Look at XT reddit, they are talking like its some doomsday in about 3 months where Bitcoin will fail. They even have pictures with bombs lol.
I agree. Both sides need to be more civil towards each other and try to work towards compromise. It can be done.
I would support BIP100, BIP102, BIP103 or maybe even BIP106 when implemented as a compromise instead of BIP101 in the interests of reaching consensus, regardless of who does the implementation.