Topic: Advice when you are going a bit far in gaming and betting - page 5. (Read 7732 times)

If there's someone who cares for them who can make them realize how much time and money that they already consuming from their gambling might help them to cope up and try to restart thier mindsets, I guess this follows the rules which self-will can be back up by those people who really aiming to help and trying to make sure that you are going to be fine when you try to resolve this kind of a situation while playing.

Being too deep into gambling can result to a much bigger problem, you need to re-assess everything once you have this kind of situation, it can develop awareness and good decision making when tough time already beside you, you just need someone to boost your will to process the right way.

Someone who sees an opportunity to win will try to continue gambling. They no longer think about losing but instead think about how they can win. This requires awareness to see what they have done from gambling and how much money they have used so that they can decide to reduce their gambling activities or continue gambling but with stricter restrictions. But if there is someone who can get close to them and tell them that they are too deep in gambling, the gambler may be able to realize that they are too deep in gambling and need to reduce their gambling activities so that they will not lose any more money. People around them can see that they are gambling excessively, so they are the ones who should provide advice to reduce their gambling activities.

Money is vital and should be spent carefully, as the lack of money isn't good for anyone or project. The gambling journey also needs money to sustain it and provide fun or wins for the gamblers. If a player decides to neglect the need to manage his money, he is not only doing himself wrong, but a bad stewardship to the society. Existentialism is about choices. And whatever it is, gets to affect the society. The money we own also belongs to the society, we didn't create it, instead through some means, a body gave it to us. Hence, maltreating the money will only affect our economy and that of the society. Especially when the gambler runs out of money, he'd be bothered on other financial responsibilities which he needs to look into and resolve.

However, this it not only applicable to gambling, other aspects of life, where money is needed, shouldn't be abused with lots of unaccounted money. The problem with such gamblers is the inability to confide with somebody or listen to the advice of other persons. Although, it's not the gambler's fault, depending on their experiences, the player may have not been oriented enough to understand that gambling requires management skills and self-control to bypass the urge to stake almost all our bank rolls. Losing those trainings, may end up putting the player in a situation where he'd never learn a thing on gambling. Since the process could get to a stage where the newbie or gambler wouldn't stay in control anymore. In a situation where the gambler drinks before gambling, for instance, if not cautioned earlier, it'll be hard to correct when he's now indebted to the habit that he won't reverse his habit anymore.

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In general, I believe that the whole difficulty of maintaining psychological control over oneself in gambling lies in the fact that it is not clear when gambling ceases to be a game for fun, and when it becomes an addiction, when the player only wants to win (in the last stage of addiction, money is not important to him , he already lives only for the premonition of the Game). You should always understand your mood before the game, during it and after the game.
Players play for money, and if it's not fun, then you shouldn't play!

Perhaps this is the line - when you understand that the casino is no fun.
Then you need to stop playing.

         -   If you really see that your capital money is growing in gambling because you know and are sure that there will be income from it, you will not stop it. It is true what you said: there is no reason for you to stop if it is producing profit for you.

Then, most of all, you are happy with what you are doing because it helps you. But of course, if you are always losing, you should stop if necessary as a gambler.

I'm sure this is what every gambler should pay more attention to, understanding must be prioritized and prioritized because it is not uncommon or even most people are wrong in understanding and responding to what gambling is, especially in terms of winning opportunities so that they are very easy to finally enter the addiction phase unconsciously, and of course I am also sure that if gamblers understand about the concept of gambling then surely they will not dare to act carelessly and do things beyond their abilities because of course the risks in gambling are far greater than they imagine.

As we know that gambling is nothing more than a game of chance that has absolutely no certainty and any guarantee of winning at the end of the session, if you want to win then you have to have good luck but the problem is that everyone will never know when they can get lucky and it is very difficult to get lucky in a row and that is why most gamblers lose much more often than win which will only come occasionally.

I always urge my friends to approach their casino budget like concert or football tickets. Entertainment, not assured investment return.

I know the rush, intensity, and potential to win big at the casino. Its fun if we play smart. Setting a loss limit is crucial. This method converts the experience into a safe adventure. Consider it paying for the experience, not the win.

We know the odds favor the house, yet we can still enjoy the game. Responsible gambling involves enjoying the highs, managing the lows, and monitoring our finances. Dont simply think about money—think about fun and experience.

One more idea is to get people to know about the games that are being played. Knowing the odds and the rules can help you gamble more safely and with more knowledge. The idea of encouraging people to learn more about the games they want to play is in line with safe gambling. Encouragement of mindfulness and well-informed choices leads to a better and more enjoyable gambling experience overall.

I think the limit depends on their own thinking, because if they have good thinking maybe they can stop when they lose or win, which means they don't gamble for a long time. and in my opinion the main problem is poor self-control, if only they could control themselves well maybe they wouldn't experience bad things that harm themselves. and it is also rare for people to have self-control when gambling, many of them cannot control themselves well.

