lose, because we could even reach 150usd and from there it may seem impossible for us to reach 200usd, this is something Because we must see and analyze, so sometimes greed does not make us lose everything, you are right about that, but sometimes when we understand basic things, for example, we know that we have to make moves that are favorable to our pocket. , that if we win, whatever the amount, we must take advantage, if we can withdraw better, or set aside that amount and continue making bets and games with little money, with the minimum bet, this to take care of the money that we have previously won, because what you have won is ours and we should not throw away our luck just like that, we have to take advantage of our luck.

In this case we must do things differently, we already have something gained, and in that sense we have to do things thinking about our gain, that we should not touch that gain to play, because it will go away, if we keep this type of thing in mind. things, for example what is made of profit, and if we are intelligent enough, what we must do to avoid any mishap is to withdraw our money, there is no other way, by withdrawing we are guaranteeing that we have our profit that we are only risking a It's a small part, and if I lose that part, it doesn't matter, we already have our income and that's all that matters, it's worse to leave without income and without money just to succumb to greed.

If he can realize and try to change his mindset, he will see that he has been making mistakes all this time and must immediately make changes so that he doesn't go too far in gambling. They must be able to keep themselves busy by doing other activities to divert their attention from gambling. This is to help him get rid of the desire to gamble, which will not be easy for someone who gambles more and more often. They must continue to train themselves to take these precautions so that they can forget about gambling for a while by doing other activities.

Having awareness from within that sees that they have gone too far in gambling can give them the opportunity to change things for the better and can also prevent them from the biggest problem of gambling, where gambling addiction will come to those who gamble more and more often. By doing many activities at once, they can keep themselves busy and will not think about gambling. And by continuing to do so, they can reduce their gambling activities.

We still see a lot of gamblers who don't limit their budget, so they often gamble beyond their budget limit, often easily going bankrupt and losing a lot of money, so that's the beginning where someone finds it difficult to stop their gambling, that's why there is always a lot of advice given by senior gamblers in This forum is to limit your budget when gambling because it is important to be able to prevent yourself from becoming addicted to gambling.

Don't let yourself go further because the further you gamble, the more money you lose and if you continue to let it happen it will make someone even more addicted to gambling because addiction is difficult to cure, so never let that feeling get deeper, if you already realize that the gambling we are doing is already unhealthy and the further you are from responsible gambling, stop it immediately and take a break because this is the only way you can get rid of the feeling of wanting to gamble, the less the feeling of wanting to gamble the better, after all it's good to gamble within a budget limit and start being consistent to limit myself from going too far.

It is clear from what you say that all gamblers should have a limited amount to gamble in a casino or online. This is the frequent problem of a gambler, which is why it always leads to big losses in gambling. Those who don't know how much they will lose gambling in a casino.

But if we have a set amount to bet on gambling, we can also practice self-control and discipline in gambling. And if all gamblers can do this, for sure there will be many responsible gamblers, as long as we can afford the amount, even if we say a large amount, as long as we can win, and that's how simple it is to understand.

Actually, gambling problems are not only this, apart from how much money can be bet, but there are also many other problems in gambling that can occur and that are detrimental. But if tying this problem is true as you said, it depends on the player's finances, because there are still many gamblers who spend more money than they can afford, such as making loans to return to gambling, of course this is one of the problems that often occurs. This happens because of the greed factor that makes them thirsty for profitable wins, even though gambling itself in my opinion is true this is a game of chance, it will not be possible to always get a win consistently, including those who spend money above their abilities it does not guarantee they will get a win.

Indeed, we should be able to set the amount of money to bet, and what should be avoided is spending money beyond our own abilities.

Perhaps a good option for solving this problem, or rather the problem of how much money can be bet in a game of chance in any round of this game. 
Naturally, this amount can be completely different depending on the financial condition of the player, on his income or on the money he has and which he inherited.  However, I think that there really is an optimal bet size that will allow the player to experience sufficient positive emotions and euphoria if he wins. 
And at the same time, such an amount will not be too burdensome for the player if he loses, which obviously happens according to statistics, of course, more often.
 So, it seems to me that such an amount in the game should be somehow determined by each gambling player based on the experience of his games or calculated in some other way. 
I think this is the most reasonable approach in general to actively and joyfully gambling for many years.

Your budget should not be high because you will only run out of money if your bet is always too big. Maybe it's around 2% to 5%, that's okay and don't gamble every day, that will help you, maybe you'll win more often if you always do this, you have a budget and you only gamble once. Because this is what I do and it is effective, I can enjoy it and win sometimes and the important thing is to avoid becoming addicted to gambling, even if you have a budget as long as you gamble every day you are close to becoming addicted to it.