Maybe that's the case, there are people who get carried away with the atmosphere so that they initially intend to watch but when they get excited about what's happening they get carried away so they end up placing a bet, but I think this is normal if they're just trying it out, because with them like that, if they have good self-control they will not continue betting again when they get the result at the end of winning or losing, but if they have poor self-control it is likely that they will continue betting where they started betting, which is just to try but with With poor self-control, they become addicted and ultimately cannot stop betting before their money is completely gone.

Of course money is important, because it's not just needed for gambling, but to survive, of course we have to have enough money to cover all our needs and the things we want. That's true, if we can gamble with the money we will lose in gambling then it won't be a problem, on the other hand, with many gamblers who play they tend not to be prepared for the money they will lose in gambling so that when they lose they have their own motives.

It is clear that we must have money that we are willing to lose by gambling, because it is not natural to gamble but not be prepared to lose the money that is at stake, also before that of course we must have good self-control as you said, because of the possibility The big thing is that if we gamble without having good self-control then problems will come, and with big risks that will occur and vice versa, when we have good self-control perhaps the detrimental things will not happen, and what is clear is that it should be We have good self-control so that nothing happens that harms us.

That for every movement in the world you need to have money , there is no other option if we do not have money things will go wrong for us and that will cause us to lose many things, on the personal level we ourselves are people who will always have Something to do well in things. casinos, for everything that a casino means, if we are tempted to play in a casino with money that we can lose, then there are no problems , it is what is recommended  , but even more so if we start to see things when we are in a casino We study how to be able to make money quickly without so much trouble, and that is where the problem lies, because we need to have more, and when we bet more and more we cannot control that, for that reason we must Control ourselves so that These things that are so unpleasant don't happen, I don't know, but I hate losing money in such a stupid way, because it's something that's not within my Budget and it's something that I always have to see that it shouldn't be done.

I have always said that we casinos , when we enter , must be careful with our money, the premise must always be to take care of it and try to save it and multiply it, because otherwise things will not turn out well if we do them for the sake of doing them, we will always look for the best I want to have control and what better way than what I say, if you have money willing to lose you can allocate it only to the game and nothing happens, but if there is no money to lose , we cannot play , playing will always mean losing money, so Otherwise things will be very difficult for them to improve, in this sense we are people who must be responsible with our own things, something as important as money should not be Wasted or treated Badly , much less Badly spent on something that will not bring us benefits, if the casino is for fun, but the control that we must have over the money is Unique and we must not Generate any other type of Feeling.

I agree with you it has often been said that failure to plan, is planning to fail. Without a blueprint, no one can achieve anything, and gambling is not exempted from this universal truth. It is good to make gambling work for you and not become a slave to gambling because of your inability to control your loss.

A lot of people can't boast of anything because they were all lost to gambling. This justifies the necessity for a plan. A gambler who is concerned about the future will not allow gambling addiction to ruin it. Such a person will set a budget and stick to it knowing that not sticking to it means destroying the plan which will affect his prospects.

Without thinking about future doing any kind of work is fully foolish work. If you are not thinking about future then you will face big problems in your future life. Without future plan no one can lead a beautiful life. Because you are westing their economy rickless you dont do savings for your future life. That's the reason thik about future and and do gamble safely.

The main issue here is obviously what level of self-control the player has.  And I still can’t figure out where the line is on how difficult it is for a player to stop betting money on a game. 

Once I saw a cockfight and a crowd of people who bet their last money on one of the roosters.  These were quite poor people and their bets were critical to them.  So here it is.  The very atmosphere of excitement of the game created at these competitions turned such local people into zombies.  They themselves simply did not understand, in my opinion, what they were doing when they gave their last money to the game.  If it weren't for this atmosphere of the game, they would never have paid so much for anything.  It was some kind of mass psychosis. 
So this facet of self-control very much depends on the atmosphere of the game.

No one would afford to give up when they're watching their portfolio grow in tremendous profits. A companion that would understand you all round and ensure they're quite important qualities utilized to belt up the good run. Things will always go wrong because if a gambler doesn't plan, then that indirectly means he plans to fail, a very simple brief statement. The lifestyle of a gambler doesn't seem easy as it sounds, we have addicted gamblers that have already given up on life but with the appropriate association of peers, things will turn around for the better.

That's what is meant, whatever the bet amount, the risk of loss will still be there. As you said, we are guaranteed to be faced with significant losses, which will obviously happen regardless of the number of bets used, even if the bet is large, it does not rule out the possibility of avoiding losses In my opinion, this cannot be avoided, except by minimizing it, that is, with every gambling we do, we don't have to spend a lot of money, just a small amount is set for one gambling session, so if it's finished then there's no need to continue. .

I agree with what you say, as much as possible we must be able to control ourselves well in whatever circumstances happen, winning or losing requires strong self-control, because bad things can happen if you don't have any self-control at all. So I think prevention is better than cure, don't be the same as most other gamblers who experience big losses in just one game session, that is not recommended. Moreover, by depositing money more often and with more money, it doesn't guarantee that you will win, because clearly, as you said, the only guarantee is a loss that is detrimental, that's what you have to remember. because with that maybe we need to consider everything before it's too late.