Do you know that there is a difference between greed and taking risks? To me, one thing I notice about gambling is that we can take risks. In order for us to make unnecessary staking with our budgeted money for gambling, we can go for some kind of odds, which, based on normal sense, we shouldn't, as the risk of losing is higher than the one of winning that game.
 
If one is taking a risk in gambling, it's understandable to me, but when greed takes place, it's hard for the person to always go home with something. We get greedy to some point, but learning to control and put that greed in place will make someone's gambling journey a bit easier.

That's correct. It's just entertainment, it should never be our life. There are more things to do than just gambling and it should never be what we do first thing in the morning, that's just bad time management.
This is why I think sports betting is the ideal game for busy people and those who are trying to avoid gambling addiction. It's super easy and we don't really need to guard our bets the whole day. Actually, it is more fun because we just have to place our bet now and wait for the game to happen then, enjoy it.
I play casino games and I think that is more stressful and we always have the chance to go too far because we can chase the losses anytime. Unlike sports, Games only happen per day and we have to wait the next day if we want to chase the losses. And if we want a higher chance of winning, we don't jump into a sport that we have no idea so we just wait for the next event.
We should be wiser at spending our money. I've done my share of losses in casino games so now I am trying to just focus on sports where I think I am doing better although the profits are not that high.

Until he cope up and able to reset what's originally inside his mindset, diversion is a key to move you away from gambling, if you have something to do that will keep yourself busy, the intension of playing will be reduce and eventually due to those alternative activities that you have in mind you'll be able to forget about gambling and it will be your way to quit and stop your gambling participation.

There are many activities that can really eat your time, especially those kind of activities where both body and mind are actively needed, it will keep you busy and it will need all your attentions.

Yes, that is why we need to balance between greed and what we can achieve thanks to our skill. Like a tightrope walker who is moving towards his goal, but if we stumble, we will immediately fall into the abyss.

I would advise players to concentrate more on their real lives and give gambling little chance to fill our lives. We shouldn't wake up in the morning and run to place bets, this is not right. We must have harmony within us for a productive life, we must enjoy the small joys of life. And after we have it clear in our heads, we can play, but only a little and with small stakes. Otherwise, by increasing the time of play and betting, we allow gambling to take over our real life. I strongly recommend thinking about this if you don’t want to understand it when it’s too late.

It can prevent a person from feeling like gambling again because he tries to divert his attention from gambling by doing many things where he can get many interesting things. If a gambler who has gambled too often feels that he has gotten too deep into gambling, he can do things like that to try to reduce his gambling activities. By doing these things continuously, he will begin to be able to divert his attention from gambling and also reduce gambling activities until, eventually he will be able to really use gambling as an activity that provides entertainment, just like when he does other activities.

Eliminating greed is very difficult because it is an innate human trait. especially if you have experienced defeat, your mind will definitely start to get confused and you will want to return the loss by increasing your bet and in the end you will lose all your money. It's easy to say, but to do it is very difficult.

Skill is one thing I consider very important in gambling, and if you have the skill and know how to calculate your moves, you will be more successful than other random players who depend only on luck to win their bets, unless for those games where luck is truly all they need in order to make it to such an option.
 
On the aspect of greed, even if you have the highest betting skill and are greedy, your greed is going to affect your judgement, which will also affect your choice of game and your game result. We need to get greed out of our minds in order to make the right entry point in gambling, especially on the aspect of chasing losses and also going for high-risk games with higher odds in order to increase our winning reward.

If you are really that planning having those kind of plans on quitting or stopping gambling then it would really be just that normal that you would really be needing to divert yourself into doing
something which wont really be pertains or in connection with gambling. People do usually mess on their lives if they couldnt be able to control their greed and addiction towards gambling.
It is really just that impossible that you wont really be able to determine on which is right and wrong. It turns out that you are really just that basically making  yourself
that tolerate that addiction and then messing up your life with into those wrong decisions you had made. This is where regrets do come in but its already too late
for you to have that recovery.

This that you mentioned is most likely effective whe you as a gambler already want to give a space and have discovered that you are not so much ok with your present condition and with things not going well, so change in engagement and hubby isa welcome development such as change of daily routen activities and even a change of even environment can help alot also, so for that one will likely have a positive outcome on the long run if he follows all the necessary steps and procedures.

But first thing first, as a gambler that want to make a change, you must first of all have a personal decision and mind made up to quite at all means or by want to become more responsible in your gambling dealings, this is what makes you to mentain a stable position while making the changes or gambling.

doing positive activities, enjoying life simply according to one's abilities, healing will help us to stay away and avoid gambling for a while, in the time you spend in positive things you may become aware of the gambling you do so that you start to be aware and avoid gambling that is too deep, this is according to my personal experience because I have also experienced this