Yes, I agree with that, if we interpret it correctly then everything will probably produce a positive value, but if it's not like that it will clearly produce a negative value. Many people say that gambling should be done with fun, because that's what it is. most appropriate, but the other side that sometimes makes you curious is, where is the point of enjoyment if gambling is done by frequently losing? Isn't it true that pleasure occurs when you win? I myself sometimes have my own answer, because in gambling there will be a sensation and maybe that can make us happy even if we lose, but according to other people I don't know, what do you think?

That's true, not even just in casinos, in the everyday world, I think money has an important role, because I agree with the sentence "you have money, you have power" I think that's true. When we have a lot of money, there will be many people who claim to be friends, even relatives. If all the money you have is lost in the casino then obviously there's nothing you can do, even if you regret it while crying it won't change the situation for the better.

If we see the casino as relevant for the purpose it is, then we will get an idea of what we can achieve, and it is true that things can be very decisive if we see them in the proper sense because otherwise we will not have problems because it is as it says, if we do We see it as a way of having fun because it is the right thing to do, like going to the movies where you turn off your ticket and it has its function, except that in the casino the functions are sometimes very fast, but the fun remains, we must see the casino as a means of adult entertainment, I have said it many times and this can make things look better, because you have nothing to hide here, the risks are plain to see, you know that it is about money and that you cannot Spending all that is just a matter of urgency, I can say and attest that things are always better when we are careful and have control with the management of our budget. If we have 5000 USD in our pocket, we cannot leave them all in the casino, because that would be a great irresponsibility, things should be different.

When you are seeing things as they are, you know that money is the only fact that matters and by which everyone here in the casino is measured, those who have more money and if they know how to bet, then they will have more fun and at the same time more gambling options. To win, those who have little budget to allocate to losing know that they can lose faster and that they cannot go crazy, it is not ideal because if the money ends up in a casino , then there is nothing to do, or as I have always said, if there is any left If you really want to play it is simple, you go to the mode of playing with fictitious money and you do it, it is the most viable way you can be, now if you are in a physical casino, the money runs out, the best thing is to leave, because there If there is nothing to do, things go wrong and if you have some money , it's easy, it's better to find a cart , or taxi, go home and be safe, then find a way to bet better.

Well, as an option, probably a good option in case of a big win would be to simply cash out an amount of money that is equal to or even slightly more than what was initially deposited in the casino for the game.  Then, in any case, you will be guaranteed against further loss of a significant amount. 
But again, the question of self-control arises; the player will not have to transfer this amount to a deposit.  And this is possible, because when a player loses the money that he did not cash out and previously won, then the thought still comes to his mind that he had already deposited this untouchable money earlier, even before winning.  This is where strict self-control is needed.

When they gamble, it also includes spending their money, and in my opinion, everyone has their own way of spending their money, including gambling. and it's true what you say, it's best not to expect too much money or winnings because by having hopes like that I think it will only make them experience big losses. and if they do gamble, they should be prepared to lose the money they bet, because the chance of losing is greater than the chance of winning.

It's true, the many wins they get they can't manage it well, so they become bankrupt again, sometimes people have a lot of money and they only buy it for temporary items so rarely do they invest it. and indeed self-control is also the most important factor.

that's the right answer, because many of them get big wins but they just continue the game without cashing it out, even though the best option is to cash it out because that's what you have to do when you get a big win, actually there's nothing wrong with continuing the game, but at least it's interesting return an amount equivalent to the capital used at the beginning, so if you lose, at least the capital you have remains safe.

Indeed, if you rest after getting a big win, it is necessary to do this, because what you said is true about the adrenaline that is present will certainly increase so that it will most likely make them more courageous in playing the game. because it seems like it needs to be done, after getting a big win I think I should cash it in and go to enjoy what I have got. Self-control must be paid attention to because it will bring something good, rather than continuing the game because it could be a big risk.

Getting a profit sometimes makes someone arrogant and greedy so they thinks they are expert at gambling so they feels the action they take are always right. They gamble without seeing other people mistake so they can't learn they pay attention to other people who may always experienced big losses or defeated. Maybe if they could see other people making mistakes, many gambler would learn and not be careless so they wouldn't fall too deeps into the world of gambling.

This can be called careless, if you thinks about gambling without thinking, it's the same as throwing away your money and you can't controls your thoughts to use it as best as possible because you are too sure that your bets will winning, even though gambling using skill alone can still result in losses, let alone with gambling without paying attention to what they are playing, of course this is a mistake, and every gambler must learn from his own mistakes or other people mistake so as not to cause things that can harm himself.

Certainly.  It is correct to take a break in the game after a big win.  And the best way, naturally, is to cash in your big winnings.  This process itself will take some time and, accordingly, the adrenaline in the blood from sudden good luck will dissolve a little and begin to disappear.  And the next day, of course, the adrenaline will completely dissolve and the player will be in his normal state.  Then, of course, you can take part of the money you win and start playing again. 
And in my opinion, it’s even better to take a break from the game for a few days.  Then in general the game will be completely familiar and the way you usually play.